Knowing this ONE THING can save your relationship! We always want life to be fair and balanced but it never is. Why is it that we expect the same things from our relationships? In this episode, you will learn: Relationships are never balanced - or fair How to release the idea of scorekeeping Please join us in our Facebook Group, The Power to Be You

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Episode 40 - Keeping Score to Lose

There are 2 factors that can make or break your relationship: Bids and Betrayals. A betrayal may not be exactly what you're thinking of, like cheating or lying. These kind of betrayals are like "death by a thousand pin pricks."   In this episode, you will learn: What is a bid What is a betrayal How to recognize them,  How to avoid the "one-word shutdown answer" 3 ways to improve bids and reduce betrayals  

Power2BU Podcast - Episode 39 - 2 Factors That ca Make or Break Your Marriage

MEN: What is YOUR ROLE in your marriage? What can YOU DO to make your marriage better, and what can YOU do that will translate into MORE and BETTER SEX with your wife? We'll give you 5 steps you can take that will do just that. In fact, these steps can improve almost every relationship you have, whether it is parenting your kids or relating to co-workers. Listen to this episode and you'll find out what they are! What you'll learn in this episode: 2 Biggest Complaints that Women have about men; 2 Biggest Complaints that Men have about Women; 5 Steps to Tuning up your marriage that will translate into MORE and BETTER SEX with your wife; Perform a powerful exercise in empathy. References and links: "The Man's Guide to Women: Scientifically Proven Secrets from the 'Love Lab' About What Women Really Want," by John Gottman, PhD, Julie Schwartz Gottman, PhD, Douglas Abrams, and Rachel Carlton Abrams "The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Pesonal Freedom," by Don Miguel Ruiz

P2BU Podcast - Episode 38 - 5 Steps for More and Better Sex

Is it too late for your marriage/relationship? If you wait too long for marriage therapy, it might be. But there are things you can do to turn it around. Jim and Tanya discuss the health of their marriage, what they do to keep it healthy, and their past failed marriages. (*hint - they learned from their mistakes.) In this episode you will learn: Can your partner "complete you?" Values in your relationship Self-Awareness and how it is so important to the survival of your relationship    

Power2BU Podcast - Episode 37: Is It Too Late For Your Marriage?

Intentions and Goals are a part of all of our lives, whether we accept that or not. In this "Coffee Conversation," Jim & Tanya started talking about the general topic of intentions and the influence of the divine. This conversation was so good,they recorded this conversation as they sat at their breakfast table on a phone.   In this episode, you will learn: How to set the direction and tone for an action; How God the Divine orchestrates; Ensure your goals and intentions are "positively charged" with focus and appropriate action Join us in our facebook group, Power to Be You Thanks for listening! Share our message with a friend!

Power2BU Podcast - Episode 36 - Intentions & Goals

In 2012, Bronnie Ware, an Palliative Caregiver, published her book, The Top Five Regrets of the Dying: A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing, and introduced to us what she found to be the top regrets expressed to the dying patients entrusted to her care.  The top regret may surprise you, as it did for us.  How do we keep ourselves from arriving at our own deathbed, looking up to someone. and having a heart filled with regrets? We have the power within us to keep this becoming our future, so listen in and see what you can do NOW to live a life FREE of REGRETS. In this episode, you will learn: What is the number one expressed regret of the dying, according to palliative caregiver and author, Bronnie Ware? How to be yourself in the context of YOUR Life How to evaluate what is no longer serving you Clues to identifying your purpose in life  

The Power to Be You Podcast - Episode 35 - No Regrets

Is grounding real? We're not talking about the psychological/emotional type of grounding, but actual grounding of yourself - coming in contact with the earth's electrical field for healing. When Jim first heard about this, he was skeptical, but open-minded enough to give it a go. Now, he is a full-fledged convert! What changed his mind? Listen in to find out more.

Grounding

Did you know that we have the power to "Speak It Into Existence?" Well that's part of the story. Jim & Tanya discuss this phenomenon, and how it has worked for them. Can over-visualization be helpful? Thank you for listening. Join our Facebook group "The Power to Be You" to learn more.

Speaking It Into Existence

In this episode, Jim & Tanya talk about where they stand and where the future of the P2BU podcast is going. Our current, artificial environment is not working for us, but against us, and we need to do everything we can to stack the odds in our favor. Chances are, you need some kind of healing in your life, and we want to bring you information so you can evaluate if it works for you. 

Everything Affects Everything

All of us face decisions everyday on how to spend our time. Do we choose to spend it on the immediate/urgent, or on what is important? Did the important become urgent because of our neglect? How do we determine what is worthy of our time and attention? Listen to find out!

Urgent vs. Important

In this episode, Jim and Tanya discuss tolerations - the things we put up with that hold us back like an invisible leash. All of us have them! Sometimes, they are just little, seemingly insignificant things, but sometimes, they are fairly big things. But, one thing they all have in common: we can do something about them. In this episode, you can learn: how to identify tolerations how they can affect you what you can do to eliminate them which ones to get rid of first  

What are You Tolerating?

What is the ONE THING all successful people do? Part 2 of Jim & Tanya's discussion of a very simple formula for success, both in life and business.  Want to make your life better? Want more freedom?  Then listen in to find out more!

Secret Ingredient of Success, Part 2

When making soup, do you think about all of the ingredients? Do you have a "secret ingredient" that sets it apart from all other soups? The soup-making process is an analogy for success in other aspects of our lives, and in this episode, we are offering our "secret ingredient" for success - in any aspect of your life. Want to make your life better? Want more freedom? Then listen in to find out more!

A Secret Ingredient for Success

This day and age, it seems everyone has an opinion about something, and doesn't it feel like they want to attack with it, especially when someone disagrees with them? What is it that makes them do that? Is there a difference between "needing to be right," and "needing to not be wrong?" What can you do to express your opinion without getting shut down?

Need to Be Right & Need to Not Be Wrong

We all have expectations, some are appropriate, some are not. A lot depends on how we apply them to ourselves or our external world. How does an expectation differ from hope? Which is stronger, and which is better? Jim and Tanya discuss this from their basement couch with a glass of wine and a phone recording the conversation. No cheese puffs were harmed during the recording of this episode. Correction Note: Jim erroneously credited a quote to Henry Ford. The correct credit should go to Theodore Roosevelt. Our humblest apologies to Teddy! Superman ©DC Comics/Time Warner, Batman ©DC Comics, Theme Song from Superman (Main Theme) ©1978 Warner-Tamerlane Publishing (BMI), Music by John Williams.

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