This is Episode Two of our 2-part series on Introverts & Extroverts, where we delve into how these different personalities affect marriages. Emily interviews Alex (an Introvert)and Georgia (an Extrovert), a young couple who have been married for 5 years. They talk very openly about how they've navigated the differences in their personalities, the challenges, how they overcame these, and the fun they've had along the way. It's a wonderful insight into Introverts & Extroverts in Marriage. If you haven't listened to Episode One, you can find it here https://hesaysshesaysgodsays.com/introvertsextrovertspart1/ Until next time, He Says, She Says, God Says. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Introverts and Extroverts (Part 2)

This is Episode One of our 2-part series on Introverts & Extroverts, where we delve into the differences how these personality traits affect marriages. “The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed” The terms "introvert" and "extrovert" were devised by Dr Carl Jung in the 1920s.   The common misconception around these terms is that people think that "introverts" are shy, while "extroverts" are "outgoing" -- there are outgoing introverts and shy extroverts. The main difference between these two temperaments comes down to how energy is gained. Extroverts gain energy by surrounding themselves with others, while Introverts gain energy and recharge by spending time alone. There’s a 3rd category, called Ambiverts, which are smack in the middle between the two. Introverts are more aware of & sensitive to external stimulation – too much and it overwhelms, just right and they feel comfortable Extroverts, less sensitive to external stimulation, means they thrive on lots of activity, people, talking etc and are wired to seek external reward stimulation. Well-Known INTROVERTS:  Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, Steven Spielberg, Meryl Streep, Al Gore, Mark Zuckerberg, Hillary Clinton, Michael Jordan, Steve Wozniak, Elon Musk, JK Rowling, Eleanor Roosevelt, Audrey Hepburn, Albert Einstein, Rosa Parks and Mahatma Gandhi. Well-Known EXTROVERTS:  Bill Clinton, Oprah, Martin Luther King Jnr, Muhammad Ali, Nelson Mandela, Steve Jobs, Margaret Thatcher…and everybody on TikTok.   BIBLE EXTROVERTS? PETER: He was often front and centre in the action: He’s first in - Matthew 4:18 “And he (Jesus) said to them, ‘Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.’ Immediately they (Peter and his brother Andrew) left their nets and followed him. ” Peter is fast to jump in the water in Matthew 14:29 “… So Peter got out of the boat and walked on the water and came to Jesus” Peter doesn’t ponder – he’s fast to ask questions, to understand Jesus’ teaching “But Peter said to him (Jesus), ‘Explain the parable to us.’” Matthew 15:15 Peter is not going to hold back, rebuking even Jesus. Matthew 16:22Then Peter took him, and began to rebuke him, saying, Be it far from thee, Lord: this shall not be unto thee”. Peter goes to extremes John 13:8Peter saith unto him, Thou shalt never wash my feet. Jesus answered him, If I wash thee not, thou hast no part with me. 9 Simon Peter saith unto him, Lord, not my feet only, but also [my] hands and [my] head!’” Peter takes up the fight John 18:10Then Simon Peter having a sword drew it, and smote the high priest's servant, and cut off his right ear” DAVID:  He was often front and centre, and never one to back down from a fight.  He was a natural leader and became the King.  2 Samuel 6:13 And it was [so], that when they that bare the ark of the LORD had gone six paces, he sacrificed oxen and fatlings. 14 And David danced before the LORD with all [his] might; and David [was] girded with a linen ephod. 15 So David and all the house of Israel brought up the ark of the LORD with shouting, and with the sound of the trumpet.   BIBLE INTROVERTS? MOSES presents as a clear introvert Numbers 12:3 Now the man Moses [was] very meek Exodus 3:1 Now Moses kept the flock of Jethro his father in law, the priest of Midian: and he led the flock to the backside of the desert, and came to the mountain of God, [even] to Horeb. Exodus 4:10 And Moses said unto the LORD, O my Lord, I [am] not eloquent, neither heretofore, nor since thou hast spoken unto thy servant: but I [am] slow of speech, and of a slow tongue. 11 And the LORD said unto him, Who hath made man's mouth? or who maketh the dumb, or deaf, or the seeing, or the blind? have not I the LORD? 12 Now therefore go, and I will be with thy mouth, and teach thee what thou shalt say. God also goes on to partner him with Aaron, who is likely an Extrovert, in fact tells that Aaron will speak to the people Exodus 4:16 And he shall be thy spokesman unto the people: and he shall be, [even] he shall be to thee instead of a mouth, and thou shalt be to him instead of God. JESUS?  More likely an Ambivert He was clearly involved in any kind of group situation: speaking to crowds of thousands, teaching and leading His small group of disciples, initiating tough one-on-one conversations. He was sociable, as well as having a calming, peaceful nature – all while being able to front up to leadership of His day The key here is – where did Jesus go to recharge? Luke 6:12And it came to pass in those days, that he went out into a mountain to pray, and continued all night in prayer to God. Matthew 14:13When Jesus heard [of it], he departed thence by ship into a desert place apart: and when the people had heard [thereof], they followed him on foot out of the cities. Matthew 14:23 And when he had sent the multitudes away, he went up into a mountain apart to pray: and when the evening was come, he was there alone. Matthew 4:1 Then was Jesus led up of the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted of the devil. 2 And when he had fasted forty days and forty nights, he was afterward an hungred. Whether he spend time alone to recharge, or to spend time with his Father, what we do see in Jesus is the best traits, the absolute strengths, of both introverts and extroverts.   REFERENCES IN THIS EPISODE: Personality Profile www.16personalities.com “Quiet” Book by Susan Cain https://www.amazon.com/Quiet-Power-Introverts-World-Talking/dp/0307352153 Dr Carl Jung https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carl_Jung   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Introverts and Extroverts (Part 1)

This episode will make you laugh, it will make you cry and it will melt your heart.   John and Hetty have been married for over 64 years – and are still madly in love with each other.  While their background and marriage may be different from yours, there are some wonderful insights in here that we can all learn from.   We discuss so much in this episode, from starting a marriage with almost nothing, having babies at home, a high kicking chorus girl, no electricity in your home, handwashing cloth nappies, 7 family members living in one caravan…it’s a fascinating insight into life, love, and marriage over more than 6 decades   Let us know any questions you might have, and we will try and answer them in a future episode (we won’t identify you personally on-air) –send an email podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com.  You can also connect with us on Facebook and Instagram and Twitter or check out our webpage www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com.   Until next time, He Says, She Says, God Says.     REFERENCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE The movie they saw on their first date:  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trouble_in_Store Their home City, Hull  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kingston_upon_Hull Post War Immigration to Australia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-war_immigration_to_Australia   OTHER PODCASTS TO LISTEN TO: John & Hetty share their Amazing, Miraculous Healings. http://revivalontheairtoday.com/   SOME SCRIPTURES FOR YOU Proverbs 31 10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her priceis far above rubies. 11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. 12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. 13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. 14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. 15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. 16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. 17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. 18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. 19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. 20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. 21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. 22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. 23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. 24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. 25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. 26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. 27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. 28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. 29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. 30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. 31Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

This is 60 years of Marriage

nxiety, Depression, Anorexia Nervosa.  We discuss these with Max and Tash, a young couple who have experienced all of these in their marriage. It’s a very open, very raw and very powerful story, and a must-listen for all couples. This is part 2 of our series on Mental Health in Marriage – you can find Part 1 here. https://hesaysshesaysgodsays.com/mental-health-part-1-intro/ Let us know any questions you might have, and we will try and answer them in a future episode (we won’t identify you personally on air) –send an email podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com.  You can also connect with us on Facebook and Instagram and Twitter or check out our webpage www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com. Until next time, He Says, She Says, God Says.   SOME SCRIPTURES FOR YOU   MANY HAVE BEEN AFFLICTED: https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Deuteronomy-28-65_28-67/ https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Jonah-2-5_2-7/ https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Psalms-Chapter-102/#13   God has an Answer: https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Jeremiah-29-11_29-12/ https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Isaiah-41-10/   OUR PRAYER, OUR DESIRE, OUR APPROACH: https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Psalms-51-10_51-12/ https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/matthew-6-33_6-34/ https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Matthew-11-28_11-30/ https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Philippians-4-6_4-7/   THERE IS NOT CONDEMNATION: https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Romans-8-1_8-2/ https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/1-John-3-19_3-20/   HELPING OTHERS: https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-16-24/ https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-15-1_15-2/ https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/1-Thessalonians-5-11/ https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Colossians-4-6/   OTHER PODCASTS TO LISTEN TO: Other interviews with Max & Tash: 1st few years of marriage https://hesaysshesaysgodsays.com/what-on-earth-have-we-done/ Their miracle baby, Sonny. https://revivalontheairtoday.com/e/sonny-max-and-tashs-miracle-ivf-baby/   IF YOU NEED IMMEDIATE HELP Just a quick warning about the content.  We obviously believe in the ability for God to heal all manner of physical, emotional and mental illnesses, however if you need immediate help regarding suicide or mental health, please contact Beyondblue Support Service via phone on 1300 22 4636 or www.beyondblue.org.au or contact LifeLine on 13 11 14 or www.lifeline.org.au. Both of these services are available 24/7.

Mental Health & Marriage - Part 2

In this episode, Ben interviews David, who is a mental health practitioner.  Originally, this was only meant to be a short introduction to an interview we did with a couple about mental health in their marriage.   We decided to turn Ben & David’s conversation into an episode on its own.   They cover a range of topics including:   What is Anxiety, Depression? Why do they affect some people more than others? How does it affect people, both person who is suffering from Mental Illness and their partner? What is Anorexia Nervosa, and its link to depression? What can you do to help, or get help?   Just a quick warning about the content.  We obviously believe in the ability for God to heal all manner of physical, emotional, and mental illnesses, however if you need immediate help regarding suicide or mental health, please contact Beyondblue Support Service via phone on 1300 22 4636 or www.beyondblue.org.au or contact LifeLine on 13 11 14 or www.lifeline.org.au. Both of these services are available 24/7.   Subscribe for free using your podcast app, Spotify or on our website You can also connect with us on Facebook and Instagram and Twitter or check out our webpage www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com.     REFERENCES IN THIS EPISODE: Other podcasts to listen to:   Healing from Anxiety with married couple Squid and Beth. https://revivalontheairtoday.com/e/29-squid-and-beth-tell-of-crippling-anxiety-his-amazing-healing/ Healing from Anorexia Nervosa with Alison. https://revivalontheairtoday.com/e/alison/   SCRIPTURES COVERED IN THIS EPISODE: James 5:16 Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.

Mental Health & Marriage – Part 1 Introduction

What happens when two people, with very different backgrounds, fall in love & get married? Our guests in this episode, Dan and Cindy, tell us their amazing story. You will , you will , and you will realise that you can work through that you will be presented with.laughcrywith Godany challenge Some of the key themes in this episode include: · You can’t build a marriage by modelling it exactly on your parents· The many different roles a spouse might need to play· Why working through problems with your spouse builds a stronger marriage· How love can grow stronger and stronger· The importance of listeningreally· And much, much more…. Please reach out to us – let us know any questions you might have, and we will try and answer them in a future episode (we won’t identify you personally on air) – do this by sending us an email podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com. You can also connect with us on Facebook and Instagram and Twitter or check out our webpage www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com. Until next time, .He Says, She Says, God Says REFERENCES IN THIS EPISODE:Mr “Fit It” Episode on He Says She Says God Says SCRIPTURES COVERED IN THIS EPISODE:Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.James 5:6 Confess your faults one to another….Ecclesiastes 4:12 And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Different Backgrounds, Same Marriage?

OK , we know that you are into .fellasmaking stuff happen When something is broken, .you need to fix it You love helping people out and it feels natural for you to jump in and rescue. So why, when your wife has a problem, ?does she get all upset with you when you want help Join our hosts, Danny and Mandi, for our episode called .Mr "Fix It" Let us know what episodes you would like us to do next by doing this anonymous survey https://www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com/survey If you've got something to say about Marriage, the Podcast, or anything really, email us podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com Until next time, .He Says, She Says, God Says LINKS & SCRIPTURESwww.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com Proverbs 18:13He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him. Ecclesiastes 3:7A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; John 8The story about the woman caught in the act of adultery Mark 1:15And saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel CREDITSMusic by Caleb Mason (c) 2019 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mr "Fix It"

A great interview with Pete and Andrea who share their story (it’s a funny one!) about “Picking the ”.One When you decide you want a partner, how do you choose the “One”, the person you will spend the rest of your life with? In this episode, we cover: • What Qualities should you be looking for in a partner?• How important is “Like-Minded” Faith?• What questions should you be asking of each other?• Do you go with your heart or your head? Or both?• What are some of the scriptures that can guide you? Enjoy. Go to our website & let us know what episodes you would like us to do next https://www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com/survey If you've got something to say about Marriage, the Podcast, or anything really, email us podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com LINKS & SCRIPTURESProverbs 31:10-111 Peter 3:7www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com CREDITSMusic by Caleb Mason (c) 2019 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Picking the "One"

We discuss the challenges that can arise in our first few years of marriage….and we have a great, open, honest interview with a young couple who share their experiences (it’s a must listen). Some of the themes that run through this episode include: · It’s OK to talk about the challenges you’re facing…seeking out a help together is a good thing· Marriage is a big step up in responsibility from being single· Life doesn’t go perfectly….but the key is working though things together· The importance of communication….and the impact “poor communication” has on getting issues resolved quickly It also ties nicely into Episode 2 – click here if you haven’t listened to that yet. Please reach out to us – let us know any questions you might have, and we will try and answer them in a future episode (we won’t identify you personally on air). Send us an email podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com. You can also connect with us on Facebook and Instagram and Twitter or check out our webpage www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com. Until next time, .He Says, She Says, God Says SCRIPTURES COVERED IN THIS EPISODE: Romans 5:3-4 (AMP) Moreover [let us also be full of joy now!] let us exult and triumph in our troubles and rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that pressure and affliction and hardship produce patient and unswerving endurance. And endurance (fortitude) develops maturity of character (approved faith and tried integrity). And character [of this sort] produces [the habit of joyful and confident hope of eternal salvation3:4: Job 23:10But he knoweth the way that I take: when he hath tried me, I shall come forth as gold See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What on earth have we done?

In this episode our host couple, Danny and Mandi, unpack what happens when we compare our marriages, or our spouse, to others. Not only do they share their own personal experiences, they also outline some scriptures and practical examples to help you. Some of the things discussed include: · Issues that come with looking outward, rather than inwards· 6 monthly marriage “checkups”· Date nights· Role models· Asking “what would you like me, or us, to do differently in our marriage?” Enjoy the episode. We’d love to hear from you - tell us what topics are relevant to you, or Q's you might have. Send us an email podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com. You can also connect with us on Facebook and Instagram, or check out our webpage www.hesaysshesaysgodsays.com. Until next time, .He Says, She Says, God Says SCRIPTURES COVERED IN THIS EPISODE: John 15:12This is my commandment, that ye love one another, as I have loved you. Genesis 2:24Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. 2 Samuel 11:2And it came to pass in an eveningtide, that David arose from off his bed, and walked upon the roof of the king's house: and from the roof he saw a woman washing herself; and the woman was very beautiful to look upon. Proverbs 14:30 (AMP)A calm and undisturbed mind and heart are the life and health of the body, but envy, jealousy, and wrath are like rottenness of the bones See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I wish I had that

This is a episode that covers how we should turn up in our marriage and how we should treat each other.Foundation There are many great scriptures we can use and the focus of this episode is Ephesians 5:21-33 There are some pretty big responsibilities in these scriptures for Husbands and Wives.. both Some key topics discussed: The importance of yourselves submittingone to another How we love Christ is the same as a should love her WifeHusband should give their to their Wives, just like Christ gave everything for the ChurchHusbandsall If a Husband and Wife have a desire to serve, with the needs & desires of their spouse (not their own) in their heart, it will be an amazing marriage.both We’d love to hear from you - tell us what topics are relevant to you that you would like to hear. Send us an email podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com. You can also connect with us on Facebook and Instagram Until next time, .He Says, She Says, God Says Want to add a caption to this image? Click the Settings icon. Ephesians 5 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.21 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.22 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.23 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so the wives to their own husbands in every thing.24 letbeHusbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;25 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,26 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.27 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.28 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:29 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.30 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.31 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.32 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife that she reverence husband.33 seeher CREDITSMusic by Caleb Mason (c) 2019 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What does God say about Marriage?

Welcome to He Says She Says God Says, the Podcast about Marriages & Relationships where God is at the centre. Hosted by Ben & Emily Campbell, and several other married couples, this is a show all about relationships and married life for Christian couples. We are hoping to cover every aspect of married life, regardless of whether you are looking for a husband/wife, are newly married, halfway through your married life or are enjoying retirement and your twilight years...we will have topics that are important to everyone. God has been at the foundation of Christian Marriage since the beginning, but God is often not a central part of people's marriages today. Here's some information from the Australian Bureau of Statistics The proportion of marriage ceremonies overseen by a civil celebrant increased to 78.0 per cent of all marriages in 2017 Depending on the year, somewhere between 43-50% of marriages end in divorce The average length of a marriage before divorce is 12 years We will also be looking to the bible for inspiration, concepts and principles that God has designed for our marriages. You may have some ideas and suggestions and we would LOVE to hear them. Feel free to drop us an email podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com. Thanks for listening! Don't forget to subscribe on your favourite podcast app so you don't miss any episodes. Until next time, God Bless. BEN & EMILY CAMPBELL Scriptures for Next Episode: Next episode we will be going through some scriptures about marriage - have a read of Ephesians 5:21-33 CREDITS Music by Caleb Mason (c) 2019 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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