We're not sure where this year has gone (or the world for that matter) but hi, hello, we're back! As we all know Halloween is cancelled this year, so we thought we'd sit and chat a bit instead. The topic was Halloween but we covered the scariest thing of all: 2020 (and how we've spent it). Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/perfectlyincapable/support

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If you've ever felt like you may be a little codependent, this episode is for you. Sometimes we joke about being needy or reliant on others, but actually being codependent on another person can be detrimental to your mental health. Poor communication, boundaries, and the need to be in control are just a few ways codependency can manifest, and Luis pretty much relates to them all. Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/perfectlyincapable/support

Lean on Me (but don't)

Oh, you like to travel? Well we did an episode about it and we’re obviously both very qualified to give you travel tips. We cover the novice stress of booking, packing, TSA, and a little bit of plane etiquette. We also discuss traveling with friends and hooking-up on vacation. Also, Luis still doesn’t believe in credit cards and Adam still says it’s not a hobby. Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/perfectlyincapable/support

Not So Well Traveled

With so many hobbies and side-hustles in the world, wouldn’t it be great if you could combine a few of your favorites? Heads up, we’re getting nerdy in this one as we deep-dive into the world of live-streaming video games. We discuss what got us started, the pitfalls of Twitch, representation, and monetization. Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/perfectlyincapable/support

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There's nothing wrong with a little self love (but toys are always fun with a partner too). From butt plugs to blow-up dolls, this episode is all about sex toys. Luis recaps his recent trip, Adam gives a PSA on poppers, and there's a bit of impromptu Amazon research. Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/perfectlyincapable/support

Toys for THOTs

Condragulations, you’ve made it to another round of Valentine’s Day. In this challenge you’ll be asked to justify your love of hand-holding, restaurant mounting, and general displays of public indecency. We’re diving into “Public Displays of Affection” in this episode, and the boys are ready to talk shit from the benches. At some point we get to charge admission, right? Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/perfectlyincapable/support

Get a Room!

It’s easy to tell our friends to be more body positive, but always harder to say it in front of the mirror. Social media can play a huge part, but what about the issues that developed as we grew up? From locker rooms and gay twitter, to eating disorders and body dysmorphia, we’re covering the many body image issues we’ve faced and how they’ve evolved over time. Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/perfectlyincapable/support

Body Language

Our lives are full of things that amp up our stress and anxiety levels, so why wouldn’t we want to remove some of those things if we can? Sunday Scaries are real, coming down from a weekend of binge drinking with the impending weight of the work week just around the corner, and a pile of to-do’s we neglected all weekend doesn’t make us any less stressed. In this one we’re talking about some of our own mental hangups, some of the ways we’re trying to address our own mental health, and a few of those anxieties we could probably remove today. Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/perfectlyincapable/support

Sunday Scaries

Sometimes we have to take control of what we can and just hit the reset button. Starting a new job, moving to a new city, or simply purging some old clothes can help us feel like we’re getting a new start. But what comes along with starting over? In this episode we discuss moving to new cities, making new friends, apartment hunting, and the dreaded aspects of having to physically move your life. Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/perfectlyincapable/support

When to Hit Reset

It's a new year, a new decade, and...we're still trying to get it together. When we're trying to do everything sometimes we end up with the paralysis of choice. How do you choose what's most important or where to begin? In order to cross things off our lists we have to pick our priorities and where to put our time. We have to start somewhere, so how do we choose? Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/perfectlyincapable/support

First Things First

There’s a line between having a hobby or being a collector and just flat out hoarding. It’s not a fine line, but it’s a pretty slippery slope if you have an addictive personality. From beanie babies to mounds of old newspapers, collections can quickly get out of control and affect your relationships, personal space, financial standings and even your mental health. We’re discussing some of our own obsessions today, why artists make great hoarders, and some ways to try and keep yourself from plummeting into the danger zone. Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/perfectlyincapable/support

Collector or Hoarder?

It's Gay Christmas again! Halloween is our favorite time of year (although it's apparently not everyone's) and we're diving into our favorite spooky season. From costumes and parties to some of our favorite pop culture killers, light a candle and join us for another Halloween episode! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/perfectlyincapable/support

Mask 4 Mask

We’re probably all familiar with the classic “opposites attract” trope (Ross and Rachel, Cordelia and Xander) but what really makes our opposites appealing? Is it the constant push and pull or the passionate make ups? Is there longevity in the tension or are they just meant to fizzle out? Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/perfectlyincapable/support

Opposites Attract (?)

As much as we try, nobody’s perfect. At some point or another we all fuckup, but how easy is it to admit when you’ve made a mistake? We’re discussing how we handle our own personal errors, as well as when those around us are anything less than perfect. Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/perfectlyincapable/support

F*cking Up

IT'S OUR ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY! Neither Adam or Luis have made it to one year in their endeavors, so they're taking some time to reflect on the past year and see if they can find any areas of growth. Good luck, right? They discuss some of their favorite topics, if any of their views have changed, what they'd like to see in the future, and potentially even compliment one another (gasp). Grab your favorite hard seltzer, sit back and reflect with the boys! Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/perfectlyincapable/support

R E F L E C T I O N S

Perfectly Incapable is a gay lifestyle podcast with comedic, unfiltered discussions about relationships, dating, culture, and sex. Join Adam and Luis as they unpack their dysfunctional mishaps and dating fails. No filter. Just banter. Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/perfectlyincapable/support

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