Donate to Bi Women Quarterly!  https://www.biwomenquarterly.com/donate/Robyn's Etsy Shop, "Bi-Products" (proceeds support Bi Women Quarterly): https://www.etsy.com/shop/biproducts/Buy "Recognize: The Voices of Bisexual Men": https://www.etsy.com/listing/709911434/recognize-the-voices-of-bisexual-men?ref=shop_home_active_9&frs=1Robyn's website: https://robynochs.com/Follow Robyn on Twitter: https://twitter.com/robynochsFollow Robyn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robynochs/ We're so excited to sit down with another Bi-con: Robyn Ochs! Most of us have come across Robyn's popular definition of bisexuality (especially if you've listened to this podcast), and many of us use it as our own go-to definition. There's a reason for that -- it's been honed over time and is the result of four decades of Robyn's Bi+ activism.In this special episode, Rob chats with Robyn about when and how she realized she was bisexual, the liberation of finding a likeminded community and coming out, what Bi+ organizing was like B.G. ("before Google"), what we can and can't learn about people based on the labels they choose, Robyn's understanding of the gender spectrum and her own gender fluidity, how breaking out of the sexuality binary can help us see other false binaries in society, and why Robyn believes "questioning" is a feature, not a flaw, of identity.We also discussed Robyn's recent and current work, including Bi+ Women Quarterly, a grassroots publication that Robyn edits; "Recognize: The Voices of Bisexual Men", an anthology that Robyn edited and published along with Dr. Herukhuti; and Robyn's interactive workshop called "Beyond Binaries" which she has been developing and performing for over two decades.Two Bi Guys is produced and edited by Rob CohenCreated by Rob Cohen and Alex BoydLogo art by Kaitlin WeinmanMusic by Ross MintzerWe are supported by The Gotham (formerly IFP)

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Robyn Ochs Literally Defines Bisexuality

Buy Jen's book and subscribe to their Bi+ newsletter: https://www.greedy-bisexual.com/Follow Jen on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenerous/Follow Jen on Twitter: https://twitter.com/jenerous We've all dealt with the stereotype that bisexual people are confused. But what's so bad about confusion?? The world is complicated!We're back with Jen Winston (she/they), aka @Jenerous, talking about greed, confusion, and all the other "negative" stereotypes about Bi+ people that we love to play into. We discussed Jen's new book GREEDY: NOTES FROM A BISEXUAL WHO WANTS TO MUCH (out Oct 5!), in which they go beyond bi-myth-busting, question the very nature of stereotypes and why we often consider them bi-phobic, and present their authentic, messy, personal bi narrative in a funny, relatable, and honest memoir.We also talked about the gender spectrum (a lot...), non-binary and transgender identities (and their intersection with bisexuality), Jen's non-binary identity and experience using both "she" and "they" pronouns, their slightly-later-in-life coming out process, their thoughts on male bisexuality and their relationships with bisexual men, that time they had a threesome (!!), the importance and lack of specifically-bi spaces (and how we might create them ourselves), bi men's unique ability to smash the patriarchy from within, how queer people blur the lines between types of relationships (and tend to stay friends with their exes), internalized bi-phobia and how it contributes to a cycle of invisibility, queer dating advice, bisexuality on TV, and much more! (Yeah, we covered a lot in this one.)Two Bi Guys is produced and edited by Rob CohenCreated by Rob Cohen and Alex BoydLogo art by Kaitlin WeinmanMusic by Ross MintzerWe are supported by The Gotham (formerly IFP)

Jen Winston is Greedy, Confused, & Proud of It

Follow Shiri Eisner on Twitter:  https://twitter.com/ShiriEisnerBuy Shiri's book: https://bookshop.org/books/bi-notes-for-a-bisexual-revolution/9781580054744Follow Jacob Engelberg on Twitter: https://twitter.com/criticalprvrsn We're back with the second part of our interview with Shiri Eisner, hosted by Jacob Engelberg, and it's the most queer-radical-Jewish episode you'll ever hear!We talked about how our bisexuality affects our Jewish identities (and vice-versa), the current situation in Israel/Palestine and Israel's persecution of Palestinians, the history of resistance to Zionism and homo-nationalism within Israel and its relationship to radical bisexual politics, how we can be connected by oppression and as a result unite in solidarity, and what Shiri is currently excited about in the world of Bi+ and queer activism. Two Bi Guys is produced and edited by Rob CohenCreated by Rob Cohen and Alex BoydLogo art by Kaitlin WeinmanMusic by Ross MintzerWe are supported by The Gotham (formerly IFP)

Bisexual Judaism & Resistance with Shiri Eisner & Jacob Engelberg

Follow Shiri Eisner on Twitter:  https://twitter.com/ShiriEisnerBuy Shiri's book: https://bookshop.org/books/bi-notes-for-a-bisexual-revolution/9781580054744Follow Jacob Engelberg on Twitter: https://twitter.com/criticalprvrsn We are THRILLED to have author, activist, and true bi-con Shiri Eisner on Two Bi Guys for a special 2-part episode! Shiri is the author of "BI: NOTES FOR A BISEXUAL REVOLUTION", a must-read for bisexual people and anyone looking to understand contemporary bi politics.  And we are excited to welcome back Jacob Engelberg, who has studied Shiri's work in the course of his own research, as our guest-host!In this episode, we discussed how and why Shiri wrote her book, why the rigid structure of masculinity harms men and how bisexuality offers men an opportunity to reimagine masculinity, why bi visibility is the bare minimum and does not equal acceptance, the ubiquitous and often-invisible bi-phobia in our society -- and television's frequent avoidance of bi-phobia when representing bisexuality, and what kind of bi representation Shiri would like to see on TV (more "messy bisexuals" please!).Stay tuned for part 2 when we discuss the politics of Israel/Palestine (where Shiri currently lives) and how bisexuality can inform our understanding of oppression, marginalization, and erasure. Two Bi Guys is produced and edited by Rob CohenCreated by Rob Cohen and Alex BoydLogo art by Kaitlin WeinmanMusic by Ross MintzerWe are supported by The Gotham (formerly IFP)

Shiri Eisner on Re-Imagining Bisexual Masculinity

Follow Max on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maxformasc_/Max's GoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-a-trans-man-become-a-therapist?utm_campaign=p_cp+share-sheet&utm_medium=copy_link_all&utm_source=customerFollow Ash on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queerfuneralguide/Ash's queer funeral guide (free resource): https://queerfuneralguide.co.uk/Follow Etienne on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sequin_doves/Follow Etienne on Twitter: https://twitter.com/e_sequinFollow Etienne on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCx2_NkhWnG1b-rqe_BKIU0wEtienne's GoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/f/az5zdx-top-surgery?utm_medium=copy_link&utm_source=customer&utm_campaign=p_lico+share-sheetFollow and support guest-host Gabriel Novo: https://beacons.page/bisexualnomad We've often talked about the solidarity and understanding shared by the bi and trans communities, but there's also a lot of overlap -- many bisexual people are trans or non-binary, and vice-versa. Today, we're spotlighting three bi trans men living in the UK, interviewed by guest-host Gabriel Novo.Gabriel spoke with Max, a psychotherapist in training; Ash, who's working to make the funeral industry more inclusive for queer and trans folks; and Etienne, an audio engineer who works in film and television. They discussed how and when these men realized they were trans and bisexual (sometimes not at the same time), the coming-out process for each, the value of supportive friends and family (and therapy!), how their bi and trans identities intersect and influence each other, what it's like to transition both emotionally and practically within the UK healthcare system, shifting perspectives and feelings on masculinity during transition, how various facets of identity can affect one's sense of self, TERFs (but only briefly, because they're scary and dumb), the effects of the pandemic on their identities and transitions, and much more!Thank you to Max, Ash, and Etienne for sharing their stories so openly and authentically, and thank you to Gabriel for his thoughtful and caring interviews. Two Bi Guys is produced and edited by Rob CohenCreated by Rob Cohen and Alex BoydLogo art by Kaitlin WeinmanMusic by Ross MintzerWe are supported by The Gotham (formerly IFP)

Three Trans Bi Guys

Follow our guest Gabriel Novo on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bisexualnomad/Follow Gabriel  on Twitter: https://twitter.com/BisexualNomadGabriel's writing at Unicornzine: https://unicornzine.com/author/gabriel-novo/Gabriel's Patreon (with photography and more): https://www.patreon.com/bisexualnomadMore links to follow and support Gabriel: https://beacons.page/bisexualnomad Get ready for a hopeful, optimistic episodes about the casual cruelty of our heteronormative society!I spoke to my friend Gabriel Novo, aka the "Bisexual Nomad", a Bi+ writer, artist and activist currently living in the UK (and another Birequest alum!). We spoke about bisexual communities we've found (or struggled to find...), how those personal connections helped us go from knowing we "like everyone" to fully embracing a "bisexual" identity, Gabriel's previous marriage to a woman and the difficulties of not being fully out, the "life-changing" mental health benefits of coming out (and the privilege of being able to), the struggle of remaining in the closet at work to protect your livelihood, Gabriel's experience with a cancer diagnosis and treatment and how it related to his queer journey, how to navigate poly relationships and communicate clearly, and the importance of mutual aid and being there to support our chosen queer families.We also dove into the "casual cruelty of heteronormativity", the harmful constraints of masculinity, the violence resulting from conformity and repression, the difficulty of shaking off expectations (and self-criticism when we play into them), detoxing from being in the closet and from het-masculinity as we become "more" queer, and most importantly the positive benefits of interrogating all those issues, both for ourselves and for our community, as part of a commitment to dismantling patriarchy and white supremacy. It's all possible if we lead with empathy.Then we answered some listener-submitted questions about masculinity, fear of rejection, being open about our feelings, and media we're consuming with bi themes. So this episode covers... a lot!AND -- we have a sponsor now! Thank you to MANSCAPED for their support, and check out the episode to hear about our groin-trimming experiences. (Spoiler: smooth balls are actually pretty nice!) Plus get 20% OFF + Free Shipping with promo code TWOBIGUYS at MANSCAPED.com! #ad #manscapedpodGabriel will be back next week as a guest-host, so stay tuned! Two Bi Guys is produced and edited by Rob CohenCreated by Rob Cohen and Alex BoydLogo art by Kaitlin WeinmanMusic by Ross MintzerWe are supported by The Gotham (formerly IFP)

Leading with Empathy featuring Gabriel Novo

Queerness isn't without its challenges -- many of them serious and potentially harmful -- but at the same time, it's also a gift, one that forces us to look inward and get to know ourselves, one that connects us to a likeminded and supportive community, and one that helps us build the tools to survive and thrive as we move through the varied challenges life throws at us.In our season 3 premiere, Alex is back and joins Rob to discuss our Pride experiences back in June, how the pansexual movement has been beneficial in making bisexuality more inclusive, the wide spectrum of gender non-binary identities (and how those with cis-passing privilege can use it in solidarity), the special relationship between bisexuality and trans/non-binary identities (yes, again), and the trouble with "chasing". We're also answering listener questions! This week we answered Qs about bi-romantic aces, what "bi-dentifiers" we use in the world to signal our bisexuality or queerness, what media is in our "bi head canon" right now, and more.Expect episodes on a more regular basis this season! And stay tuned for some bi-conic guests! (And apologies for the poor audio quality on Rob's end -- we're trying out a new system this year, and the issue has been fixed for future episodes.) Two Bi Guys is produced and edited by Rob CohenCreated by Rob Cohen and Alex BoydLogo art by Kaitlin WeinmanMusic by Ross MintzerWe are supported by The Gotham (formerly IFP)

Queerness is a Gift

In our season two finale, Two Bi Guys presents: Three Bi (Married) Guys!The experience of bisexual people in straight-appearing marriages is one of the most prevalent and yet still invisible among the queer community. Bi+ men are even less likely to be out than women, sometimes keeping the secret from their wives. In this extended episode, Rob interviews three Bi+ men who are (or have been) married to women, plus one of their wives (who is also bisexual), about the challenges and joys of this unique experience. We'll meet Austin from Ohio, who grew up in a conservative Mennonite culture that repressed his same-sex attractions for years; Rene from Chicago, a first-generation Mexican-American bi guy who had a perfect "Disney family" before coming out to his wife; and Howard and Elizabeth from New York, who skipped a few steps by meeting at a bisexual play party and continue to practice ethical non-monogamy.We discussed how they all came to understand their bisexuality, why and how the men came out to their wives (or future-wives), how their wives dealt with the news and how the relationship moved forward (or didn't), why and how some of them stuck with monogamy while others negotiated opening things up, the importance of queer community within and outside the marriage, biphobia and bi-erasure from friends and family, how their identity affected their kids, and the many other aspects of marriage that intersect with a fluid sexuality.If you're a bi married guy and are interested in sharing your story anonymously for Rob's ongoing oral history project, please send a message to @TwoBiGuys on Twitter or Instagram with a little bit of your background and story -- but keep in mind that not everyone can be included.Two Bi Guys will be back for a third season after a summer hiatus! We're planning on bringing in some guest hosts so you can hear from a wider variety of Bi+ and non-binary voices, and we may tweak the format to help get more content out faster, so stay tuned. We are also developing ways to grow this project and develop a community for Bi+ men and all bisexual people -- subscribe and follow us on social media to get updates on all our plans. Thanks for listening to this season of Two Bi Guys! Two Bi Guys is created and hosted by Alex Boyd and Rob CohenLogo art by Kaitlin WeinmanMusic by Ross MintzerSeason 2 is executive produced by Rob Cohen and produced by Alex Boyd and Moxie Peng, with support from IFP

Three Bi Guys, With Wives! (Season Finale)

Follow Wolf Hudson on Instagram at: @wolfhudsonofficialWolf on Pornhub: https://www.pornhub.com/pornstar/wolf-hudson Two Bi Guys is created and hosted by Alex Boyd and Rob CohenLogo art by Kaitlin WeinmanMusic by Ross MintzerSeason 2 is executive produced by Rob Cohen and produced by Alex Boyd and Moxie Peng, with support from IFP

Immersed in Wolf Hudson's Bisexual Aura

Follow Jacob Engelberg on Twitter at: @criticalprvrsn Two Bi Guys is created and hosted by Alex Boyd and Rob CohenLogo art by Kaitlin WeinmanMusic by Ross MintzerSeason 2 is executive produced by Rob Cohen and produced by Alex Boyd and Moxie Peng, with support from IFP

"Bad" Bisexuals with Jacob Engelberg

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Pastied Tits and Hockey Sticks with Miss Colleen

Vishaal's Website: https://www.vishaalreddy.com/Insomnia The Show: https://www.insomniatheshow.com/ Two Bi Guys is created and hosted by Alex Boyd and Rob CohenLogo art by Kaitlin WeinmanMusic by Ross MintzerSeason 2 is executive produced by Rob Cohen and produced by Alex Boyd and Moxie Peng, with support from IFP

Can't Be Confined: A Vishaal Reddy Story

Two Bi Guys is created and hosted by Alex Boyd and Rob CohenLogo art by Kaitlin WeinmanMusic by Ross MintzerSeason 2 is executive produced by Rob Cohen and produced by Alex Boyd and Moxie Peng, with support from IFP

Where Are All The Bi Athletes? with Ryan K. Russell

Two Bi Guys is created and hosted by Alex Boyd and Rob CohenLogo art by Kaitlin WeinmanMusic by Ross MintzerSeason 2 is executive produced by Rob Cohen and produced by Alex Boyd and Moxie Peng, with support from IFP Mental health and wellbeing resources:Trevor Project (suicide prevention for LGBTQ+ youth): https://www.thetrevorproject.org/Suicide Prevention Lifeline: https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/BEAM - Black Emotional And Mental Health: https://www.beam.community/SAGE - Advocacy & Services for LGBT Elders: https://www.sageusa.org/Psychology Today (find a therapist): https://www.psychologytoday.com/usRAINN - Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (& National Sexual Assault Hotline): https://www.rainn.org/National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/National Child Abuse Hotline: https://www.childhelp.org/hotline/Take the census! https://2020census.gov/Register to vote! https://vote.gov/

Getting Bi: A Pandemic Wellbeing Check-In

Two Bi Guys is created and hosted by Alex Boyd and Rob CohenLogo art by Kaitlin WeinmanMusic by Ross MintzerSeason 2 is executive produced by Rob Cohen and produced by Alex Boyd and Moxie Peng, with support from IFPZach Zane's Men's Health Column: https://www.menshealth.com/author/15962/zachary-zane/Zach's blog, "Zach and the City": https://www.queermajority.com/zach-and-the-cityLinks to Zach's other writing: https://zacharyzane.substack.com/p/boyslut-with-zachary-zane-8

Zachary Zane, "Professional Bisexual"

A podcast about fluid sexuality, gender, masculinity and femininity, intimacy, relationships and more -- hosted by two bi guys.

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