Episode 77 has an anonymous friend of mine join the show to discuss her side hustle of "dating" wealthy men. We discuss a few of her experiences, what she's noticed these men all have in common, and why they would resort to an app/website for companionship. We get into what I've learned from recent coffee dates of my own and talk about the idea of a balance of money earned vs drama gained. Life is RAD.

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#77 "Sugar Daddy Dating?"

On March 13th, I was involved in a motorcycle accident that has genuinely changed my life. I invited two friends, Jeff and Will, to recap the 4 months I've spent away from the podcast. I get into the crash itself, my change in perspective, interesting challenges I've dealt with, and plenty of funny stories throughout. Taking the time off had me nervous upon coming back, but this show reminded me just how fun podcasting really is. Thanks everyone!

#76 "The Crash" Will Small & Jeff Williams

After a motorcycle crash and 4 months later, Standing Still is BACK! This show was recorded on Friday March 12th, which was the night before the motorcycle accident that changed my life. I sit down with Will and Jeff to tell funny stories about my (then) recent trip to Texas and discuss what I'd been struggling with in life at that point and the toxic nature of depression. Oh, and after about 10 years, I come clean to Will about something involving his ex-girlfriend. New episode every Monday! Jeff and Will, thanks boys. Life is RAD!

#75 "A Dream Come True" Will Small & Jeff Williams

Episode #74 has just you and I with a glass of whiskey. I tell stories, some recent and some not, and give a glimpse into what I'm currently struggling with. Ex-girlfriend shenanigans, feeling "rowdy" in Huntington Beach, a few individuals that inspire me, and quite a bit more. I strive to be genuine on this show, and to finish this episode, I believe I succeeded. Life is RAD. 

#74 "I Remember When..." Steven Hoffa Solo

On this episode of The Standing Still Podcast, I discuss a recent mentally challenging day I personally experienced. I run through every step of that particular Thursday and articulate the negative, and toxic, mentality I chose to equip myself with. I open up about tactics I use in my personal life to combat the "bad days" life can sometimes throw my way. I get into what I believe defines "success" and reflect back to learn and reposition myself to keep moving forward. I ponder and speak on just how blessed I really am. Relationships, opportunities, positive outlook, LIFE IS RAD.

#73 "Same Day Different Mindset" Steven Hoffa Solo

When Big John and I had a great conversation on episode #68 regarding his life and the black community and culture in general, we ultimately ran out of time. This episode is the continuation of that conversation to further discover the value of giving back to your community, and why the "program" 2nd Call is such a key example to so many. Anthony Fagan joins the show as well to discuss his inspiring rise to success and set yet another great example beside BIG John with the perspective of a younger generation. We dive deep into developing the proper life skills that will propel you to success, and why those skills can often times be absent in some communities. BIG John, Anthony, thanks boys.

#72 "2nd Call" BIG John Harriel Jr. & Anthony Fagan

I had the opportunity to meet David through work, and upon witnessing how hard not only himself but also his fiance Imani work, well, I knew I had to invite them on the show. Imani is the CEO and owner of Platinum Prop Rentals among many other ventures. We get into how covid affected their business, and their attitude towards setting goals and positioning themselves for future success. Business, real estate, vending machines, work ethic, we cover it all and more. Imani, David, thanks guys. Be sure to check out Platinum Prop Rentals at www.platinumproprentals.com and on social @platinumproprentals

#71 "Always Moving Forward" Imani Williams & David Delgado

Sean Starnes is a good friend I've known for many years. Sean was set to visit SoCal and I knew we had to catch up. This is that conversation. We talk about his home in Bend Oregon and his new venture (44 Northwest) in residential design-build construction. He reveals some hard lessons he's learned in the past and some key habits that he implements into his every-day life to better himself for future success. We banter about why I should purchase property in Bend and some of the sacrifices he's made in his life to further his entrepreneur outlook lifestyle. Thanks Sean. Always a pleasure Bud.

#70 "Everything Comes At A Cost" Sean Starnes

Nadia Ruiz is a personal coach who's list of accomplishments are nothing short of impressive. Nadia is the the youngest latina to achieve 100 marathons, 146 in total, has traveled to 27 countries, is a UCLA grad, and plenty more. We not only discuss her many achievements, but also look back on her life as well to get a better understanding of her success and personal drive. We get into the mental side of marathon running, and fitness in general. We chat about the overlooked value of self reflection and the benefits one can yield. Brilliant attitude towards life Nadia. Thanks for the time! Be sure to check her out on all social media @irongirlnadia

#69 "Confidence Takes Practice" Nadia Ruiz

"Big John" is an individual that was raised in the city of Los Angeles in what could be described as a "dysfunctional" atmosphere. We discuss his rise from selling drugs, to becoming a union electrician, to ultimately climbing to superintendent. We get into the very divisive subject of the black community and the surrounding culture. We discuss the value of giving back to your community and why it's so paramount. I ask for Big John's thoughts on the craziness of today and we get into the importance of an honest conversation. Thanks for THIS honest conversation John, and the many brilliant perspectives you provided both on this show, and off.

#68 "BIG JOHN" John Harriel Jr.

A Tuesday night with awesome friends. David, Eric, and Damasio join the show to talk new-year-resolutions and life in general. The men we wish to become come December 2021 and what we will have to change to get there. I propose a tactic I've been using to keep my spending and diet in check while also having the opportunity to pay it forward. We get into Covid a bit at the end, and naturally, there are some fun dating stories sprinkled throughout. Thanks boys. Life is so rad.

#67 "Who To Be In 2021" David Rannis, Eric Flores, & Damasio Sanchez

Episode #66 brings to the show the always generous and humble Lisa Hoffa. She's also my mom. We visit the topic of who I am now, as well as in every chapter of my life. What was I like as a young boy, through my teen years, early adulthood, and what to pursue looking forward. We get into some concerns she's had for me, and also what strengths she feels I possess and what she finds pride in her son. Yes, there are embarrassing stories. Always a treat mom, thanks! For her story, as well as my father's, check out episode #17.

#66 "My Life Via My Mom" Lisa Hoffa

The year 2020 was an interesting one for all of us. On this episode, I take a look back on how mine played out. I get into the lows and the highs and everything in between. I tell my experience of being a foreman electrician for the new Sofi Stadium and the many lessons I learned with that. I explain why I decided to start the podcast up again and why I was DONE with waiting to move my life forward. For me, 2020 was an incredible year in many metrics. I was challenged heavily, I felt uncomfortable for the majority of it, and yet I wouldn't change a thing. Excited for what's to come!

#65 "A Look Back On 2020" Steven Hoffa Solo

Victor Martinez is a foreman I had in the past as an apprentice electrician. Having not been in contact with each other for a few years, I reached out to catch up on the show and talk life. We discuss the value of voicing your appreciation with not only words, but also the actions you take to your crew and those you surround yourself with. We talk leadership in general and the divisiveness in today's covid-craziness. 

#64 "Too Nice?" Victor Martinez

I invite my good friends Kortney Kindig and Will Small back on the show to discuss a very lengthy and interesting, to say the least, message I received in the middle of the night from an old Tinder date I had 3 years ago. We break it down and discuss all possible angles and outcomes. I then delve into some drama that ensued when camping for thanksgiving weekend. "No" means "No" right ladies? I had so many honest and genuine laughs on this show. Always a blast with these two! Follow the show on Insta @standingstillpodcast

#62 "NEW Juice On An OLD Tinder Date" Kortney Kindig & Will Small

Standing Still is a podcast about slowing things down, taking a breath, and enjoying the moment. Join me, Steven Hoffa, as I enjoy the laughter, intellect, and perspective of my varying guests!

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