 In episode 39 of the Asia Dating Podcast McConnell, Kane Vast and I sat down to discuss Rollo Tomassi's "The Red Pill Lessons of Will Smith," an episode of his podcast where he discusses the Will Smith and Jada Pinckett-Smith "cheating" scandal. And I put cheating in quotation marks because they were separated at the time, but more on that in the podcast. It was a great conversation that got pretty emotional at times and hearing McConnell get all worked up was a big part of the fun: The manosphere and what it is structured game vs natural game outer game vs inner game The red pill female nature vs environment and technology Men's rights activists The internet echo chamber MGTOW and why you should stay away from women Incels Why you should love feminists and they are the best thing to ever happen to men Real life vs internet life The chad Alpha >> Beta and the problems with red pill thinking Find a dominance hierarchy you can succeed in Blue pill Choose your own value structure Who has the sexual power? Do guys want to have sex with their wives? Female privilege and double standards Feminists are wrong...not all societies need them Were the 1950s the best time? Men get so screwed by the legal system You can determine how your relationships are by how you setup your life Why you should create your own rules Always seek to make your life better The problem with hyphenated last names #1 question: are you getting what you want? To make sure you don't miss out on any of PickUp Asia's podcast, like and subscribe! PickUp Asia offers boot camps and seminars on dating and relationships in Japan, Korea, China and other parts of Asia. 

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The Red Pill "Lessons" of Will Smith?

 McConnell and I sat down with a special guest, Sona, who has been living in Taiwan for 14 years, and is so plugged into the culture that he runs a Chinese YouTube channel where he talks about Chinese and American hip-hop music and culture . It's a great conversation where we cover everything from slang and language learning to parkour to the local Taiwanese dating scene: weird Chinese slang: the meaning of "cow cunt" and "good dick" learning Chinese Sona's origin story" A man must go on a quest, and my quest will be THERE!" DJing around Asia Acting in Asia Building a Parkour business in Taiwan Korean hustle The Taiwan dating (horror) scene RedpoleQ's scummy dating stories Is it you or do Taiwanese girls suck? Having standards and setting boundaries to have a sustainable relationship Teach people how to treat youTaiwanese girls gone wild: temper tantrums Be willing to lose someone great in the name of your own self-respect Taiwanese girls and their crazy expectations and a whole lot more... 

Sona - A Journey to the Top in Asia

 Kane, McConnell and I sat down to discuss the book, The Truth, by Neil Strauss where he talks about how he was able to hang up his player, pickup artist shoes and choose monogamy and marriage. It's a great book, well worth reading and there is so much to unpack and learn from and plenty to think about including: How to lay down a great routine DHV - Display of Higher Value American ideas about sex, dating and relationships Let the girls get ready instead of encouraging them to be ugly Western delusions about sex and relationships The post-consent dating world of Tinder Why dating apps are not your friend Sex addiction...is it a real thing? The dangers of porn and masturbation Is it trauma or is it life? Successful enough to fail rather vs failing enough to be successful Bandaids for your dating lives and how to avoid them It's important to make your sexual fantasies come true Rules vs intents in relationships Compersion - Is it possible to enjoy your partner's sexual pleasure with someone else? Swinger's parties and the many ways to enjoy them Relationship Management and how to do it all wrong To live your fantasies, you have to think practically Is being divorced with kids, the best life? and a whole lot more... 

We Discuss, "The Truth" by Neil Strauss

Kane, McConnell and I sat down with VONNY LANG to catch up on her new new lifestyle--monogamy and marriage! Who would have thought? The usual whackiness ensues in this podcast, including: Open minded dinner parties Naked yoga Vonny's matchmaking Fire breath orgasm How she met her husband aka Superman Don't let your ego stop you from getting the women you want Vonny's road to monogamy Jealousy is healthy feeling Muse Vonny inspires "love" poems Who licks pussy better, men or women? How to know you're ready for marriage What's so great about marriage? A pep talk from Vonny Let's talk about monogamy and a whole lot more... 

Vonny Lang Hangs Up Her Play Party Shoes

 I sat down with Kane and McConnell to answer questions from a Japan Lair member who is just getting started with women and has a lot of fundamental misunderstandings and internal conflicts about women, dating and sex. In addition we answered some questions from other listeners as well, and talked about a WIIIIIIIIIDE variety of topics including: How do I avoid gold diggers and money wasters? I want to find a nice, pure girl. Any tips? Why you shouldn't sleep with "easy" girls I'm a virgin, what should you do? Any tips on avoiding ladyboys, shemales and transgenders? I'm not white, do I still have a chance with East Asian girls? What are the easiest places to meet Asian girls in Asia? How to guarantee that girls will lie and take advantage of you The 3 things that could be standing in your way of success with women Why you may need to stop being you Why you need to be around who you want to become What to do when a girl sees your messages with another girl How to keep both girls happy after a 3-some and a whole lot more...   Get the full show notes at RedpoleQ.com

YOUR Questions Answered #7

 I sat down with Kane and McConnell to talk about a wide variety of topics. We talk more about relationships, the idea of "open" relationships, how to stay young and relevant, and of course share wacky stories from our past. In addition to that, we talked about some of our sexual preferences, some relevant personal development concepts, and of course we talked about, "game" including: How to be a black male in Korea Do you really want an "open" relationship? Friends with benefits, girlfriends and other arrangements... Is communication about everything always the best way? Adventures in compersion "Mimes are the bagels of entertainment." Offline to online shift The secret to staying young Why young people don't respect older people and how you can avoid that As an older guy, the pitfalls to avoid to keep smashing young puss, lols! and a whole lot more... See the full show notes and get all the links to everything mentioned in this episode AND ask a question you want answenred on the show at http://RedpoleQ.com/podcast-34 

More on Relationships and How to Stay Young (And Keep Dating Young Chicks)

I sat down with Kane and McConnell to talk about a wide variety of topics, especially how to manage dating multiple people. We talk about the pitfalls, what to avoid, what to do to keep things from getting too messy and OF COURSE share some stories. In addition to that, we talked about some of our sexual preferences, some relevant personal development concepts, and of course we talked about, "game" including: Christmas in Japan Girls touching themselves and getting a hard pounding Multiple orgasms How and why to be tough on yourself but compassionate with other people Game giving you a bigger toolkit and a bigger toolkit can fix more issues Girls dating multiple guys How live streaming is like dating Find out if guys really cheat more than girls do McConnell's fellatio taxi and fellatio cinema double feature! Why you should ask why first How to PROACTIVELY manage your relationships Girls can be annoying when they really like you Look out for those "yes ladders," they're a slipper slope to hell How telling the truth can get you into trouble McConnell's trixy tactic and a whole lot more... To get links to all of the books, videos, concepts etc that we mention in the podcast, go to the episode page at RedpoleQ.com

Dating Multiple Girls

In the last podcast we discussed how marriage affects pickup and this time when I sat down with McConnell and Kane we discuss the role of "side-pieces" in marriage and relationships and what the pros and cons are.   As usual the conversation went on a lot of different bizarre, educational and hilarious tangents and you'll learn why we think that having a side-piece is so advantageous in many relationships, including:   The practical aspects of having a side piece Mini  "side ho" holidays keep you sane A great way to cure your scarcity Don't think with your emotions Why and when to use a "safe word" Gives men leverage in the relationship Side girl makes you appreciate your main girl more Be a man with a plan Developing your relationship guidebook Date more people to get more relationship experience Now what you will and won't compromise on Is it weird not to want to get married and be single forever?   Mentioned in this session:   Our Interview with Ellie:   http://redpoleq.com/podcast-21/   The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem     https://www.pickupasia.com/the-shadow-knows-part-i/     What McConnell Is Packing:     More Than You Ever Wanted to Know about Pegging   https://www.reddit.com/r/RandomActsOfPegging/         Listen and Subscribe to Us on YouTube!   https://www.youtube.com/pickupasia   SignUp for 10 Simple Steps to Get More and Better Asian Girls and also get the Asian Dating Playbook so you'll always be up to date on the latest!          

How a "Side-Piece" Can Help Your Primary Relationship

 I sat down with McConnell and Kane to discuss how marriage impacts dating and relationships and all the various setups possible and then we dive into a discussion of Tinder that was sparked by an interview with Jordan Peterson on Femsplainers (linked below).   We also spent some time talking about the book, Selfie, which was a book club book for our Approach Mastery boot camp alumni that charts the evolution of the ideal self from the Greeks until the present moment of personal development, and even throws in some comparisons with Asia for good measure!   As usual the conversation went on a lot of different bizarre educational and hilarious talents and you'll learn why we think Online game is bad for men, including:   Who McConnell would trade lives with Kane's marriage setup (Yup, he's married!) How to decide what you want then plan for the worst to get the best Why it's harder to make changes in marriage than when you're dating Kane on turbulence theory How online game makes men weaker and women cheaper How girls can use Tinder to their advantage That great pictures can get you laid, but it's great social skills that get you a relationship How women miss out on valuable social experience because of Tinder How to be the best human you can be according to western civilization The cutting edge of personality research---The Big 5 Personality Traits---model as a key and a map to yourself and others and a whole lot more...   Mentioned in this session:   The Young Cub Gets Topped   http://redpoleq.com/podcast-27/   Our Interview with Ellie:   http://redpoleq.com/podcast-21/   Yumi From MySiliconeLoveDoll.com       Call Her Daddy   https://www.barstoolsports.com/shows/call-her-daddy   The Problems with Tinder - Jordan Peterson   https://youtu.be/hKUffHXOb8U?t=3885   Hannibal - Silence of the Lambs   https://youtu.be/WCSZfmbFJyQ   https://youtu.be/vNcoHQrveEQ   Hannibal: the Original OG and Scourge of Rome   https://youtu.be/T3jmhzO8YZE   https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hannibal   Selfie by Will Storr   Interviewed on the You Are Not So Smart Podcast     Get the Book!     The Big 5 Personality Traits   https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Five_personality_traits Take the Test!   http://understandmyself.com Myers-Briggs https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myers%E2%80%93Briggs_Type_Indicator Enneagrams https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enneagram_of_Personality Listen and Subscribe to Us on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/pickupasia Got a question you want us to answer on the Asia Dating Podcast? Ask it here and we'll get to it in a future episode! SignUp for 10 Simple Steps to Get More and Better Asian Girls and also get the Asian Dating Playbook so you'll always be up to date on the latest! 

The Pros and Cons of Marriage and Tinder

  This podcast was actually recorded quite a while ago but we made a shift to a new podcasting service so it's taken a long while to get out. This one was recorded with Kane while I was in Shanghai so the audio quality isn't quite as good as usual so please bear with us. It was a top notch discussion and in it you'll learn: The difference between "game" and "a game" and why it's important to understand for life and relationships What a Swiss army knife and game have in common How game lets you "choose your own adventure" Why sex with new girls is good but sex with the same girl(s) is even better How learning pickup will help you make more money How Vonny Lang deals with jealousy in swapping and swinging The real way to measure relationships isn't by "love" and a whole lot more... Mentioned in this session: The Relationship Mastery Seminar This 2-day 16+ hour seminar will make sure that you are in control of your relationships so that you get more of what you want from the women in your life with minimum hassle and drama. Get MORE INFORMATION or SIGNUP Jordan Peterson on Hierarchies and Games https://youtu.be/EN2lyN7rM4E?t=46m38s (Watch until 58min 30sec) The Game by Neill Strauss Sunrise Over Angkor Wat Vonny Lang's Swinging Lifestyle   http://redpoleq.com/podcast-24 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_behavioral_therapy In-Field Video Approach Review w/ Kane Vast https://youtu.be/-3wX8pYO2As Got a question you want us to answer on the Asia Dating Podcast? Ask it here and we'll get to it in a future episode!  

Choose Your Own Adventure

This time we have a format that we haven’t used in a long time–in this session, Kane Vast and I will discuss the book, Our Inner Ape, by Frans de Waal, one of the top researchers on primate behavior and evolutionary psychology in the world. We’ll be slowing it down from the last episode which was EXTRA wild and bring up the intellectual level of this podcast a few notches, lols. If you like these kind of episodes, we can definitely do them more often. If you like it and want to see more of these,  let us know in the form below! In this session you’ll learn: Why you should read up on evolutionary psychology–even if you’re a creationist! Variable rewards: what they are and why you need to start doing this with your girls ASAP The allure and mystique of older men, explained! The life of alpha males Society vs Reality: see beyond what people want you to see Does size matter? Big fish, small pond strategy and a whole lot more… 

Our Inner Ape – Part 2

This time we have a format that we haven’t used in a long time–in this session, Kane Vast and I will discuss the book, Our Inner Ape, by Frans de Waal, one of the top researchers on primate behavior and evolutionary psychology in the world. We’ll be slowing it down from the last episode which was EXTRA wild and bring up the intellectual level of this podcast a few notches, lols. If you like these kind of episodes, we can definitely do them more often. If you like it and want to see more of these,Â  let us know in the form below! In this session you’ll learn: Why you should read up on evolutionary psychology–even if you’re a creationist! Variable rewards: what they are and why you need to start doing this with your girls ASAP The allure and mystique of older men, explained! The life of alpha males Society vs Reality: see beyond what people want you to see Does size matter? Big fish, small pond strategy and a whole lot more… http://adm-free.s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/Podcast28_mixdown.mp3 Mentioned in this session: The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida DCBKK Our Annual Event, DCBKK, in 25 Photos Frans de Waal TED Talk on Alpha Males Phallic Sheath – Koteka *as it turns out, the size/length of the sheath has nothing to do with status, oops! The Myth of the Middle Class Alpha Male PDF Download Sperm Wars by Robin Baker The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins The Red Queen by Matt Ridley Global Problems of Population Growth with Robert Wyman SignUp for 10 Simple Steps to Get More and Better Asian Girls and also get the Asian Dating Playbook so you’ll always be up to date on the latest! What's YOUR Question? Type in your question about dating, sex and relationships with Asian women OR about living and working in Asia* Enter your question(s) here and we'll answer them in an upcoming recording. Name This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. The post We Discuss “Our Inner Ape” appeared first on RedpoleQ.

We Discuss “Our Inner Ape”

This time we have a two part episode. The first part was recorded with Kane Vast while I was still in Shanghai, and the second part is with McConnell back in Taipei. This is definitely one of the more exciting Asia Hang Suite Sessions where we’ll hear all about covert cat wars (ie girls vs girl action) and McConnell’s very cougar introduction to the world of S&M as a sub PLUS we answer YOUR questions! In this session you’ll learn: The best spots for gaming girls in Asia That girls are going to be disappointed, so you might as well decide how to disappoint them for your own benefit Holiday musical chairs and how to manage multiple girls The dangers of honesty as the best policy Cat Wars!: When women go head to head Why you should replace your lidded trash cans How to control your nest so you don’t get busted Asian Anal Adventures Frame games That sex is a dirty business so let’s party! McConnell’s young cub S&M adventures: origins and a whole lot more… https://s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/adm-free/Podcast27_mixdown.mp3 Mentioned in this session: Weekly Q&A Signup with Kane Vast http://www.pickupasia.com/weekly-qa/ Approach Mastery Boot Camp This 3-day long intensive course teaches you the important steps from meeting girls to getting dates while giving you the foundation for running first dates that lead to sex.Â  Ready to kickstart your dating life NOW? Get More Information Tokyo Pub Crawl http://tokyopubcrawl.com/ Sex Is Dirty, Dirty!Â  “Let’s Party” May – September Magic https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/May-September_romance “She said she did all the work!” – Clerks Slightly Numb GIrls Shibari Department H Tokyo Fetish Party Steve Osada – Teaches in English Hajime Kinoko – McConnell’s teacher Spy the Lie Singapore Chicken Rice SignUp for 10 Simple Steps to Get More and Better Asian Girls and also get the Asian Dating Playbook so you’ll always be up to date on the latest! What's YOUR Question? Type in your question about dating, sex and relationships with Asian women OR about living and working in Asia* Enter your question(s) here and we'll answer them in an upcoming recording. Phone This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. The post When Girls Go Head to Head and Adventures in S&M appeared first on RedpoleQ.

When Girls Go Head to Head and Adventures in S&M

I was in Shanghai for a boot camp alumni’s wedding, and then I had the Art and Science of Sex Seminar and lucky for me that means I got a lot of time with our man in China, Kane Vast! And even better, that means that YOU get to hear straight from the man as we answer your questions. In this one, we talk about why you don’t want the girls that come to you, and give you a few things you can do to get your ready to approach women, PLUS: How to get out of your negative mind looops How to use real live evidence to change your mindset–it’s SCIENCE! You’re boring, and how to fix it How do I get women to come to me? Are Asian girls shy?Â  Maybe…maybe not Date more girls before you look for the one(s?) Be weak or get what you want–you decide Are Asian girls easy? and a whole lot more… https://s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/adm-free/Podcast26_mixdown.mp3 Mentioned in this session: PickUp Asia In-Field Video Charisma on Command Approach Mastery Boot Camp This 3-day long intensive course teaches you the important steps from meeting girls to getting dates while giving you the foundation for running first dates that lead to sex.Â  Ready to kickstart your dating life NOW? Get More Information SignUp for 10 Simple Steps to Get More and Better Asian Girls and also get the Asian Dating Playbook so you’ll always be up to date on the latest! What's YOUR Question? Type in your question about dating, sex and relationships with Asian women OR about living and working in Asia* Enter your question(s) here and we'll answer them in an upcoming recording. Phone This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. The post YOUR Questions Answered #6 appeared first on RedpoleQ.

YOUR Questions Answered #6

Recently, I attended a conference for location independent entrepreneurs in the hopes of meeting some cool people and getting some knowledge to help me improve PickUp Asia. And lucky for YOU (and me) a guy named Daniel Peleg gave an amazing talk about how to manage your psychology and emotions for success in business.Â  Listening to the talk, I thought that you guys could definitely use these tools! Dating is tough and women know exactly how to destroy your mind.Â  In this session, you’ll learn how to build the mental armor you need to protect youself against the slings, arrows and heavy artillery that will come your way when you try to do better with women. In this one, we talk about tools you can use to control your thoughts and emotions including: Why you should get a coach How you can control your thoughts and emotions Why you should start meditating, TODAY! The focus principle and how it makes or breaks you How to destroy the inner critic that’s crippling your success How to keep a close eye on your emotions so you can feel good more often Three tools you can use for mental and emotional health and a whole lot more… http://adm-free.s3.amazonaws.com/podcast25.mp3 Mentioned in this session: Power Poses https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2016/03/30/472250698/to-catch-someone-on-tinder-stretch-your-arms-wide Emotional Awareness Apps Android: Blip, blip IPhone SignUp for 10 Simple Steps to Get More and Better Asian Girls and also get the Asian Dating Playbook so you’ll always be up to date on the latest! What's YOUR Question? Type in your question about dating, sex and relationships with Asian women OR about living and working in Asia* Enter your question(s) here and we'll answer them in an upcoming recording. Email This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. The post Control Your Thoughts, Control Your Emotions appeared first on RedpoleQ.

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