Listener Katie M. shares her serendipitous meeting with her future husband (which we thoroughly dissect), plus Barbara updates us on how app-y she’s Feelding. Regarding the (currently averted) IATSE strike – which is ALL THE FILM UNIONS – check out @IA_Stories on Instagram.

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DL018 How We Met – Katie M.

Vera talks Barbara into signing up with Feeld, a “dating app for couples and singles” she discovered through Lisa (Ep. 005A). Not a paid promotion (But it could be! You hearing us Feeld? You need our Venmo or?)

DL017 Twinterlude – F Buddy

Barbara reveals the shocking twist of last episode’s dating disaster, and Vera doth protests her undead love. Plus, vintage hip-hip and modern-day cat calling!

DL016 Twinterlude – Vampirical Gangster

We were so lucky to speak with the author of THE CONSENT GUIDEBOOK herself! Erin Tillman is a Dating Coach, Intimacy Co-ordinator, and Executive Director of Sex Positive LA. Find everything you need to know at Erin at TheDatingAdviceGirl.com Regarding the Twinsight: (A) Share your “How-I-Met-My-Partner” personal story with us!

DL015 Twinterview – Erin Tillman

The twins discuss Erin Tillman’s fantastic guide to enthusiastic consent, plus talk mom-dates, boundaries, and Barbara’s dream date/new roommate! Follow Erin on Instagram @datingadvicegrl and @sexposla !

DL014 – The Consent Guidebook

Trigger warning : Barbara continues her recollections of teenage assault. Plus letters from abroad, Worzel Gummidge, a leather onesie, and facing social anxiety in real time.

DL013 Twinterlude – Me Three

Hold onto your hat, it’s a twinterlude/twinsight two-fer! Vera reveals her new degree, while Barbara examines some perplexing encounters of the virginal kind. Plus, the twins revisit last episode’s discussion of assault, and how not to be an a-hole over someone else’s trauma (TW, dear listeners). And now for a

DL012 Twinterlude – Virgin Gigolos

The twins explore the work of one Dr. Patricia Allen, including her weekly call-in show on LA Talk Radio (tl;dl? Skip to 32:30!) Trigger warning: this episode contains discussion of sexual assault. But first, a tribute to their departed friend, artist Albert Cuellar. Please visit his Instagram @ArtSpecter1 to see

DL011 – Getting To I Do

If synchronicity – or twinchronicity – were an interview, this would be it. Natasha first came to our attention as La Cholita, the crowned-queen of the 2007 Viva Las Vegas festival, and fellow performer in the Velvet Hammer burlesque revue and Lucha Va VOOM. After years touring the world with

DL010 Twinterview – Natasha Estrada

The final act is here! Will the triplets ever accept their birthday books about Presidents? Have you won an award for faking it? And what’s YOUR favorite Glory Hole – we got ours! Thanks for following us on this epic journey through Dr. Emma Goodall’s guide to life and love.

DL009 Act 5 – The Autism Spectrum Guide to Sexuality and Relationships

What happens when your ex’s bud tries to kiss you at a pumpkin carving contest?

DL009 Act 4 – The Autism Spectrum Guide to Sexuality and Relationships

DL009 Act 3 – The Autism Spectrum Guide to Sexuality and Relationships

DL009 Act 2 – The Autism Spectrum Guide to Sexuality and Relationships

Act 1 of so many Acts!! April 2nd is World Autism Awareness Day! Learn more at Autistic Self Advocacy Network autisticadvocacy.org & autismacceptance.com

DL009 Act 1 – The Autism Spectrum Guide to Sexuality and Relationships

Barbara updates us on her dating app trolling experience and talks bullies, while Vera talks balls of boozy breakfast!

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Datey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera Duffy

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