Northside Christian Church Podcast

Tied Up In Nots: Part 3 - Do Not Sin / Jim Probst

Tied Up In Nots: Part 2 - Judge Not / George Ross

Tied Up In Nots: Part 1 - Don't Worry / Nate Ross

Blueprints For A Rebuilding Year: Part 6 - Finishing Well / Nate Ross

Blueprints For A Rebuilding Year: Part 5 - Back to Basics / Nate Ross

Blueprints For A Rebuilding Year: 4 - Opportunity Out of Opposition

Blueprints For A Rebuilding Year: 3 - Rebuilding Together / Nate Ross

Blueprints For A Rebuilding Year: 2 - Bold Vision For A Better Tomorrow / George Ross

Blueprints For A Rebuilding Year: Part 1 – Broken Boldness / Nate Ross

It's Complicated: Part 4 - Commitment / Nate Ross

It's Complicated: Part 3 - Control / Nate Ross

It's Complicated: Part 2 - Communication / Nate Ross

CONFLICT, COMMUNICATION, CONTROL, AND COMMITMENT ACKNOWLEDGE the conflict in our lives today. Don’t have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments because you know they produce quarrels. 2 TIMOTHY 2:23 But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this. 1 CORINTHIANS 7:28 “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘Do not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.’ But I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to his brother, ‘Raca,’ is answerable to the Sanhedrin. But anyone who says, ‘You fool’ will be in danger of the fire of hell. “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift.” MATTHEW 5:21-24 Our WORSHIP of God is IMPACTED by our CONFLICT with PEOPLE. What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don't they come from your desires that battle within you?  JAMES 4:1 FACE our FEAR of CONFLICT. If it is possible, as far as it DEPENDS ON YOU, live at peace with everyone.  ROMANS 12:18 GAP: Growth. Among. Problems. The Goal of Conflict: RECONCILE “RESOLVE to not DISSOLVE the relationship.” – Rick Warren Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come! All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting men's sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation. We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ's behalf: Be reconciled to God. God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.  2 CORINTHIANS 5:17-21 When the time came for her to give birth, there were twin boys in her womb. The first to come out was red, and his whole body was like a hairy garment; so they named him Esau. After this, his brother came out, with his hand grasping Esau's heel; so he was named Jacob. Isaac was sixty years old when Rebekah gave birth to them. The boys grew up, and Esau became a skillful hunter, a man of the open country, while Jacob was a quiet man, staying among the tents. Isaac, who had a taste for wild game, loved Esau, but Rebekah loved Jacob. GENESIS 25:24-28 Once when Jacob was cooking some stew, Esau came in from the open country, famished. He said to Jacob, “Quick, let me have some of that red stew! I'm famished!” (That is why he was also called Edom.) Jacob replied, “First sell me your birthright.” “Look, I am about to die,” Esau said. “What good is the birthright to me?” But Jacob said, “Swear to me first.” So he swore an oath to him, selling his birthright to Jacob. Then Jacob gave Esau some bread and some lentil stew. He ate and drank, and then got up and left. So Esau despised his birthright. GENESIS 25:29-34 When Esau was forty years old, he married Judith daughter of Beeri the Hittite, and also Basemath daughter of Elon the Hittite. They were a source of grief to Isaac and Rebekah. GENESIS 26:34-35 Esau held a grudge against Jacob because of the blessing his father had given him. He said to himself, “The days of mourning for my father are near; then I will kill my brother Jacob.” GENESIS 27:41 OWN our part of the CONFLICT. Jacob sent messengers ahead of him to his brother Esau in the land of Seir, the country of Edom. He instructed them: “This is what you are to say to my master Esau: ‘Your servant Jacob says, I have been staying with Laban and have remained there till now. I have cattle and donkeys, sheep and goats, menservants and maidservants. Now I am sending this message to my lord, that I may find favor in your eyes.’” When the messengers returned to Jacob, they said, “We went to your brother Esau, and now he is coming to meet you, and four hundred men are with him.” GENESIS 32:3-6 In great fear and distress Jacob divided the people who were with him into two groups, and the flocks and herds and camels as well. He thought, “If Esau comes and attacks one group, the group that is left may escape.” Then Jacob prayed, “O God of my father Abraham, God of my father Isaac, O Lord, who said to me, ‘Go back to your country and your relatives, and I will make you prosper,’ I am unworthy of all the kindness and faithfulness you have shown your servant. I had only my staff when I crossed this Jordan, but now I have become two groups. Save me, I pray, from the hand of my brother Esau, for I am afraid he will come and attack me, and also the mothers with their children. But you have said, ‘I will surely make you prosper and will make your descendants like the sand of the sea, which cannot be counted.’” GENESIS 32:7-12 CONFLICT is always SPIRITUAL, not just PHYSICAL. PRAYER OF JACOB: “I am unworthy … Save me … I am afraid.” Then the man said, "Your name will no longer be Jacob, but Israel, because you have struggled with God and with men and have overcome." GENESIS 32:28 Jacob looked up and there was Esau, coming with his four hundred men; so he divided the children among Leah, Rachel and the two maidservants. He put the maidservants and their children in front, Leah and her children next, and Rachel and Joseph in the rear. He himself went on ahead and bowed down to the ground seven times as he approached his brother. But Esau ran to meet Jacob and embraced him; he threw his arms around his neck and kissed him. And they wept. Then Esau looked up and saw the women and children. “Who are these with you?” he asked. Jacob answered, “They are the children God has graciously given your servant.” GENESIS 33:1-5 Reconciliation (RE)SHAPES the next generation!

It's Complicated: Part 1 - Conflict / Nate Ross

Word to the Wise: Part 7 - Wisdom Is Freedom / Dave Stone

Word to the Wise: Part 6 - The Wisdom of Honesty

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