It’s our final episode of Season 9 and we’ve compiled some of our favorite listener-submitted questions for our traditional, end-of-season Q&A. In this episode, we talked about Save the Dates, wedding party gifts, including pups in your wedding, organizing wedding emails, alcohol, and more. Thank you to our Ringer Club members for their support through another great season! We talked about:Whether Save the Dates are necessary Can you not have a cocktail hour?Do you need a table menu for buffet dinner?When you should give your wedding party their giftsLogistics and concerns when including pups in your wedding dayHow and when to get your marriage licenseOrganizing wedding emailsPros/cons of providing your own alcohol vs. using the catererA great resource for building your timeline Links mentioned:Dear Dans Bonus Episode (Season 4, 2018): How do we include our dogs in our wedding day? Alcohol Calculator in Shop at DPNAKEpisode 031: Let’s Talk About Booze Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Put A Ring On It: The Wedding Planning Podcast

Season 9 Q&A

Buckle up, Ringers. We’re sharing some major behind-the-scenes transparency as we recognize how COVID has affected the wedding industry and begin to look to the future. This episode is all about sharing what you might not realize is going on behind the scenes of the wedding industry, plus how and why it’s affecting you. It might be rough for now, but if we all come from a place of understanding, compassion, and grace - it will help everyone in the long run. We talked about:Some of the effects COVID has had on the wedding and event industry, both short-term and long-termHow vendors have specifically been affected and why that matters for you nowWhat it means for the future of weddingsWhat we can all do as we work to help find our balance again Links mentioned:Berlyn Events - Ohio wedding planner, Berlyn Martin (who you may remember from Episode 77 on Setting Boundaries)Eventful - Wisconsin wedding planner, Sarah WelchSocial Maven - New York wedding planner, Syrie RomanYour Inspired Event - California wedding planner, Savannah Gryskiewicz Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

State of the Wedding Industry

There are a lot of things on any wedding planning list you can find on Google. In this episode, we cover the items that are often forgotten about and WHY you should make sure to plan for them. This is a great episode to jot down some notes and do your future selves a solid. We talked about:What to check before booking your dateThe best time to check out your wedding venueSomething you don’t want to forget in the budgetThe best thing you can do for your timelineWhat it means to get the “weird one” out of the waySomething you can do to put Mother Nature on your sideBeing a good host to your vendors, tooThe thing you absolutely MUST do before your wedding invites go outPacking for the wedding day and the honeymoonAnd wayyyy more! Links mentioned:Tipping Guide Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

11 Things You Don’t Want To Forget To Do

In episode 105, special guest Carrie-Ann Kloda of Kith & Kin joins us to talk about finding your wedding mantra. We talk through why wedding planning is as stressful as it is and what you, as the couple, can do to find your focus and set healthy boundaries through the wedding planning process. Because the wedding is one day. The marriage that comes after is meant to last a lifetime. We talked about:Meet Carrie-Ann KlodaWhy wedding planning can be so stressfulWhy you should have a “wedding mantra”How to find your wedding mantraSome mantra examples to get your wheels turningWhy setting boundaries now sets you up for a healthy marriage Links mentioned:Kith & Kin Weddings Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto

Finding Your Wedding Mantra with Carrie-Ann Kloda

In this episode, Dan really spreads his wings to share his wealth of knowledge about all-things wedding photography. We talk through every step of the process with logistics, helpful tips, and of course, with Dan at the wheel, you know there’s lots of feels. We talked about:What to look for in a photographer’s websiteWhat to mention when reaching outThe most important items to look for in your photographer’s package listReal and meaningful questions to ask your photographer during the meetingWhat to expect after you hire themShould you send a shot list?What to expect after the wedding Links mentioned:Episode 057: Why You Should Print Your Wedding PhotosEpisode 034: Engagement Sessionsmpix Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto

The Really, Really Big Guide To Wedding Photography

Episode 103 is all about microweddings. What they are, why we think we’re going to see more of them in future years, and what makes them so incredibly special and wonderful. Danielle stepped away from her “tips” on this episode and got deep in the feels with Dan as they shared their experiences and opinions. Whether you’re going big or going small, this is still a great episode to enjoy and listen to with your SO. We talked about:What makes a wedding a “microwedding”How they differ from big weddings and elopementsAmazing moments from past microweddingsHow microweddings are similar to big weddingsWhat your first steps should be in planning one Links mentioned:Episode 62: Microweddings with Alisa TonggEpisode 85: Going Small, Elopements, Mini-monies, and Microweddings Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Microweddings: Go Big By Going Small

We’re halfway through Season 9 which means it’s time for another Q&A episode. In this episode, we’re picking some of our favorite listener-submitted questions and sharing our tips, advice, and encouragement. We talked about:Is your wedding planner included in your budget?What to do when vendors aren’t living up to your expectationsWhen to book which vendors, especially in the very beginning of planningGift ideas for the GroomIncluding teenaged nieces and nephews in the wedding dayAffordable wedding headpiece ideasBridal shower etiquetteShould you save money on a DJ and just do a Spotify playlist?Personally written vows vs. repeated standard vows Links mentioned:Episode 63: How to Build Your Team of Wedding VendorsEpisode 83: Involving Kids In Your Wedding DayEtsy Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Mid-Season Q&A

Who you choose to be in your Wedding Party – and who you DON’T choose - is a very big decision for your wedding. In this episode, we share some trends on how couples are tweaking this age-old tradition to better reflect the people that matter most to them. This includes using more inclusive terminology, focusing less on someone’s gender or having “even” sides, and potentially forgoing having a wedding party altogether. We talked about:Modern and inclusive terminologyTraditions of the pastIs it ok to have uneven sides?Mixed-gender wedding partiesVIPs that are supportive of both partnersOpting not to have a wedding partySome tips to keep in mind when deciding who you do (and don’t) want to include Links mentioned:Episode 6: Reinterpreting Weddings with Kathryn HammEpisode 83: Involving Kids In Your Wedding Plans Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto

Wedding Party Trends for 2021 and Beyond

EPISODE 100!!! ? Cue all the air horns and the confetti cannons! We’re celebrating episode 100 by going back in the archives and sharing some of our favorite moments over the years. We’re 100 episodes wiser and could not have done it without our amazing Ringer family! Thank you for cheering us on to this point and for being along for this wild ride! We talked about:Some of our favorite moments from the past 99 episodes Links mentioned:Season 1, Episode 2: It’s your party for everyone elseSeason 5, Episode 49: It’s Your Party For Everyone Else, Part 2Season 4 episode 38: Four Fundamentals to Hosting a Great EventSeason 4: Episode 42: 10 Tips for Making the Most of Your Wedding PhotosSeason 4, Bonus Dear Dans episode: Is It Rude Not To Give A Plus One?Season 7, Episode 77: How to Set Boundaries with Berlyn MartinSeason 7 Episode 80: Hindsight is 20/20Season 5, Episode 53: The Truth About Venue CoordinatorsSeason 7, Episode 73: Planning for a Marriage More Beautiful Than Your Wedding with Amber AndersonSeason 2: Episode 15: Post Wedding Blues Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto

Celebrating 100 Episodes! ?

In episode 99, we’re talking about how you can build your wedding budget around your priorities of the day. Because very few of us have a truly “unlimited” budget and that means that we can’t necessarily get #allthethings we want. So, starting with a budget and a conversation about your priorities makes navigating the world of wedding planning much less stressful and confusing. We talked about:Who should have a wedding budgetHow to know what to budgetWhat makes a great eventGetting granular on what makes an event “great” to youWhat your priorities have to do with your budgetWhy it’s important to track your budgetA simple and beautiful way to keep track of your wedding budget Links mentioned:Episode 38: Four Fundamentals To Hosting A Great EventWedding Budget Tracker Spreadsheet Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto

Aligning Your Wedding Budget With Your Priorities

It’s certainly an episode title that we never imagined having back in 2016. But in 2021, we’re now over a year into the COVID-19 global pandemic. In this episode, we’re discussing how it’s affected so many couples as they plan their weddings and what it means for those that are newly engaged. We talked about:How all areas and couples are experiencing this pandemic differently regarding restrictions around their weddingsWhy we encourage everyone to follow your local, state, and CDC guidelines for the safety of everyonePostponing a wedding and the ups and downs of thatLessons learned from postponing MANY weddingsDealing with wedding shaming as a coupleSome advice for those that are getting married in the upcoming monthsOur official welcome to those that are newly engaged and hopping onto this wild rideTwo important tips for planning a wedding in 2022 and beyond Links mentioned:Brides: Wedding Shaming Is Real: What It Is and How to Handle ItCDC Guidance for Organizing Large Events and Gatherings Join the "Ringer Club" on Patreon to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto 

Wedding Planning During a Global Pandemic

We’re back for Season 9 and coming at you with some REAL TALK, Ringers. In this episode, we chat with comedian, author, and former bride, Jamie Lee, as she shares her story of wedding planning and the parts of it that aren’t as “warm and fuzzy”. Jamie also gives us a peek at her upcoming show, “The Wedding Coach” which drops on Netflix on April 7th, 2021. (We had the chance to preview it and you do NOT want to miss it!) We talked about:Meet Jamie Lee, author, comedian, former bride-to-be, and host of the “The Wedding Coach”Jamie’s book: Weddiculous (a super-funny and must-read book for any couple, especially brides)How planning a wedding can feel super isolating (and why)Why the term “Bridezilla” is an insanely unfair label to place on anyoneHow every couple has SOMEONE who is just tough to deal with when wedding planningHer opinion on the most important aspects of a weddingSome incredibly candid advice to couples who are feeling a little lostSome of her favorite moments from the show and behind-the-scenes Links mentioned:Weddiculous: An Unfiltered Guide to Being a Bride“The Wedding Show” on NetflixSupport the Show Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto 

Real Talk with Jamie Lee from Netflix’s “The Wedding Coach”

We talked about:Alternative options if you don’t want to have dancing at your weddingWhat to do once all of your vendors are bookedDealing with family drama when you need to cut the guest list due to COVID restrictionsOur thoughts on venues that include EVERYTHING, like photography and DJ servicesWhether custom signage is worth itHow far in advance you should book your vendorsWays to incorporate your grandparents into your wedding dayHow to get your fiance “excited” about wedding planning 

End of Season: Q&A

We talked about:It’s ok to just daydream a bit and brainstorm before diving in head firstWhat to do if people start asking you a million questionsWhy priorities are important and the foundation of where to startThe dreaded B-word: BudgetBuilding your guest list and how it affects, like, everythingWhy a wedding planner should be one of your first stopsTips for choosing your venueAnd much more! 

Five Steps To Start Planning Your Wedding

We talked about:Why a wedding day goes by so fastWhy it’s important to make time for you as an individualStarting your day as close to your regular routine as possibleThe importance of FOOD on the wedding dayWhy it’s just as important to make time for you as a coupleFirst looks and why they might be the right thing for youWhere the tradition of not seeing one another the night of the wedding or before you walk down the aisle came fromThe post-ceremony “time out”Pros and cons of a Sweetheart Table (and what it even is)The BEST way to achieve what you want: PLAN FOR ITFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts.

The Importance of Making Time For You On Your Wedding Day

Wedding pros, Daniel Moyer and Danielle Pasternak, come together to share their wedding industry and wedding planning knowledge through stories, interviews, tips and practical advice. In the wedding world, there is a great deal of dated information prancing through the interwebs and the Put A Ring On It podcast was created to help couples navigate the modern world of weddings by knowing which rules are ok to break and why certain traditions have stood the test of time. The show is created for anyone planning a wedding and wants insider knowledge and downright sensible wedding planning advice.

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Put A Ring On It: The Wedding Planning Podcast

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