Original airdate: 07/30/2020. What makes a person sexy? How has Danielle and Adam's ideas of sexiness changed over the years? Turn offs? How does body image affect their sexual identity and confidence? This episode covers so many different aspects of sexiness, lust, compliments, and all the things we try to keep going throughout the years of our relationship. Plus, what's the sexiest place Danielle and Adam have ever been, sexiest movie they've ever watched, etc. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Marriage and Martinis

MnM Vintage - The Sexy Episode

Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist who is on a mission to help as many women as possible achieve their first orgasm. She also wants it to feel more natural to talk about sex with your partner. Her husband, Xander, is just a "regular dude" who decided to quit his corporate job to join Vanessa in her practice. Together they have helped normalize the conversation about intimacy and help couples feel more comfortable in the bedroom. The two couples chat about everything from why women fake orgasm to dirty talk in the bedroom, to their openness about most likely not wanting to have children, and why it is such an important conversation to keep having. Order The Date Night Questions ebook here Learn more about Vanessa and Xander here See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

187. Taking The Intimidation Out Of Intimacy, With Vanessa and Xander Marin

Danielle sat down with friend and fellow content creator Linda Fruits to hear all about her recent journey to discovering her true sexual identity. Linda discusses how her Tik Tok "for you" page made her question herself and her sexuality. Finally, should could no longer hide from the reality that she was attracted to women. The next steps? Coming out to her husband, family, friends, and huge social media following. In this episode, she details all of these events, as well as how she and her husband are dealing with everything that has happened in the past few months. She and Danielle discuss, as friends, things they wish they had been told about experimentation and sexuality when they were younger, and what they're hoping to teach their own kids. This episode is filled with so much honesty, and Linda and Danielle both hope that it will help other women live their own truth.Follow Linda on instagram https://www.instagram.com/fruitsofmotherhood/Being your date night to the next level https://www.marriageandmartinis.com/dnq and use promo code "mnmpodcast" for 20% off your ebook. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

186. "Lesbian Tik Tok Changed My Life," With Linda Fruits

In an episode that Adam describes as, "one of his favorite we've ever recorded," the two discuss more concerning etiquette and how these unwritten "rules" have affected their lives. Adam goes deep into the frustration of owning a retail business and why "the customer isn't always right." Danielle talks about the workers who she thinks should be tipped ALL THE MONEY for what they are expected to do. They also talk about the hardships of teaching kids how to behave out in the world when over the last 18 months, there has been a whole lot of time at home. What "teachable moments" are important to Danielle regarding her kids, and how is she trying to make up for lost time during the pandemic when it comes to showing their kids how to be socially considerate and caring with people you know, and when it comes to strangers.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

185. Good Intentions, Bad Execution

Danielle is admittedly horrible when it comes to stuff like thank you notes and RSVPing. Adam has impeccable bathroom etiquette and is much better at giving Danielle gifts than she is for him. In this fun episode, the two of them discuss everything from whether or not asking a girl's father for her hand in marriage is outdated, whether or not it's appropriate to make out in the backseat of an Uber, and whether or not partners should be ok sharing toothbrushes. Danielle shares poll results from the Marriage and Martinis community and shares some of people's extremely passionate thoughts about certain types of etiquette.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

184. "Don't Wake Me For Sex," and Other Useful Life Tips

TRIGGER WARNINGS: In-depth discussion of miscarriage, stillbirth, postpartum, and pregnancy complications.Liz Lehmann is a postpartum doula whose own journey through pregnancies and expanding her family has been one filled with a great deal of struggle, strength, and volatility. She has since used her own experiences to advocate for mothers and make sure women get the support and nurturing they need and deserve, whatever the road to expanding their family might look like for them. Danielle and Liz discuss Liz's extremely difficult history with pregnancy and delivery, her path to becoming a doula and what the role means to her, why every woman deserves to give pregnancy lots of care and attention, and why it is so important to her that she share her real, unique story. Visit Liz on instagram @nourishedfam and her website nourishedfamilies.org  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

183. Giving Mothers the Attention and Care They Deserve, With PostPartum Doula Liz Lehmann

Adam and Danielle sat down and spoke with Tammy, AKA "The Cannabis Cutie" all about the science, myths, taboos, and the future of weed and the growing industry around it. Tammy talks about how she first became so passionate about cannabis, how moms should stop feeling guilty of using cannabis, all the benefits of the plant itself and so much more. Visit Tammy in instagram @thecannabiscutie  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

182. A Conversation With The Cannabis Cutie

Their wedding day is not really something about which Adam and Danielle talk very much. In fact, they don't even have a picture from their wedding day anywhere in their house. During this really in depth discussion, the two of them talk about everything from how Danielle rushed Adam into getting engaged, why getting married so young presented some problems for them, how discrepancies about how money should be spent led to contention, and why they actually wouldn't go back and change a thing. Plus, they share a lot of information from their listeners and community, and go into detail about what they will tell their own kids about weddings and marriage. Whether you're single, engaged, married, or divorced, this is an episode you will not want to miss.Sign up for BetterHelp.com/marriageandmartinis and get 10% off your first month with the world's largest network of licensed, accredited, and experienced therapists.Turn date night into a fresh, new experience with the Date Night Questions ebook. Podcast listeners get our largest discount of 20% off with the code "mnmpodcast"  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

181. The Wedding Episode

Andy Hill was just a regular husband and dad when he started to get really interested in finances and made a commitment to live debt and mortgage free. Fast forward to a few years, when he quit his corporate job and has done what most people think is impossible; made a living as a full time blogger and podcaster helping other people achieve financial freedom just like he and his wife did. Danielle, Adam, and Andy get real about the financial struggles and how insanely expensive it is just to live and raise kids. Danielle and Adam open up about some of their financial missteps and ask Andy what is REALLY involved in being debt and mortgage free: the sacrifices a person has to make, how long it takes, and what small changes we can start making right now that will have a big impact on our future. Adam also asks Andy about cryptocurrency, a topic with which Adam is currently pretty obsessed. Even if you don't consider yourself a financial guru, this episode is well worth listening to and is extremely relatable no matter your level of knowledge about money.To continue the conversation about finances in a relatable and gentle manner, download the Date Night Questions ebook (promo code "mnmpodcast" for our largest discount 20% off for our listeners).To learn more about Andy and his journey to become debt free, visit marriagekidsandmoney.comLooking to ensure your kids learn about a healthy spending and savings habits from a young age? Visit gohenry.com and use code "Martinis" for one month of their amazing debit card for kids.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

180. Marriage, Kids, and Money, With Andy Hill

Adam and Danielle have just returned from a very long overdue trip, just the two of them. After vacationing in the tropical paradise of Brooklyn, the two are feeling the effects of their romantic getaway. Two two discuss how this trip compared to the same trip they took three years ago, why one trip can change the entire course of a relationship, and getting up the courage to finally get a tattoo after waiting over twenty years to "wait for the right time." Danielle discusses how her dad might feel about it, how the tattoo in some way connects her to her beloved late grandmother, Bubbi, and why this was the right time to finally stop talking about it and just do it.Visit marriageandmartinis.com/dnq promo code "MNMPODCAST" for 20% off (only for podcast listeners) for the Date Night Questions ebook.Visit ridge.com promo code "MARRIAGE" for 10% off of all the functional, gorgeous gear for all of your upcoming adventures or just for a better everyday lifestyle.Visit gohenry.com promo code "MARRIAGE" for a free month of the kids' debit card that will help teach your children about money and spending.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

179. Temporary Getaways and Permanent Tattoos

During the month of June, Adam worked more hours than he has maybe ever worked. He's been exhausted all month from his job, and Danielle has been exhausted from all of the stuff going on with the kids and household. The feeling of "languishing," that feeling like you just can't seem to enjoy things or make progress in life has been overwhelming for both of them. This is the first conversation the two of them have had together in weeks, and they catch up Mia's evaluation (details in episode #166), Adam's vaping habit and how his attempt to quit is going, and their hopes for their upcoming getaway together.Purchase the date night questions at marriageandmartinis.com/dnq  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

178. BRB: Languishing

TRIGGER WARNINGS: discussions of porn, rough sex, and other sexual acts that might be uncomfortable and/or upsetting for some people.Sara Rosen, AKA "The Kink Therapist," has made it her mission to create shame-free spaces in which people can openly discuss their kinks, fetishes and fantasies no matter how "taboo" society tells us they are. Danielle and Adam ask Sara all about her journey to becoming a kink therapist, what it is about the topic excites her so much, and why it's so important to discuss kinks and fetishes more frequently and honestly. They also ask her some popular questions from listeners, and reveal their own past experiences in the bedroom when shame played a role. The Kink Therapist reveals the benefits of "Fantasy Disclosure" with your partner, and some kinks and fetishes that are far more common than people might realize.Follow Sara Rosen, The Kink TherapistFor the "Yes, No, Maybe Sexual Checklist" talked about in the episode and more tools for sexual communication, download the Date Night Questions Experience ebook  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

177. The Kink Therapist

Danielle and Dr. Traci Baxley have a candid conversation about everything from interracial marriage, to privilege, to how to handle it when people say, "agree to disagree," about social issues and race. Danielle asks how parents can implement teachings and actions to help their kids become better allies and more conscientious human beings. Have we come as far as we think concerning progress, and what do we still need to do? Follow Dr. Baxley on instagram at @socialjusticeparenting and check out her website Social Justice Parenting.Visit crowdcow.com/marriageandmartinis and use promo code "marriageandmartinis25" to get $25 off your order.Order your Date Night Questions Experience ebook  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Social Justice Parenting, With Dr. Traci Baxley

Danielle has an absolute blast having girl talk with Tammin and Roxy of the Women on top podcast. She asks Tammin (Pretty Little Liars) and Red Carpet Roxy (Hollywood entertainment host) all about how the standards of Hollywood impact their views on sex, all about their sexual fantasies, and how the pandemic has impacted their sex lives. It's an hour of pure honesty, laughter, and feeling like you're chatting with three of your good friends. Check out Women on Top Podcast wherever you get your podcasts, and make sure to go follow them on instagram at @womenontop @tamminsursok and @redcarpetroxy.Support us and our sponsors and get amazing products:The Date Night Experience ebook: marriageandmartinis.com/dnqCrowd Cow $25 off your first order: crowdcow.com/marriageandmartinisMVMT 20% off: mvmt.cc/mnm  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Women on Top, With Tammin Sursok and and Roxy Manning

Danielle and Adam take a fun walk down memory lane talking about everything from their first memories, to what they collected as kids, to stuff their parents did that would get them arrested today. They also discuss what they would like to replicate from the households in which they grew up, and what they're hoping to do differently. What part of the 80s and 90s are they sad that their kids won't ever experience? If you grew up in the late 70s, 80s, and 90s, this is an episode you won't want to miss.Want to ask your partner the questions Danielle and Adam ask each other in this episode and others? Make sure to download the new Date Night Questions ebook and have all the conversations you've always wanted to experience with your partner.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

174. We're So Retro

Marriage and Martinis is an attempt to present a real, authentic marriage at its core: the love, hate, teamwork, struggles, laughter, humiliation, and ever-changing dynamics that comprise spousal relationships. Join Danielle and Adam as they explore every hilarious, heartfelt, shocking, embarrassing, and completely inappropriate facet of marriage and parenting. It’s a bumpy ride, but it’s worth it.

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