Tonight I'm answering a question from Heather who posted it in a thread in our Women Making Marriages Work (WMMW) FB Group. This is her question: "How about advice on healing from an emotionally and mentally abusive (and neglectful) marriage? For 8 years I played the part of a good wife as best I could and went out of my way to do far more than anyone I knew did for their husbands or partners. I worked until I was in desperate pain and then kept going so I wouldn't disappoint him. (Serious health issues here) He has changed, like actual real change, but it just feels like he hurt me too deeply for too long and just killed the possibility of ever loving him again. And how can I even try without the fear of him turning back into the person he was?" Anyone in pain in their relationship that doesn't know how to move forward needs to listen to this. Talk soon, Meg Masterclass: https://joinnow.live/s/srs3OI Free Breakthrough Call: http://workwithmeg.com/talk

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HOW DO YOU HEAL BEING HURT TOO DEEPLY FOR TOO LONG?

DON'T BE LIKE ME.... Friends, I come here with an admission of guilt as it pertains to avoiding doing what needed to be done. And, I knew better, I just didn't do it. So. Don't be me. Watch and learn and here's the Masterclass: https://joinnow.live/s/srs3OI Talk soon, Meg

DON'T BE LIKE ME....

Tonight I'm mapping out the exact pathway you went down to lose connection with your husband and what it is that you both really want. Then we're going to talk about what exactly you can do to get drastically different results. Looking forward to it, Meg

DISTANCE AND ISOLATION: THE RETURN TO CONNECTION

Tonight I'm unpacking what your feelings are telling you, how to know what you don't want, so that you can design and then create what you do want. And most importantly, how to make a bridge from the old life, that isn't working for you the way you wish it would, into the new one. Here's the Masterclass Link so that you can learn more of the skills you need to 'cross over': http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass Talk soon, Meg

WHEN YOU ARE IN PAIN, WHEN YOU HAVE TRAUMA, WHEN YOU CAN'T MAKE THINGS WORK

Talking tonight about what complaints are, why we have them and what to do to turn them into something that serves a purpose. Let's do this, Meg PS. Masterclass Link: http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass

THE GIFT OF KNOWING WHAT YOU DON'T WANT

Talking tonight about the most common problem we have in our clients. Which, is, essentially, a real/perceived need to control/manage the environment around us until we are gripping so tightly that we have some sort of meltdown. Internal or external. Large or Larger. Then, with that blow out, we find our feet, have some respite for awhile, until... we're back in that same cycle. Masterclass: http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass It's going to be a great conversation, Meg

HITTING THE RESET BUTTON: THE ANTIDOTE TO BEING THE 'CONTROLLER/MANAGER' IN YOUR HOUSE

Hi WMMW,   Talking tonight about dating our husbands/partners in lockdown, or quarantine, or covid-19 in general.   If you're feeling low in energy, this is for you. If you're feeling disconnected from your significant other, this is for you. If you're on a downward spiral into disconnect, this is for you.   Please share how you remain connected in the comments below, Meg PS Masterclass: http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass

CONNECTING THROUGH DATE NIGHTS

On the 29th of May, I posted a question in the WMMW Facebook group. It said "Fill in the blank: 'I can't be in a healthy masterful marriage because I haven't ______________ yet.'" The responses I received were themed, and tonight I'm going to talk about why they were themed in the way that they were. I'll also cover the antidote that will allow you to give/receive a healthy, masterful marriage. Meg PS. Masterclass Link: http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass

COMING HOME TO YOURSELF

We're being called to grow in our hearts and minds across many relationships right now. In our marriage, in our parenting - yes, always. But also in our community through COVID-19, through Black Lives Matter, through voting and many other issues that are now up in the general conciousness. We are being called to learn and grow like never before. I love this. And I have also noticed that to be able to show up as allies and advocates across all these spaces, we need to have energy to do so lovingly. Without energy we blame, criticize, defend and disconnect. We close ourselves off to others, and aren't available to reconnect. This isn't serving our marriage, our children, our communities. So tonight - I'm lifting the lid on how to build a surplus of energy that allows you to show up in the way that you are called to. With integrity and connection. Meg PS: Here's my Masterclass link: http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass

BUILDING THE ENERGY TO SHOW UP DIFFERENTLY IN RELATIONSHIPS AND LIFE

Hi WMMW, Talking tonight about failure and all the bits and pieces that failure represents. You're not going to want to miss this, Meg PS. Masterclass Link: https://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU ARE FAILING

Talking today to the parts of you that have had it with a marriage that is failing, and a huge load that you are carrying through your day to day life. The load that is just too heavy to bear anymore. And it feels like the only thing to do is to quit. Quit the things that are hurting you.... like your marriage. Hold on. Watch this. We get to create the ending we want.... Meg PS. Masterclass: http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass

WHEN YOU WANT TO GIVE UP, THIS IS WHAT YOU NEED TO DO.

Most women I know chase their tails to manage their lives. They have lists to do, and a house and family to run. They assess themselves on how much they get done. And those in troubled marriages assume that they can 'work' their way out of that trouble. After all these years in this space, I know this is a lie. You can't 'work' your way out of a marriage in crisis. You have to 'be' your way out of a marriage in crisis. Let me explain, Meg PS. Masterclass Link: http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass

FINDING YOUR WAY HOME TO YOURSELF

Talking tonight about your inner critic. The one that makes you wrong most of the time. The one who sends you off each day with a list to do that won't get done without a personal cost, and the one who doesn't cheer you on... ever. We'll explore how she fits with you, and your husband/family and the impact she has... then we'll talk antidotes. It's going to be a good one, Meg PS. Masterclass: http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass

Silencing Your Inner Critic: The Antidote You’ve Been Looking For

 You're not alone. This is a human thing.   Let's unpack why we get stuck, how we get stuck and then look at ALL of that stuff as it sits with you and your life, and you and your marriage.   Diving right in, Meg   PS: Masterclass: http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass    

REPEATING THE SAME THING AND IT'S NOT GETTING YOU WHAT YOU WANT IN YOUR LIFE/MARRIAGE?

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