Did someone say it's Cuffing Season?! Whether you are newly infatuated or 20-year-veteran in marital blass, we all use our lips to talk, it's true. BUT we also communicate through body langauage and KISSING is a key skillset when it comes to intimacy lingo. Let's look into why kissing -- or lack of it -- can lead to resentment and dysfunction in adult romantic relationships. Plese be aware this episode contains language and scenarios unsuitable for minors. 

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Ep. 67 Cuffing without KISSING? Poor physical communicationa and connection is a dealbreaker

Often people take an informal, careless, and sometimes unethical approach to pitching partnerships, sales, or collaborations. Chances are, a few of these people have sent you a message via social media or email that was off-putting, confusing, or downright lazy. Here's what they did wrong so that you don't repeat it. I'm Speaking Now wants you to be on the right track when YOU represent YOUR product or brand!

Ep. 66 - Why your sales or collaboration pitch failed via DM, Messenger, or email

It's draining when you're listening to someone who always seems to paint a picture of perfection when you know something is amiss. They embroider, bedazzle, and fake the funk to their own detriment. It takes some time to realize that a person simply hasn't mastered telling the truth. This episode explains why people who stretch the truth, gloss over misfortune, and skirt around real answers can be a liability for you personally and professionally. 

65: How to Deal with People Who Embellish the Truth

OVATION CEO and Founder Kerri Garbis gives us excellent and adaptable tips on how we can get our audience to commit to the content we share. Kerri covers attention grabbers, the art of the "BUTTON," and when you should ask your audience for feedback. This episode will support you in leading your team with crystal clear messaging, whether it's for a Zoom meeting or an in-person conference. Learn more about OVATION and its non-profit program BE READY at www.getovation.com. 

Ep 64: How to Begin and End Your Presentations for Maximum Impact

Are you stalling the launch or development of ideas, programs, protocol, or improvements because you're constantly waiting for people to give you PERMISSION? This episode serves to support listeners who are struggling with execution of projects and need an unusual amount of hand-holding to believe that their concepts are worthy of being realized. 

Ep. 63: Stop asking for permission to be innovative

Learn about how control, engagement, pronunciation, and content mastery (CPEC) can be improved upon for your upcoming presentation, training, or speaking projects. Also, you'll be able to get an idea of the consequences of not integrating CPEC when you are invited to lead, speak, or teach a group. By the conclusion of this episode, you'll be more prepared to make an impact upon the most discerning of audiences. 

Ep. 62 - Top notch speakers need these four basic elements

The thirst is real! When a person is desperate they will do anything to get your attention. In this episode we explore when "trying too hard" goes wrong and the reasons that authenticity is always the better route. We'll examine "thirst" in digital spaces, romantic situations, and marketing messaging/content and the consequences that befall people who push the envelope too far due to their desperation. 

EP. 61 - You're So Thirsty You're Coughing Up Tumbleweeds

Toxic humility is real. Do you know how many people would prefer that you not share how amazing your products, progress, or projects really are? Your ownership of your accomplishments makes some people very uncomfortable. In this episode I walk you through the art of normalizing pride in your contributions and greatness. I also make an interesting metaphor using shea butter, ashy heels, and sandals. Trust me, it'll make sense when you listen. 

EP. 60 - Toxic Humility: Telling the Truth about Yourself or Your Brand Isn't Bragging

Thinking about changing careers? You've probably been having quite the internal dialogue. There's no one better to help you through this decision-making process than Mustafa Ammar of The Passion MBA. He's not only a dedicated career coach but having been a pharmacist, Egyptian diplomat to China, and an investment banking pro - he teaches us all a few lessons on why we should follow our passions. Learn more at www.thepassionmba.com and at @thepassionmba on Instagram. 

Ep. 59 - NO REGRETS: Why so many find success after changing careers

There is a time and a place to share who you know and how you know them. However, most people who name-drop within conversations or presentations never choose the right time or the right reason. In this episode we dissect why name-dropping attempts often falls flat on its face.

Ep. 58 - Why Your Name-Dropping Tactics are Tired

You are your most important asset. Jason Brown launched the Protect Your Peace movement to raise suicide prevention awareness and to support people committed to mental health wellness. Jason, who lives with bipolar disorder, shares his triumphs and tools for healing. He reminds us that no matter how isolating depression, anxiety, or life's unexpected potholes may feel - we are never alone. Help is closer than we know.  Follow him at @RevBeezy on Instagram or email him at vantoneconsulting@gmail.com. 

Ep. 57 - Protect Your Peace & Stop Curating Chaos

Brooklyn native Gershon Hinkson has worked in the film industry as a writer, director, and editor for nearly 30 years. Some of the pieces he's worked on include Spiderman 2, She's Gotta Have It (the series), Free State of Jones, and The Best Man. He knows a lot about overcoming fears and obstacles in order to grab goals and dreams by the horns. From dealing with sadistic colleagues to learning how to harness the magic of kindness, Gershon shares anecdotes and insider guidance on keeping your feet planted firmly on the ground while reaching beyond the stars! 

Ep. 56 - Transcending Trepidation When Facing the Unknown with Gershon Hinkson

Social media is one of the ways that we communicate through language and images. We share captions to give context to images that we post. However, some people never quite make it to the feed of their "supposedly" significant other. In this episode we explore why some people are uncomfortable sharing images of their partners and whether or not it is indeed a malicious, self-centered act.  

Ep. 55 - SMH: Cuffed but Hidden on Social Media

Make sure that when you agree to lend a hand, you're not being exploited. This episode highlights the three things you want to keep in mind when discerning whether someone is taking your talents, kindness, or intellectual property for granted. No man or woman is an island as so we all will be asked for help or will be inspired to lend a hand -- but we always want the experience to be fair, first and foremost.

Ep. 54 - Don't Exploit Yourself: When Helping Others Hurts You

NYC-based Fashion Abby (Abdullah Graham) talks to us about integrating simplicity, humility, and sustainable choices in the clothing that we wear. He also expounds upon his globally chic fez collection and cautions us about not overindulging in "fast fashion." You can find him on Instagram at @fashionabbynyc and he's even up for giving listeners a bit of fashion guidance should you need it.  

Ep. 53 - Pt. 2: Your Fashion Choices Tell a Story - Fashion Abby talks Fezzes and Timeless Style

I'm an expert in communications, professionally and personally, and I love to discuss the art of communication itself! So whether it's communication relative to work, texting, intimacy, awkward conversations, email, or even encounters with strangers I'm interested in reflecting on the value, or lack thereof, that these exchanges bring to our lives.

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