Links to article on the blog: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2021/12/the-emotional-journey-with-vaginismus/

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Episode 126: The Disease That Must Be Named + feeling less homeless!

Our sponsor Femallay! https://femallay.comBecome a patreon and support us for as little as $5 a month! Our New Merch! Check out all of our merch, and our Be a Biblical Woman collectionNicole Parker&apos;s Tales of Exodus book seriesThe Great Sex RescueOur Mental Load and Emotional Labor seriesHow Christian Resources teach women to be passive aggressive  Barbara Rainey&apos;s article on spiritual leadershipOur FREE Video Book Study for The Great Sex Rescue Dora on TikTok about raising orphans

Episode 125: Why is Marriage Advice Mostly Aimed at Women?

Links:Our wonderful sponsor Femallay. Check out their vaginal melts, and their innovative menstrual cups that allow you to empty them while they&apos;re still inserted.The Great Sex Rescue! https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/the-orgasm-course/https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2021/12/arousal-non-concordance-you-really-need-to-know-what-it-is/Support us on Patreon for as little as $5 a month! And be sure to sign up for our Tea and Tent Pegs webinar that goes live December 6!

Episode 124: Does Your Vagina Have a Brain? The Mind-Body Connection

Links to things mentioned:Our wonderful sponsor Femallay. Check out their vaginal melts, and their innovative menstrual cups that allow you to empty them while they&apos;re still inserted.The Great Sex Rescue! Especially chapter 11 where we talk about postpartum sex and the advice given to womenThe Italian study Keith and I referencedThe Facebook post where women shared their storiesPlus we didn&apos;t mention it, but please: Support us on Patreon for as little as $5 a month! And be sure to sign up for our Tea and Tent Pegs webinar that goes live December 6!Our previous posts on postpartum sexual favors and the podcast Rebecca and Joanna did about resuming sex postpartum

Episode 123: Let's talk Sexual Favours Postpartum

Links to things mentioned:Link to the Webinar with Sheila, Kristin, and Beth! https://us06web.zoom.us/webinar/register/3916371742777/WN_4zAQL63IQKWmABs58aF6_AThe Making of Biblical Womanhood: https://amzn.to/3x0aULdL. M. M. story mentioned: http://fullreads.com/literature/the-strike-at-putney/Check out our sponsor, Femallay! https://femallay.comJoin our Patreon! https://patreon.com/baremarriage

Episode 122: The Making of Biblical Womanhood ft Beth Allison Barr

Find Dan and Stephanie&apos;s podcast here! https://podcastaddict.com/podcast/3567488

Episode 121: Finding Your Own Path ft hosts of NeuroDiverse Christian Couples Podcast

The blog: http://tolovehonorandvacuum.comOur Patreon! Please join for as little as $5 a month and get access to our private (and very active!) Facebook group; our unfiltered podcast; merchandise; free books, and more! It supports Joanna&apos;s and Rebecca&apos;s time in getting our research into peer-reviewed journals and expanding to new social media outletsFemallay! We love what they&apos;re doing to help women experience more pleasure and more comfort in our own bodies. Please check them out.The Great Sex Rescue! Plus The Good Guy&apos;s Guide to Great Sex is ready for pre-order! And so is the totally revamped Good Girl&apos;s Guide to Great Sex! Amie Latta&apos;s counseling and coaching practiceOur podcast where we talked about neuroscience research

Episode 120: Why Too Many Can't Let Go of the 'Obligation Sex' Message

Thanks to our sponsor Femallay! Check out their vaginal melts, and my post on how your vagina changes as you ageOur Patreon–support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our unfiltered podcasts and our private Facebook group (which is really active!)The Great Sex Rescue–Chapters 5 and 6 cover the lust issue and porn issue, and try to do so in a non-shaming way, focused on actual researchOur Sexy DaresThe Intimately Us AppOur Orgasm CourseKeith’s post on sexually confident menOur podcast with Marc Alan Schelske about emotional maturityAndrew Bauman’s post about the pornographic style of relatingToday&apos;s Blog Post

Start Your Engines Ep. 17: How To Be Sex Positive Without Being Creepy

We are thrilled to have a wonderful guest joining us this week! We hope you enjoy Sheila&apos;s conversation with author Gretchen Baskerville, as they discuss some extremely important points we need to include in our conversations around divorce in the Christian church.Links to things mentioned:The blog post that goes along with this podcast:https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2021/10/podcast-focus-on-the-family-and-abuse-divorce/Gretchen Baskerville&apos;s Site:https://lifesavingdivorce.com/Gretchen&apos;s book The Lifesaving Divorce:https://amzn.to/3vwdUhLGretchen&apos;s article on the 12 Half Truths in Focus on the Family&apos;s Article about Divorce and Kids:http://lifesavingdivorce.com/fotfdivorce1/Gretchen&apos;s Video on Love & Respect:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZ3rqe9m--EMy Open Letter to Focus on the Family about Love & Respect:https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/01/open-letter-focus-on-the-family-love-respect-emerson-eggerichs/Gretchen&apos;s Social Media:Twitter: https://twitter.com/ggbaskervilleInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/gretchenbaskerville/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LifeSavingDivorce

Episode 118: What Are Christian Resources NOT Telling You About Abuse? ft. Gretchen Baskerville

We have a VERY special guest  joining later today! For the first time ever we have Sheila&apos;s mother, Elizabeth, here to share all her wisdom! We hope you enjoy today&apos;s episode all about boobs, and breast cancer awareness!Links to things mentioned:Link for breast self-exam: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nkPR4ar1EQ4Link for Married Sex on Amazon--many of the reviews refer to the breast problem https://amzn.to/3iYfEvkPatreon: https://patreon.com/baremarriageFemallay: https://femallay.comOur puberty course The Whole Story https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/the-whole-story/Post on Developing Bust Early: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2018/08/early-puberty-big-bust-shame/

Episode 117: All about BOOBS!

For this special edition of the Bare Marriage Podcast we created an episode that you can listen to WITH your teenagers! Rebecca and Connor walk through their own &apos;Sex-Ed&apos; experiences, and discuss how they plan to talk to their own children about sex and sexual health one day. We hope this episode can be a great jumping off point for important parent/teenager conversations that may happen throughout these teen years, to help you equip your children in making wise decisions as they go through high school.Be sure to check out the blog post that goes along with this podcast at http://tolovehonorandvacuum.com !

Episode 116: Why Teenagers SHOULD know lots about Sex!

Today it&apos;s Rebecca and Connor coming to you, to discuss some neuropsychology! We know, it&apos;s a lot, but bare with us! We hope you enjoy this ramble through some statistical and psychological studies that can give us all a clearer picture on how we should be talking about the differences between men and women&apos;s brains.Links to things mentioned:Check out Femallay&apos;s products here: https://www.femallay.com/2021 Meta-analysis of gender differences in the brain: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S01497634210008042019 Meta-analysis of gender differences in neural responses to sexual stimuli: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6681749/Critiques of Brizendine&apos;s work that have been available for over 10 years: https://www.talyarkoni.org/blog/2010/03/24/the-male-brain-hurts-or-how-not-to-write-about-science/https://www.nature.com/articles/443634a

Episode 115: Are 'Pink Brains' and 'Blue Brains' Real?

Many of you have asked for a step by step guide to clarify how to gauge whether a book is harmful or helpful. So today, we thought we&apos;d do just that, and help walk everyone through the process we use when critiquing Christian resources we see being used today. We&apos;d also like to thank our guest Neil Schori for joining us today with such a wonderful discussion on how to talk to pastors about the harm found in resources. We can&apos;t wait to have him back on the podcast again soon!Links to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Support our research and getting our message out for as little as $5 a month and get access to our super fun and active Facebook group, behind the scenes podcasts, and more!Sign up for our email list!Our big post on the two tests for whether or not a speaker or resource is safeThe Great Sex RescueFind Neil Schori on Twitter, and join his Facebook Page for his spiritual direction and domestic violence prevention ministryOur Open Letter to Focus on the Family about Love & RespectOur Rubric for Healthy Sexuality Teaching--and our report of our findings from The Great Sex Rescue (you can download both at the same place)

Episode 114: Life Hacks to Help Know Which Christian Book are Toxic

We are thrilled to bring you another weekly edition of the Bare Marriage podcast, with a special guest appearance by friend of the show Andrew Bauman for a short segment today.  Please remember to read the blog post that accompanies this podcast for more context into the topics we discussed.Links to things mentioned:The Blog: http://tolovehonorandvacuum.comThe Great Sex Rescue and 31 Days to Great SexSupport our Patreon for as little as $5 a month! Help fund our peer reviewed research and new social media channels to spread our research.Join our email list!Andrew Bauman&apos;s website, his article on the pornographic style of relating, and his book The Psychology of PornYour Sexually Addicted Spouse by Barbara Steffens--has information about betrayal traumaGary Thomas&apos; article "My spouse can&apos;t cure me, but can help me"2 Hour Facebook Live with betrayal trauma experts talking about the problems with the idea that more sex can help his porn addiction

Episode 113: Are You Doing Sex on Hard Mode?

Thank you to our lovely guest Micah for joining us today! You can find her online here:https://www.apexcounselingservices.com/clinician/micah-morgan/Links to other things mentioned:https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2021/07/on-elisabeth-elliots-terrible-courtship-and-dating-men-sold-out-for-jesus/https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2021/08/the-great-sex-rescue-video-group-study/

Episode 112: You're Supposed to be a TEAM!

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