Are you dating after divorce? Tough. Are you dating after divorce WITH the baggage from your previous relationship? Ugh. Don’t even get me started. My guest today is Author, Speaker, and Transformation Coach Tonya Carter who talks about reinventing yourself after divorce, what she does, and how she helps her clients with her strategies so they can manage their relationships in life, work, and business. Tonya is a certified speaker, transformation coach, author, and podcast host who works with women to discover their voice, build themselves from the inside out, become leaders in their homes, and find their life’s purpose. Being a single mother of two, Tonya realized that she allowed her circumstances to hold her from discovering her true life’s purpose. Experiencing divorce, five job losses in four years, unhealthy relationships, financial hardships, health setbacks, and balancing single motherhood took its toll mentally, emotionally, financially & physically. She decided to stop being the victim and became the victor of her life, and she wants the same for other women.  As a certified consultant, Tonya works with women entrepreneurs to discover their inner genius, create an environment for others on their team to develop a win/win, and use the best communication tactics that manage others to form successful team building and performance. Tonya has written a book titled “Divorce Your Story: A Woman’s Guide to Heal & Thrive after Divorce” and also facilitates a 12-week T.H.R.I.V.E Program that walks women through the process of uncoupling by providing support, advice, resources, and tools that will help mitigate interruptions in their business, work performance, and household obligations. And has a podcast called The Reinvent U Podcast, which focuses on mindset, emotions, finances, health, faith, and building meaningful relationships to become the best version of themselves in their personal & professional lives.  Thank you, Tonya, for joining me again on Doing Relationships Right!    Connect with Tonya at: Website: https://www.tonyacarter.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mstonyacarter/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/mstonyaspeaks/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/mstonyaspeaks/ YT: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyWknAeYLmdbWdMfGcP0tiA?view_as=subscriber   Grab a copy of Divorce Your Story: https://www.divorceyourstorybook.com/   Listen to her podcast, The Reinvent U Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-reinvent-u-podcast/id1493902249   Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!    Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!      Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast     Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!     You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/     Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [2:24] More about Tonya and her story [5:08] How he helps her clients [8:59] You cannot date without getting divorced from your story [12:52] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [13:52] Does she think that men are too quick to move into new relationships? [19:00] Mrs. to Me Summit on March 25 - 27, 2022 [19:37] Her book, podcast, and mini-course [24:07] Outro

Doing Divorce Right (or Avoiding it Altogether).

How to Divorce Your Story with Transformation Coach Tonya Carter

WE LIVED IT, SO WE GET IT! Yes, yes, and YES!! You have to go through a divorce to completely understand it!  And today, I have the incredible ladies from exEXPERTS, T.H. Irwin and Jessica Klingbaum! And just like me, Jessica and T.H. have been through divorce and lived to tell about it- the good, the horrible...and the WTF is going on! I wrote books about my experiences, and they BUILT A WEBSITE AND ONLINE MECCA! Find everything you need to know about the legal process, your kids, your money, dating advice, and beyond! They have it all, and it's FREE. Y'all, please, if you're going through, thinking about, or are recently divorced- go check out exEXPERTS for everything you'll need to SURVIVE AND THRIVE throughout the process. Thank you, ladies, for joining me on Doing Relationships Right and talking about All Things Divorce- I think we just about covered everything!      Connect with them at: Website: https://exexperts.com/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/exExperts IG: https://www.instagram.com/exEXPERTS/ YT: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZhug0U2OaOzQvgjiU4n8Vg   Listen to their podcast, Divorce etc… at: https://exexperts.com/thepodcast/   Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!    Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!      Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast     Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!     You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/     Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [2:27] How they started [10:46] What is exEXPERTS? [16:23] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [18:08] Building a community [20:27] The inner circle [22:17] The newsletter [25:18] Going through a divorce [28:04] Where to find them

Surviving & Thriving After Divorce with the Co-Founders of exEXPERTS, T.H. Irwin and Jessica Klingbaum

The media tells us that love is more than enough in relationships. We grew up seeing fairy tales and love stories with the theme that love will conquer all! But will it, though? Let me share what else you need to keep your relationships strong and for long. Because while it is true that you need love to be in a relationship, you also need a number of other equally important things to make your relationship work.   Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [4:14] Is love enough to make a relationship successful? [6:26] Deep, mutual respect [7:10] Kindness [8:59] Communication—talk to each other openly [10:42] Trust and honesty [12:24] Empathy

JUST JEN: Is LOVE All That Matters in a Relationship?

It’s difficult living with known traumas, going through them every single day, and trying to heal from them. How much more when you have to go through your life with unidentified trauma?   In this episode, we’re going deep into childhood traumas and how it affects your relationships with our guest, Lindsey Ellison. She is an author, speaker, relationship coach, and fellow podcaster… yey! We talk about childhood trauma, how it manifests in your relationships, how you can address it, and how you can finally heal from it.   Lindsey Ellison is an author, a relationship coach, and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc. She specializes in helping people break free from narcissistic abuse, navigate their divorce or break-up, and find happiness and peace.   Originally stemming from her own personal experiences, Lindsey’s mission is to inspire you to make those amazing changes in your life to help you start over and find happiness. She takes you from victim to victor.   Reach out to Lindsey at: Website: https://lindseyellison.com/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/ThriveWithLindsey/ Twitter:https://twitter.com/startovercoach IG: https://www.instagram.com/lindsey_ellison/   Access her online course: https://breakfreefromyournarcissist.com/   Get her book at: https://www.amazon.com/Lindsey-Ellison/e/B07KYVWPHS     Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!    Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!      Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast     Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!     You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/     Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.     Show notes: [2:11] More about Lindsey [13:11] What exactly is childhood trauma? [16:30] What to do when you have childhood trauma [21:51] Hypervigilance [25:18] Look at the behavior [26:40] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [28:52] Hyper parenting and co-dependency [36:11] Nascent reasoning [42:42] Childhood trauma and relationships [46:56] Love avoidants and love addicts

If There's DRAMA, You Have TRAUMA: What Your Relationship Is Telling You About Your Childhood With Breakup Coach, Lindsey Ellison

What does having accountability in a relationship mean? Why do some people in any kind of relationship don’t have that?   Today, we’re going to talk about accountability and attachment styles with our guest, fellow podcaster, Melissa Bright, as she shares more about her podcast, her life, and her personal experience about taking responsibility in her relationships.   Melissa is the host of The Bright Side of Life podcast that aims to help others overcome depression, anxiety, loneliness, and stress through a mindset shift. Her podcast helps you deal with everyday worry, self-doubt, self-worth, and so much more.    Learn more about Melissa and her podcast here: Web: https://www.thebrightsideoflifepodcast.com/   IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.bright.side.of.life_/   FB: https://web.facebook.com/groups/1992892244168224   Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!    Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!      Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast     Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!     You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/     Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [3:04] How did Melissa start her podcast [5:52] Melissa’s fitness journey [8:35] Accountability in relationships [17:53] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [25:52] Attachment styles [28:03 Her podcast consultation and coaching [30:49] Where to find Melissa

Stop Playing The Blame Game: Be Accountable In Your Relationships with Melissa Bright

When someone PUSHES you to meet their kids or them to meet yours, despite the boundary you’ve set, Honey, that’s a red flag!   Red flag, red flag, red flag!   Okay, so you don’t have to listen to me, and yes, each and every one of us is different. So YOU DO YOU! However, this is my story, and this is why I think it’s important to spare the kids the pain — if the relationship won’t work.   Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.     Show notes: [2:29] Quick shout out to my podcast production team! [3:58] A big red flag when dating [5:33] Do you need to introduce your children to the person you’re dating? [6:46] Here’s a disclaimer, though… [8:53] When it makes sense to introduce the kids [11:01] Buy Me A Cup Of Coffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jenniferhurvitz [11:54] My books and the 2022 Mrs2Me SUMMIT

JUST JEN: Dating with Kids and Setting Boundaries

How do you find that perfect relationship? Why is it that hard?   If you’re one of the many people who’re looking for love in the wrong places or just at the wrong time, let today’s guest help you. Dr. Tari Mack, clinical psychologist, speaker, author, and coach, is here today to talk about how you can do the work for yourself and attract the right people so you can finally find that person for you.   Dr. Tari Mack has appeared on CBS in Cosmopolitan magazine and has worked with celebrity clients helping them improve their lives and relationships. Dr. Tari is a speaker, author, coach, and clinical psychologist and speaks and writes about the power of relationships. She has spoken to audiences throughout the U.S. appeared on radio programs, podcasts, and blogs, helping people learn how to do relationships, something we are never taught at school, in professional life, or at home. She hands audiences “magic” tools to build successful and meaningful relationships and transform themselves and their lives.   Grab a copy of her book: Every Relationship Is A Test: Master Your Love Lessons and Finally Get The Love You Deserve: https://www.amazon.com/Every-Relationship-Test-Lessons-Finally/dp/1796750077   Reach out to Dr. Tari at: Website: https://www.drtarimack.com/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/thepathofjoy/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/drtarimack/ YT: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsbo2o-idymqtg6QAxvwEWQ/videos   Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here!   You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [2:18] More about Dr. Tari Mack and her book Every Relationship is a Test [6:00] Moving forward from a relationship or a divorce [8:04] Why can’t people see the red flags in their relationships? [10:30] Her relationship readings [11:50] What if your partner is not interested in doing the work for growth with you? [15:07] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [16:08] Setting boundaries is not selfish [17:21] On her kids [19:07] Relationship blindspots [23:32] Is love and being in love a choice? [24:55] Her Single to Engaged in a Year program [29:44] Outro

Every Relationship is a Test: Do Your Work & Manifest a Love You Deserve with Dr. Tari Mack

The grieving process after ending a marriage is long, difficult, and confusing. It makes you ask: What now? Where do I go from here?   For this episode, I’ve invited the author Laura Friedman Williams to talk about how she got back into the sex and dating scene after ending her marriage of 22 years. We also talk about her book, Available: a Memoir of Sex and Dating After a Marriage Ends, which is a memoir of her journey from being a happily married stay-at-home mother with three children, discovering her then husband’s affair, reinventing herself, having her first one-night stand, to taking ownership of her new-found sexual appetite.   Laura Friedman Williams is a native New Yorker whose writing credits consist of countless PTA newsletters and program notes for talent shows and school auctions, as well as ghostwritten bar mitzvah speeches for many of her friends. Her wit and wisdom have not yet made it to a larger audience, but her years spent raising children and running events at her children’s schools have kept her writing steady and sharp. She credits her degree in English from Washington University and the ten formative years she spent in book publishing – first in Subsidiary Rights at Warner Books (now Grand Central Publishing) and then at Henry Holt & Company, then as a book scout and finally as a literary agent – for giving her a deep love and respect for the written word. She credits the break-up of her marriage for finally giving her the subject matter about which she both needed and wanted to write. She lives in downtown Manhattan with her three children.   Grab a copy of her book,  Available: a Memoir of Sex and Dating After a Marriage Ends: https://www.amazon.com/Available-Memoir-Dating-After-Marriage/dp/B08YNWVFWJ   Reach out to Laura: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laura-friedman-williams-350b7b213/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/laurafriedmanwilliams/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/laurafwinnyc     Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pinterest: click here! You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/ Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [3:00] How did it start for Laura? [6:16] Guilt for the kids after her divorce [7:18] Life outside and after divorce [12:11] What her first night out as a single woman looked like [20:26] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [21:31] Dating for the first time after divorce [24:06] Deciding the marriage was over [30:35] It's not black and white [32:06] Her Chapter 2 [41:07] Where to find Laura and her book [43:22] Outro

Sex & Dating After Marriage Ends with Author Laura Friedman Willams

Are you someone who likes to reveal everything about yourself on the first, second, or maybe the third date? Including your baggage?   Well, for the first Just Jen episode of the year, I’m going to tell you why you shouldn’t do it! You may be talking to someone you like, and it makes you want to lay everything - your past, your flaws, and the skeleton in your closet - and just get past the getting-to-know-you stage, but hold your horses! Just stop right there, slow down, listen to this episode, and check your baggage.   Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!     Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright   You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [2:32] Baggage checking and save it for later [4:35] Why it’s good to not share everything all at once [6:41] Baggage checking is NOT vulnerability [10:52] Outro

Just Jen: Why "Checking Your Baggage" is Always a GOOD Thing!

Raising a child is not easy. If someone ever told you that it is—that’s pure BS!   It is rewarding, though but never easy. Especially when behavior issues arise and you think you are to blame for why your kid is acting up. So today’s guest, CEO of EmpoweringParents.com is here to assure and empower us parents.   We are all doing the best that we can, so always keep that in mind especially during the hardest of times.   Kimball Lewis is the CEO of EmpoweringParents.com. In addition to his leadership and management roles, he contributes as an editor, a homeschooling expert, and a parent coach. He resides in Orlando, Florida, with his wife and two teenage sons.   Mr. Lewis began his career as a health, welfare, and child policy researcher for a leading public policy think-tank in Washington, DC. He then served as a technologist and executive in a series of successful healthcare start-ups. Mr. Lewis volunteers as an executive coach for Cru, a Christian missionary organization serving over 190 countries worldwide. He and his wife have led several marriage ministry groups at his home church in Orlando, FL.     Reach out to Kimball at: Website: https://www.empoweringparents.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimballlewis/   Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!    Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!      Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright   You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/     Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.     Show notes: [2:27] More about Kimball and what he does [3:22] The Total Transformation Program [6:11] What you learn from the program [13:28] Effective parenting [15:44] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [17:16] Program duration [18:48] Kids and social media [19:32] The Y-Trap [22:28] House rules [25:25] Kimball’s nugget of advice [27:58] When kids get in trouble [30:09] Where to find Kimball [31:42] Outro

You Are Not To Blame For Your Child's Behavior With Kimball Lewis, Ceo Of Empowering Parents

Welcome back to the Doing Relationships Right podcast!    This is the first episode for 2022 and our first guest is Writer, Speaker, and Author, Rachel Sobel. She’s here today to talk about all things relationships. From her own experience and journey as a mom and, in her own words, a do-over wife. This is going to be a juicy discussion about all things relationships!   Rachel Sobel — the heart and mind behind WHINE ANDTM and WHINE ANDTM CHEEZ(ITS) — is a Florida native (via Long Island like the rest of em). Living the NEW normal: Marriage, Baby, Divorce, Remarriage, another baby.   In between navigating massive loads of laundry, cooking 32 different meals for picky eaters, doing ponytails over until they are perfect with “NO BUMPS, MOM!” and double fisting iced coffee, she finds time to write all of it down.   Sometimes there’s sarcasm, sometimes there’s cursing but she always keeps it real. No filters or censorship, just a gal momming so hard and documenting it.   After working many years in public relations and communications, she decided she had enough after one particularly bad experience that made her question what the eff she was doing? She stopped with the “what ifs” and hatched a plan to leave the confines of a cubicle and live her dream as a full-time writer. (In her dream she was thinner, richer, and had much more clothing without spatterings of spit-up and breast milk, but beggars can’t be choosers.)   She’s pretty Type A but admits that you are more likely to find baby wipes and a half-eaten bag of Cheez-its in her purse than cash.   Reach out to Rachel at: Website: https://whineandcheezits.com/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/Whineandcheezits/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/Whineandcheezits/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/whinecheezits YT: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCx6IeLq4CGftKk3-ze_-cNg   Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!    Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!      Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright   You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/     Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [2:22] Who is Rachel Sobel? [3:42] Why she vlogs from her closet [7:43] Rachel’s background [15:31] Every divorce is different [18:14] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [20:50] Flexible co-parenting [25:32] Bringing in a baby  [28:56] Choose to be kind [35:10] Where to find Rachel?

It's All things Relationships in 2022 with Writer and Author Rachel Sobel

Today is my final episode of 2021!!! 2021 was a wild year! My son went away to college, I started my next book, I worked on my business WAY more!  Thank you for all of your continued support! 

Spilling The Eggnog - Jen's Final Episode Of 2021

Are you single and ready to mingle? Ever been on dating apps? Curious to know how we get matched with people? Do you want to know how dating apps work from the backend?  Learn about all that and more from the coach himself, Coach T Anthony, as he shares how he pushes his clients to maneuver in this chaotic world of online dating and into success. He also shares his advice from real client interaction and his personal experiences. Coach T Anthony is a dating consultant committed to getting results for his clients. He has spent the last 15 years helping others get the dating life they have always wanted and deserve. As a previous student who also needed help with his dating life, Coach T Anthony knows exactly what you are going through and can relate on a very human level. He is the author of the book "The Art of Online Seduction" and has published several articles on dating, including being featured on Michael Fiore's, Digital Romance Inc. Coach T Anthony has a background in behavioral science with an emphasis on (BAI) behavior analysis interviewing. The Coach holds two certificates from the two most prestigious interview and interrogation schools in the country. John E. Reid & Associates and Wicklander-Zulawski. The Coach has been hailed the "Ray Donovan" of dating coaches due to his no-nonsense approach to getting results for his clients. They say everyone has the dating life that they deserve. Coach T. Anthony believes everyone deserves better, and he can definitely help you change that relationship status from Netflix, Oreos, and Sweatpants to “I am taken.”   Reach out to him at: Website: https://coachtanthony.mystrikingly.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/thedatecoach/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/coachTanthony   Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!    Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!      Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright   You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/     Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.     Show notes: [2:56] More about T Anthony [4:30] Doing online dating right [9:04] You have to have the right first impression [11:27] One great photo is better than five shitty ones [13:09] Why some people don’t want a photoshoot [16:40] His blueprint and the algorithm of online dating [18:40] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [21:12] A tip for Tinder [23:05] And another for Hinge [26:47] Reporting people on dating apps [29:19] How long should you talk (video chat or text) to someone before going on a date? [32:50] On clients who text coaches [36:16] Outro

Secret Online Dating Hacks with Coach T Anthony

To all the divorce folks out there with married friends who just shower you with well-intentioned advice about dating (that you honestly don’t want to take), this episode is for you.   To the married folks out there whose friends have gotten divorced, please listen to this episode and spare yourself from sounding dense, hurtful, and even foolish.   This is another quick Just Jen episode, and I’ve rounded up a few reasons why married people shouldn’t give dating advice to their divorced friends. I also share quite a good list of what not to tell your divorced friends, so make sure you take notes. Please know that we love our married friends; we do, but please! You don’t know anything about what we’re going through, so just ssshhhh and just give us hugs.   Experience discreet shipping for all your sexual wellness needs. Get it from https://www.promescent.com/   Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!     Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright   You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [2:30] Dear married couples, you don’t know what it’s like to go through a divorce [5:43] Dating is different after divorce—just listen and be there for your divorce friend [8:50] The things you’re saying or the advice you’re giving, they’re truly not helpful [9:15] The following are so hurtful, please think twice before saying this

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