Today we are talking about a very common occurrence with soul mates. We get many calls from clients who are distraught because their soulmate is on the run and become a soulmate runner.  This phenomenon happens so often, it has become almost commonplace with soul mates    Even though many soulmates will have to experience this, it is probably one of the hardest challenges soulmates will face. Do you know why soulmates run?   Do twin flames run?   What is the best way to approach this when your soulmate runs from you? What is the best thing to do?   Find out on today's show with Sarah Adelle and Sophia Elise.   

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Soulmate and Twin Flame Runners - They Can Run but They Can't Hide

Compassion, in relationships must be a two way street or our relationships will fail. We must understand the people in our lives may be going through things we don't know about, understand, or what it really feels like to be in their shoes. They are not perfect, and quite frankly, neither are we. We all need to cut one another more slack and stop sweating the small stuff. But there are times when we are compassionate towards the others in our lives that we will wind up taking the hit instead. How can we effectively make sure that we don't overdo our compassion? When do we realize that we have been overly compassionate towards someone who may not be overly deserving of it?

Compassion is a Two-Way Street

Can you identify the dead end relationships in your life? Have you reached a dead end in your romantic relationship, although you had hoped it was a fork in the road? Would you rather stab your eyes with icepicks than continue to go to a boring job that has no future growth potential? It is time to get into the driver's seat and figure out what direction you need to take for the next stage of your life. Todaywe will discuss deadend relationships, how to identify them, fix them, or move on down the road.

Dead End Relationships

Is your relationship meant to be? So many people believe that just because a greater destiny brought the two of you together, that the relationship is meant to be. And while that could possibly be true in some cases, we all have an individual responsibility to ourselves to determine if that relationship really meets our needs, desires and expectations. If you are unfulfilled and unhappy in a relationship, why would you consider staying in it, just because you believe it is meant to be? What it really comes down to is our own choices for ourselves, our relationships and for our lives. Even if a  mystical force brought you together, that same mystical force does not coerce you to staying stuck in something that makes you miserable. In reality, that mystical force expects you be able to see the reality of your situation and take ownership of your life.

Is Your Relationship Meant to Be?

When we feel insecure in our romantic relationship we may become prone to controlling behavior. Controlling behavior, either from you or your partner, will ruin your relationship. . We may be controlling because we fear our romantic partner will abandon us. We may be controlling because this is our nature. We may be controlling because we fear our partner may cheat on us.  Instead of trying to gain control of your partners thoughts, feelings, or behaviors, you need to gain control of your own. During this broadcast we will give examples of controlling behavior in relationships and give you some guidance on how to get control of your own thoughts and behaviors.

Is Controlling Behavior Ruining Your Relationship?

You see it everywhere, on television, in the movies, on dating sites, you name it. Find your soulmate! You are incomplete without your soulmate! Everyone wants to find their soulmate so they can then finally be happy, live happily ever after and be in a perfect drama free relationship. Well, here is a news flash for everyone  - Soulmate relationships are often some of the most difficult relationships that we as human souls will encounter in our lives. Who said they would be easy? Why does everyone think they will be? Today we will discuss our thoughts on soulmate relationships, why they are challenging and what you can do to stay sane if you are in one.

Soulmate Relationships Were Never Meant to be Easy

We have all heard it in wedding vows: In sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, in good times and in bad times....and we make those vows believing that is what love, and a real relationship stands for. But what happens when the going gets really bad for one of you and your partner is unsupportive? How do you prepare yourself to not get blind-sided by someone who can not be counted on to help you through the bad times? The main purpose or point of a relationship is to be with someone who cares about you and shows it!

Relationships: Taking the Good with the Bad

It seems that everyone is talking about connections these days and the connection they feel to their romantic partner. People insist that some of these connections are soulmate or twin flame connections, soul partner connections and spiritual connections that the Universe has put together. Sometimes though the connection is not felt, or honored, by both parties who are in the relationship. What can you do about it?  If a connection is truly divinely inspired, by God or the Universe, wouldn't it make the most sense to leave the unfolding of that relationship to the higher power who got it rolling, instead of trying to fix and control it yourself? What is your responsibility in the framework of this connection to your romantic partner, to yourself and to the Divine?

Relationship Connections and Responsibility

There are times in our lives when we really must realize that we have no choice but to give up, walk away and move on. This does not imply that we are quitters, and should not have any negative connotation attached to that decision, it simply means that we realize that we are not going with the divine flow of the Universe in what is right for our lives, allowing them to see that we are open to something better coming into our lives. Whether it is a job, career or relationship of any kind, when faced with the truth that it is time to give up, it may feel frustrating, depressing, or perhaps even scary. But in reality, it is very freeing because you are no longer a slave to that failing job, career or relationship and are ready to take on something better, and better for you and your soul. Tonight we will discuss how giving up can be the most empowering thing for you to do.

The Power of Giving Up

All relationships are different.  They are as unique as the two individuals that define them.  Some couples are married, some have an open relationships, some are simply sexual partners with no strings attached, yet each is considered a relationship. Too many people overuse the term relationship to describe the status between themselves and the person they love even when they are in the very early dating stage of getting to really know someone. The dating phase of a relationship is the most important phase because it is your journey of discovery to allow you to determine if you and your new love interest are compatible and want similar things from life and love. Many times, in an effort to get to the relationship stage, people tend to blow past the dating phase. Today we will explain, in great detail, why this discovery phase of getting to know someone is crucial to your own happiness!

The Dating Game: Why Dating is so Important in Getting to Know Someone

There is a huge pull toward organic food these days and away from processed food. Processed food was created to extend the shelf life of certain food items with preservatives and other chemical alterations so they would not expire. We see so many people trying to do the same thing with relationships. Does your relationship have an expiration date or is it so full of overly processed toxins and poisons because you want to hold onto it no matter how miserable you are? Relationships that have the ability to develop naturally and organically stand a much greater chance of success than those that are rushed and forced into some preconceived format of where they are supposed to go. Relationships that are not given the opportunity to develop naturally, usually fail anyway, as expectations of one of the parties in the relationship can never quite be realized. Do you have an organic or processed relationship? 

Is Your Relationship Organic or Processed?

In a perfect world when a relationship ends, we would all want it to end amicably. No one wants the drama and fighting that can sometimes occur at the end of a relationship to make it more difficult than it has to be. It is quite possible to end the relationship amicably... but does this mean that you should always end the relationship and remain friends? If both parties are able to do this and not have the friendship interfere with each moving on with their lives that is one thing, but if one holds onto that friendship hoping it will morph into a relationship again, it can be very difficult for them to move on with their life. You may say you are 'still friends' but you actually have to BE friends and each needs to think how this will work within the dynamic of their new life.

Should You Be Friends with Your Ex?

When it comes to relationships it can be very difficult to distinguish facts from fiction. When you don't have all the facts, it can be quite easy to weave a significant amount of fiction into our 'story'. Until you know the facts, or at least enough of them, it is essential that you do your best to refrain from jumping to conclusions, assuming, glamorizing or fictionalizing what a great relationship would be, and how great someone would be if you were in a relationship with them. Do you know which parts of your relationship are built on facts versus what may be built on fiction? How can you differentiate facts from fiction?

Relationships: Facts and Fiction

Valentine’s Day evokes thoughts of chocolate, flowers, romantic cards, and cherubic angels shooting us with arrows. There are special diamonds, jewelry, lingerie and secret indulgences you can buy your Valentine. Much of today's society views Valentine’s Day as an obligation who feel they better recognize their sweetheart with flowers and fluff or endure resentment for the rest of the year. Yes folks, it is Valentines day once again, and in many cases, it won't live up to the hype or the high expectations placed on what is allegedly the most romantic day of the year.

Valentine's Day: Isn't Love Complicated Enough?

You know who she is. She may be the of many women's existence, the dreaded "her". But who is she exactly? Well..You know her, she is the one that is with the guy who would be perfect for YOU, but instead he is in a relationship with HER. When someone else has what you want, it is easy to hate them. When you believe someone is keeping you from getting what you deserve, it is easy to blame them. When someone has something more than you can or could ever get, it is easy to be jealous of them. But what does she really have? On this show we will discuss what is really going on here and put it in a new perspective for you, so you have a better understanding of both HER and HIM.

What Makes Her So Special?

Do you feel powerless? Do you struggle with moving forward? Sarah and Sophia can help you reach your highest potential in love, career and all other aspects of your life. They are here to empower you to take control of your life and your heart. They encourage you to lighten your load and they help you envision your future so you can actively participate in co-creating that with the Divine!

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