If triggers are the cues that send our body into stress and survival mode, glimmers are the antidote. Glimmers are our invitations back home into a state of calm, safe social belonging. Glimmers are moments that remind us to return to pleasure, rest, calm and connection – no matter how big the storm around us. […] The post Glimmers and Sparks – Coming Home To Pleasure appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

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Glimmers and Sparks – Coming Home To Pleasure

In this episode we speak with Jamila Dawson, LMFT and August McLaughlin, authors of the new book With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships. We cover the basics of what trauma is, the lifelong impact of trauma, how trauma disrupts our safety and social belonging, what triggers are (and are not!) […] The post Managing Trauma Triggers appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

Managing Trauma Triggers

What does it take to design the ultimate handjob machine? Can a device really deliver smooth satisfying strokes? How can we keep the Sex in SexTech? In this special episode of Speaking of Sex, we speak to Jens Petter Wilhelmsen, founder of the company behind The Handy, the world’s most innovative and satisfying stroking device. […] The post Designing The Ultimate Handjob Machine appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

Designing The Ultimate Handjob Machine

Sex toys and pleasure tools range from simple devices to elaborate machines, from mild to wild, from tools to assist in comfort and reduce pain to toys that create extraordinary sensations – the world of pleasure tools is boundless! In this episode we invite you to explore the wide world of pleasure tools, clear up […] The post Sex Toys & Pleasure Tools appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

Sex Toys & Pleasure Tools

Want a hotter sex life? Then keep it warm, so it is easier to get hot! In this episode, we explore how to “warm up” to eroticism in your daily life, so you can experience more warmth and vitality, enjoy more pleasure and connection – and, when the time is right, get hot and experience […] The post Keep It Warm, So It Is Easier To Get Hot appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

Keep It Warm, So It Is Easier To Get Hot

Afterglow is one of the most enjoyable parts of pleasure – but we often rush through or skip over this phase entirely. In this episode we explore how to bask in the afterglow, extend the afterglow and even how to mine the erotic wisdom that is only available in the precious state of afterglow. Afterglow […] The post Afterglow appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

Afterglow

It’s National Orgasm Day! We always like an excuse to celebrate pleasure, but orgasm is one of the most misunderstood parts of the sexual experience, and stands in as a measure of sexual success instead of an experience to be savored. In this episode, co-hosted by therapist and author Lucie Fielding, we break down orgasm, […] The post To Orgasm And Beyond! appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

To Orgasm And Beyond!

We’ve been in Pleasure Mechanics uniforms for 15 years and this is our 400th episode! We’re celebrating by featuring calls from our global community of 11,000 pleasure seekers. New to Pleasure Mechanics? Enroll in our free online course and get started with our most essential frameworks for more pleasure: Free Pleasure Mechanics Online Course Ready […] The post Celebrating 400 Episodes and 15 Years of Pleasure Mechanics appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

Celebrating 400 Episodes and 15 Years of Pleasure Mechanics

In this conclusion to our Thrilling Sex Series, we explore the difference between Intense and Extreme when it comes to erotic experiences. Click here for the complete Thrill series and curated resources. Intense is a matter of degree, force or volume. Any experience can be made more intense through deeper engagement with our attention and […] The post Intense Sex Vs. Extreme Sex appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

Intense Sex Vs. Extreme Sex

Thrill and Delight are both experiences of Peak Pleasures – but what separates thrill from delight? What can we learn from Thrill to allow us more Delight in our lives? In this episode of Speaking of Sex, we continue our conversation about Cultivating Erotic Thrills. For the full series and complete resources, check out PleasureMechanics.com/thrill […] The post Thrill Vs. Delight appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

Thrill Vs. Delight

Want more erotic thrill in your life? In this free podcast episode, we discover how to cultivate more thrill in your sex life – without risking it all! The experience of thrill is all about experiencing peak pleasure with the full-bodied attention that is sparked by real or perceived risk. Most humans crave some level […] The post Exploring Erotic Thrill appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

Exploring Erotic Thrill

Psychogenic Arousal is a human superpower that many of us forget we have! Just like we can make ourselves quake with fear by thinking about scary things, we can create full bodied experiences of pleasure, excitement and arousal through thoughts alone! Pscyhogenic stimulation is all about turning yourself on by with our minds, and it […] The post Psychogenic Arousal appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

Psychogenic Arousal

Play is an essential part of the human experience – yet many of us adults have lost touch with how to play, in and out of the bedroom. In this episode, we explore how and why humans play, and how we can all get more playful with ourselves, each other and the world around us. […] The post The Pleasures Of Play appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

The Pleasures Of Play

“How free are we to determine how we experience and express our sexuality? How much is this determined by the structures around us?” These are just two of the very big questions and ideas we encounter as part of the adventure in Meg-John Barker and illustrator Jules Scheer’s Sexuality: A Graphic Guide In this episode […] The post In Graphic Detail: Interview with Meg-John Barker appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

In Graphic Detail: Interview with Meg-John Barker

Bored of masturbation? Stuck in a rut? Uninspired? Here’s how to uplevel your solo sex life and become a better lover for yourself! This episode explores everything from unpacking your attitudes and beliefs about masturbation to getting out of childhood patterns, from exploring new positions and toys to how to bring more intention and emotion […] The post How To Uplevel Your Solo Sex Life appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

How To Uplevel Your Solo Sex Life

Expert sex advice, proven techniques and candid conversation from The Pleasure Mechanics. Discover how to have the sex you crave! Like Savage Lovecast? You’ll love Speaking of Sex!

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Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

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