tony litster joins wes today in which we need to learn to love ourselves first and foremost. in order to avoid self-sabotage during this process, we need to shift the mindset from "if you really knew me you wouldn't like me" to "the real me is awesome!" instead of focusing on the darkness within, we need to recognize the light. when we learn to love ourselves, we can share our authentic selves with others and make change for the better. according to tony, there's a difference between intensity vs love. in regards to porn and sex, it becomes an addiction of adrenaline, no longer making a fulfilling love connection. the more we intentionally connect experiences with someone we love, we shift the addiction that porn creates into something good that we then crave. we get back to the natural laws that are self-evident in which are bodies simply tell us by how good we feel, and it just makes sense (like gravity). you chose the story, but then you take action; you start with self-love, learning to accept yourself with the shadow. make an allowance for the humanity and realize that we're all human. links to check out:   beach prophet's 7 irrefutable laws with tony litster huffington post article on the root's of addiction A HUMAN PROJECT podcast about how to teach sex to youth A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on addiction recovery wayne dyer inspirational quotes tony lister's cure the craving site modules from superhuman.life

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talking porn with the beach prophet- tony litster

we have crossroads in life, and sometimes the path we take will dictate the way how the rest of our life flows. today wes and ryan spoke with amy bleuel, founder of project semicolon on the importance of choice. you are choosing to pause and state that your story isn't over yet; you're continuing on. when we make the choice to help others instead of just focusing on ourselves, we find a bigger purpose. we find love. when we create tangible reminders, we find power in what we are capable of as we shift self-destructive patterns to a simplicity of helping others. it's the ultimate hope that if they can push on, so can i; some of the experiences we face are preparing us for something greater later on. this forms a pay it forward mentality to help others as they have helped you because you know that there is something better coming up. links to check out:   project semicolon about amy bleuel amy clover, A HUMAN PROJECT podcast about how it's ok to ask for help google images of ; why faith-based?  elizabeth gilbert, ted talk on creative genius modules from superhuman.life

project semicolon- amy bleuel

wes and ryan are able to make some incredible connections with jack canfield in today's podcast, in which we learn some little known knowledge of jack's childhood, which he described in one word as "challenging" helped shape the rest of his life. the energy we create around us is fueled by finding our life purpose which we can then share with others. when we are able to visualize something, whether positive or negative, we have the power to make it happen, so doesn't it just make sense to focus on the good?!   links to check out:   jack canfield the secret movie transformational leadership council in vail, colorado w clement stone history w clement stone net worth after passing away at 100 years old the success principles by jack canfield les brown romancing the stone catherine lanigan biography dr masaru emoto water experiment documentary the secret life of water book by dr masaru emoto love and gratitude to water experiment picking up another person's vibrations the heart map institute research A HUMAN PROJECT podcast about Wes's experience on a plane muscle testing burj khalifa, tallest building in the world chicken soup for the soul elizabeth gilbert TED talk on your elusive creative genius lynne twist, the soul of money institute tools for success: hour of power by jack canfield modules from superhuman.life

his childhood – with jack canfield

was today really a good day? did the gays really win? today we had a ruling that will forever change the landscape of the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA. in this episode we talk about today's ruling and what we should be bracing for in the future. sanctity of marriage hasn't always been a government thing, it's been a religious thing but now there's a difference between holy matrimony and the union of marriage because the government approves of someone's humanity. it's about having the right kind of conversation. are we celebrating victims or an act that should never have been an issue in the first place? love didn't win today; the law won. the greatest strength we can take from this is to learn to love and move forward by starting a conversation. links to check out:   historical event of allowing same sex marriage in all states interracial marriages illegal until last law absolved in 1967 united states declaration of independence that "all men are created equal" A HUMAN PROJECT podcast 2014 convo stopping the hate between christians and gays A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on developing until we're 25 A HUMAN PROJECT podcast about turning boys into men and the castration of the american male A HUMAN PROJECT podcast with kris vallotton modules from superhuman.life

love wins – a convo about gays

When sharing a message and it comes across as "I'm better than you" rather than look at how much I am loved, feelings of worthlessness and not being good enough take over our self-worth. Religion walks a fine line of condemning sinners and lifting people up to become better than they currently are. Wes and Ryan have a very open discussion on religion and share a few "secrets" (they're really not because it's so simple) that they have been able to use to help lift up others, especially our youth. Perfection is not possible, so instead of shooting for that and continually failing, choose instead to become great. links to check out:   6th crusade which achieved a peaceful decade-long treaty/holy war that was more of a relief effort "the meeting" between mlk jr and Malcolm x A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on human beings not fully developing until the age of 25 The Human Podcast Facebook Page Modules from superhuman.life

how to talk about the “g” word

have you ever felt like love is hard to find? have you felt alone or had to pretend in order to feel like you belong? What do you do to feel real? none of us know the impact of how we are to others, but in today's episode res and ryan address these issues and more with special guest jamie from twloha (to write love on her arms). we are a community, but how do we share that? listen now to hear some amazing suggestions.   links to check out:   jamie tworkowski biography if you feel too much by jamie tworkowski twloha (to write love on her arms) website twloha's if you feel too much book tour page modules from superhuman.life

twloha – jamie tworkowski

how do we identify the misconceptions of breaking out of shame? love your neighbor AS yourself. special guest kris vallotton joins wes and ryan in a riotous podcast talking about their favorite subject; themselves. if you don't love you, you won't love them, meaning everyone else. confidence comes from identity, and identity comes from god.  developing a healthy soul is essential in our social interaction. our souls NEED attention. the more we value someone, the more worried we are for rejection. when we believe we’re not the right one for ourselves, we’ll never find the right person. love is the key.   links to check out:   kris vallotton books on amazon moral revolution A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on the weakness of love A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on second chances 1 corinthian 13 words on the wall about love modules from superhuman.life

a pastor, god and sex – kris vallotton

what are we actually chasing to bring fulfillment in life? wes chats with dale partridge that when it comes to finding true success in life, it's about learning how to balance business and family life, creating purpose and connection with family while pursuing one's life career. what started us here isn't what's going to get us there if we don't take the time now to focus on what is non-negotiable in our life. so where do we find our balance and worth? we're not going to find it in things, but we will find it in our family relationships and accomplishing something. that act of caring for something else in its simplest forms teaches principles that can be taken back into the career world to show priorities and a sincere focus on what matters most in life. links to check out:   Dale Partridge sevenly.org People Over Profit book by Dale Partridge People Over Profit site REI modules from superhuman.life

people over profit – dale partridge

we have become a society full of catchy titles and cell phone videos posted online with the hopes of going viral. so does that mean that we're suffering from a sickness? because the content has become garbage, what does that say about us as a society? according to wes and ryan in today's podcast, writing is quickly becoming a thing of the past. instead of focusing on real issues and problems instead of having a conversation about them, red herrings are thrown around in the form of unexplained phenomena. news has become a misconstrued version of one person's opinion tossed out as fact, without any fact checking or research. this has not only been used on even reputable sites but is now considered acceptable, so when we as a society are actually presented with evidence and facts, we refuse to believe it because of one person's opinion being louder than the sound truth. links to check out:   boston bomber on cnn 2,000 geese fall from sky dead cnn obama "ruining wedding" on golf course and make up for it with an even better location isis world order alex from target viral photo usa today: california has one year left of clean water opinion canada ranked as #1 for smartest country and highest ranked countries modules from superhuman.life   EDITS BY A REDHEAD   Every so often, Wes and Ryan get their facts a little off. Little did they know that by having a redheaded history and English teacher do their show notes, they were also going to get called out when they don't get their history right. I'll try not to make fun of them as well, but you never know what you're going to get with a redhead, so sometimes you'll see this section and sometimes you won't. Below are a few clarifications from statements made during today's podcast: Princess Di was killed in a car crash in Paris Besides the fact that I still remember walking into my house after my first day of work from my first job to watch the news reporting the tragic death of Princess Diana, I also walked right past the very tunnel that she died in while visiting Paris. She did not die in London, Ryan!!!! Pulitzer and Hearst Clearly Wes does not have the soundtrack to Newsies memorized like some girl who shall remain nameless does. This same redheaded girl may or may not have also had a huge tween crush on pretty much every newsboy in the movie, but "The World Will Know" is pretty clear about which big business tycoons they were talking about. Rockefellers (they were oil big wigs) were NOT mentioned in Newsies, but at least Wes got the right time period, so that's something, I suppose. 1994 article of Michael Fey caning This style of journalism, stating facts and using direct quotes without one's own personal interjection has become a thing of the past, but it also allows the reader to make up their own mind about the issue. Yellow journalism What Ryan and Wes are describing with bad journalism getting content out without fact checking isn't new. In fact, it nearly started a war with Cuba! Here are some examples of yellow journalism- present and past and the ignorance of yellow journalism as used by Marshawn Lynch. Canada is not always #1 Wes will be greatly relieved to know that after looking up multiple sources on world rankings in education, Canada may always be towards the top of the list, but it's not always #1. That honor almost always goes to an Asian country. Or Finland. Google search "fallacy"  One of the greatest, albeit difficult, helps I received while learning how to write historical papers came from learning how NOT to commit a historical fallacy.

how 2000 dead geese make Canada #1

noah j elias, famed for his art in disney,  joins wes and ryan to share how important it is to find one's life purpose and seeing the art in living. at 28 he hit a wall with a mid-life crisis and now helps people get to their "you," meaning their unique contribution to the world. it doesn't take a million bucks to live like a millionaire. success can quickly become boring. if we want to succeed, we have to get uncomfortable. many have the desire to change the world, but it will do little good if our own houses, meaning the relationships at home, are not in order. the world is going to gets its greatest value from us that way.  we're meant to do life together, and that's when amazing things get done. links to check out: noah, disney art extraordinaire noah university reimagine conference noah's instagram noah linkedin simon sinek: "people do not buy what you do but why you do it" ted talk acres of love program for orphans in africa modules from superhuman.life

failing forward – noah elias

going from living in the back of a van at the age of 24 to sitting next to whiskeytown lake is the intro for addiction recovery in today's podcast. eric zimmer joins wes and ryan in today's podcast sharing his survivor story after a life of addiction and then recovery. just because we need to focus on our internal state, doesn't mean that we are no longer going to experience bad things, but it's what we do with it that makes the difference. creating a habit is very much like getting rid of or feeding an addiction. the treatment use to be to ignore, but now it's to realize there's a core that needs to be addressed in order to deal with the emotions that come with the addiction by using tools that work for the individual as we continue to contribute to society as a whole. links to check out:   eric zimmer, lead voice of the one you feed podcast  addictions and recovery aa's big book rethinking positive thinking episode on the one you feed podcast  red bicycle in the secret modules from superhuman.life  <img src="http://feedpress.me/9569/1406547.gif" height="1" width="1"/>

going from living in the back of a van at the age of 24 to sitting next to whiskeytown lake is the intro for addiction recovery in today's podcast. eric zimmer joins wes and ryan in today's podcast sharing his survivor story after a life of addiction and then recovery. just because we need to focus on our internal state, doesn't mean that we are no longer going to experience bad things, but it's what we do with it that makes the difference. creating a habit is very much like getting rid of or feeding an addiction. the treatment use to be to ignore, but now it's to realize there's a core that needs to be addressed in order to deal with the emotions that come with the addiction by using tools that work for the individual as we continue to contribute to society as a whole. links to check out:   eric zimmer, lead voice of the one you feed podcast  addictions and recovery aa's big book rethinking positive thinking episode on the one you feed podcast  red bicycle in the secret modules from superhuman.life  

through addiction – eric zimmer

emotional castration of the american male is the topic of the day for with justin from stumvoll consulting here at A HUMAN PROJECT. men have lost their masculine edge and will to fight; they don't know what it takes to be a healthy, strong man anymore because they are given so many contradictory opinions. the fatherless generation is defined in different forms during the podcast, which now has come of age that those without a fatherly example are becoming fathers or father figures and yet have no guidance. it's about leading people back to the concept of what love is all about. when there's a reconciliation of the worth and value as a man, it allows a woman to work as a partner with him as it brings out the gold inside of her and what she was made to be, and vice versa. what if there was a masculine movement instead of a feminist one that declared from men that women deserve a voice and share her authentic self with the world as well? what kind of leaders, both male and female, would we have then? the most manly thing someone can do is to reach that moment of vulnerability and be honest. links to check out:   wesley chapman archives from art of charm with jordan harbinger children's book by kim trumbo about george the generous giraffe justin with stumvoll consulting men that helped bring about women's liberation  the five love languages by gary chapman prince ea's viral video on healthy relationships by loving one's self first A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on getting rid of the shame on shame modules from superhuman.life<img src="http://feedpress.me/9569/1406548.gif" height="1" width="1"/>

emotional castration of the american male is the topic of the day for with justin from stumvoll consulting here at A HUMAN PROJECT. men have lost their masculine edge and will to fight; they don't know what it takes to be a healthy, strong man anymore because they are given so many contradictory opinions. the fatherless generation is defined in different forms during the podcast, which now has come of age that those without a fatherly example are becoming fathers or father figures and yet have no guidance. it's about leading people back to the concept of what love is all about. when there's a reconciliation of the worth and value as a man, it allows a woman to work as a partner with him as it brings out the gold inside of her and what she was made to be, and vice versa. what if there was a masculine movement instead of a feminist one that declared from men that women deserve a voice and share her authentic self with the world as well? what kind of leaders, both male and female, would we have then? the most manly thing someone can do is to reach that moment of vulnerability and be honest. links to check out:   wesley chapman archives from art of charm with jordan harbinger children's book by kim trumbo about george the generous giraffe justin with stumvoll consulting men that helped bring about women's liberation  the five love languages by gary chapman prince ea's viral video on healthy relationships by loving one's self first A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on getting rid of the shame on shame modules from superhuman.life

boys to men – justin stumvoll

as a follow up from our last episode on boundaries, wes and ryan delve head on into ways we can become more aware of encounters we have in life with some simple tools for success. there's a lot that occurs every moment of everyday, but how much of it do we really even notice? by being more aware of our surroundings, we are able to see opportunities to build on our humanity and create a better world by bringing awareness for a better society. links to check out: geocaching A HUMAN  PROJECT podcast about unbroken movie ptsd and the myth of ww2 article new year brings new utah laws news article nomore.org for domestic violence awareness modules from superhuman.life  <img src="http://feedpress.me/9569/1406549.gif" height="1" width="1"/>

as a follow up from our last episode on boundaries, wes and ryan delve head on into ways we can become more aware of encounters we have in life with some simple tools for success. there's a lot that occurs every moment of everyday, but how much of it do we really even notice? by being more aware of our surroundings, we are able to see opportunities to build on our humanity and create a better world by bringing awareness for a better society. links to check out: geocaching A HUMAN  PROJECT podcast about unbroken movie ptsd and the myth of ww2 article new year brings new utah laws news article nomore.org for domestic violence awareness modules from superhuman.life  

3 ways to create perfect awareness

there's just something about the holidays that bring out the true nature of a person. not only that, it's enhanced, so if someone is naturally depressed because of situations in life, that depression can become almost overwhelming come the holidays. what happens when it's just too much to take anymore? everyone has the capability to be sad and has experienced sadness in some way in their life. but, there's a big difference between having sadness like the blues rather than depression; depression is when it starts to hurt a person's soul. the #1 thing you can do if you have somebody in your family that is struggling: go on a walk and use your ears, not your mouth. weather, food, and the stress of performing the part for the holidays becomes very very stressful for someone overwhelmed with depression. links to check out:   upworthy article during world suicide prevention day A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on the power of words A HUMAN PROJECT podcast of how doctors are murdering children prescription drug side effects true or false: suicide rates increase during holiday season self-sabotage journal therapy modules from superhuman.life<img src="http://feedpress.me/9569/1406550.gif" height="1" width="1"/>

there's just something about the holidays that bring out the true nature of a person. not only that, it's enhanced, so if someone is naturally depressed because of situations in life, that depression can become almost overwhelming come the holidays. what happens when it's just too much to take anymore? everyone has the capability to be sad and has experienced sadness in some way in their life. but, there's a big difference between having sadness like the blues rather than depression; depression is when it starts to hurt a person's soul. the #1 thing you can do if you have somebody in your family that is struggling: go on a walk and use your ears, not your mouth. weather, food, and the stress of performing the part for the holidays becomes very very stressful for someone overwhelmed with depression. links to check out:   upworthy article during world suicide prevention day A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on the power of words A HUMAN PROJECT podcast of how doctors are murdering children prescription drug side effects true or false: suicide rates increase during holiday season self-sabotage journal therapy modules from superhuman.life

how to save a life by having a conversation about depression

sometimes we're so focused on the end goal of the future that we're too distracted to enjoy the present. listen in as wes and ryan have an incredible conversation with blair reynolds from on the beam about what drives people and how to avoid self-sabotage. they go over the keys to success as you listen to a budding bromance continue. links to check out:   one of three on the beam curators: blair reynolds on the beam: a new environment for entrepreneurs titans of industry A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on dealing with emotional pain by curing, not treating A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on asking for help when dealing with one's own elmo effect A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on ryan losing weight recidivism A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on finding power in vulnerability A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on getting rid of shame wes's river video and experience from it A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on success meet ralph modules from superhuman.life<img src="http://feedpress.me/9569/1406551.gif" height="1" width="1"/>

sometimes we're so focused on the end goal of the future that we're too distracted to enjoy the present. listen in as wes and ryan have an incredible conversation with blair reynolds from on the beam about what drives people and how to avoid self-sabotage. they go over the keys to success as you listen to a budding bromance continue. links to check out:   one of three on the beam curators: blair reynolds on the beam: a new environment for entrepreneurs titans of industry A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on dealing with emotional pain by curing, not treating A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on asking for help when dealing with one's own elmo effect A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on ryan losing weight recidivism A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on finding power in vulnerability A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on getting rid of shame wes's river video and experience from it A HUMAN PROJECT podcast on success meet ralph modules from superhuman.life

3 things that will bring meaning to your life

A HUMAN PROJECT podcast is a conversation between our founder, Wesley Chapman and long time supporter Ryan Andrews. Each week they tackle hard hitting issues facing humanity today. The sole purpose of the podcast is to get you thinking and to start a conversation. A HUMAN PROJECT is a for-purpose organization creating an international movement. Our global mission is to create a community of empowered youth. A world wide community without borders and without limitations. Creating ultimate empowerment and enabling youth to succeed regardless of their surroundings and situations. A.H.P. is giving youth the tools they need to create long lasting and positive habits. By doing this we give youth the opportunity to break the cycle of hopelessness many of them have endured. We believe that every child is created for a purpose and that each child deserves to experience ultimate joy.

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