Tis the season for giving, and we're giving you a whole lot of love! You asked, we're answering!! It's another Listener Advice episode, where we chat when coming out to family doesn't feel like an option, how to focus on yourself and the love you have in your life, plus which dessert is the gayest. Send us your questions so we can answer them on the next episode!! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast nottogetherpodcast@gmail.com Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique

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Episode 79: Listener Advice #9

No, no, no, no. Not "Daddies". DADS. We're talking Pops, your old man, father figures and the relationships us queer folks have with them. To help us do that we have writer/actor Brandon Shypkowski (@brandonshyp)on the show to chat about his photo series Weather Talk, in which he has thoughtful discussions with members of the LGBTQIA community about their father figures. Plus we figure out what kind of Dad we all are! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast nottogetherpodcast@gmail.com Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Brandon Shypkowski www.instagram.com/brandonshyp/ www.instagram.com/weathertalkfilm/

Episode 78: Dads ft Brandon Shypkowski

Greetings from your fearless leaders! Do you think you could never be susceptible to a cult? Think again! This week Haley and Zack are joined by writer, director, musician, actor, and podcast host Lola Blanc to talk about her experience in a cult, the cult of Trump, and why Taco Tuesday is superior to Wednesday Trivia Night! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast nottogetherpodcast@gmail.com Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Lola Blanc instagram.com/oohlalola/

Episode 77: Cults ft. Lola Blanc

We're back! And what better way to return from our long break than a discussion about throuples featuring our good friend Brandon Renfroe! We chat about how similar throuples can be to couples, how communication is vital to a throuple's success, and to learn why Deadpool would be a great third for Fred and Daphne. We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast nottogetherpodcast@gmail.com Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Brandon Renfroe https://www.instagram.com/b.froe/

Episode 76: Throuples ft. Brandon Renfroe

Let's talk about sex toys, baby! Haley gives us an in depth look at the sex toy industry from jade butt plugs to steam-powered vibrators and beyond! Then Zack has a little surprise in store a la an unboxing of some brand new toys courtesy of Calexotics!! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast nottogetherpodcast@gmail.com Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique To get some Naughty Bits of your own check out https://calexotics.com/brands/naughty-bitstm.html

Episode 75: Sex Toys

Now that we're all stuck indoors there's no time like the present than to immerse yourself in your hobbies, so we're talking with Netflix exec and action figure collector, Ted Biaselli. We chat about how he got started, why queer people tend to dive so so deep into their hobbies, respecting your partner's interests, and he talks about what it's like bringing a new life to the shows and properties he loved as a kid. We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast nottogetherpodcast@gmail.com Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Ted Biaselli instagram.com/animateted

Episode 74: Hobby Gays ft Ted Biaselli

This week, Haley and Zack are joined by returning guest, actor and social commentator Seth Rabinowitz. We talk about Britney Spears' conservatorship, the pros and cons of the #freebritney movement, conspiracy theories, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast nottogetherpodcast@gmail.com Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Seth Rabinowitz https://www.instagram.com/sethdaniel/ https://twitter.com/sethdanie1 https://www.facebook.com/sefferman

Episode 73: Britney Spears ft. Seth Rabinowitz

This week, Haley and Zack are joined by activist Kaek Mx to talk about their journey as a trans non-binary individual, chat about some common questions trans non-binary folx run into, and help us write our new YA novel "Monday's Epilogue". #TeamPeabo We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast nottogetherpodcast@gmail.com Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Kaek Mx https://www.instagram.com/everybodyloveskaek/

Episode 72: Trans Non-Binary ft. Kaek Mx

It's a pansexual pow-wow!! Zack and Haley discuss the hotly debated term "bisexual-lesbian" with our special guest Emily Pearse. We speak on where it came from, why it gives some people pause, and why some others care to use it. We also chat with Emily about her switch from using the term "bisexual" to "pansexual". Don't forget to message us with more questions for our next listener episode! 

Episode 71 - "Bisexual-Lesbian" ft Emily Pearse

We're back at it again with another listener advice episode! We're answering YOUR questions on relationships during Covid, dog ownership, how having super powers is probably weirder in practice, and more! Don't forget to message us with more questions for our next listener episode! 

Episode 70: Listener Advice #8

This week, Haley and Zack are joined by singer, songwriter, composer, writer, and actor Health Saunders to talk about their retrospective article on the use of black bodies in theater, redefining the "neutral", and why dads love Kohl's. Check out Heath's Medium article: https://medium.com/@heathcliffsaunders/what-i-think-about-when-i-hear-that-broadway-is-racist-afa1b012a8b We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast nottogetherpodcast@gmail.com Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Heath Saunders https://twitter.com/feeltheheath?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor https://www.instagram.com/feeltheheath/?hl=en https://www.thesaunderscollective.com/#collective

Episode 69: Racism In Theater ft. Heath Saunders

Zack and Haley are outraged by the murder of George Floyd (and many, many others), and will not remain silent. BLACK LIVES MATTER. Today, we discuss The Stonewall Riots, an important milestone in LGBTQ history. Bricks were thrown, property was damaged, and change was made. In support of Black Lives Matter, we draw parallels between this historical event and the current protests going on across the U.S. Please check out this link to find where you can help the cause by donation or petition(*note some of the well known ones have received so many funds they have asked for donations to be directed elsewhere, if this article falls out of date please keep checking where your money is best served): https://www.thecut.com/article/george-floyd-protests-how-to-help-where-to-donate.html Great resource for active anti-racist ally-ship: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/e/2PACX-1vTkmrhfhYUfCcTbp3NoDmxKZUAN7xMiVuhqIlNBizKz-Ih7yPPqTPFgYzmd5NgKtEdpVugB6GoZwPWR/pubhtml

Ep. 68: The Stonewall Riots

We talk with our friend, comedy writer Josh Smooha (twitter.com/joshsmooha), all about breakups, and specifically how the advice straight men are usually given is so toxic. We chat about what happens when someone isn't taught how to use certain emotional tools when dealing with this sort of stress, and how that can cause some people to lash out. Plus we talk about how Rom Coms might be a bit at fault here, and what tropes need to be thrown out. Don't forget to send us your questions for the next listener advice episode!! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast nottogetherpodcast@gmail.com Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique

Episode 67: After the Breakup ft Josh Smooha

Zack and Haley chat with comedian Jay Jurden (https://twitter.com/JayJurden), named one of the Timeout New York's Comedians to Watch of 2019. We talk about his debut comedy album "Jay Jurden Y'all", growing up queer in Mississippi, which celebrities we'd want to be quarantined with, and the reason Tallahassee is SO Tallanasty. Don't forget to send us your questions for the next listener advice episode!! Check out Jay's album on Spotify or iTunes! open.spotify.com/album/4wNWPihLyoqer0fE384Wi1 We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast nottogetherpodcast@gmail.com Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique

Episode 66: It's Jay Jurden Y'all

On this week's episode, Zack and Haley are joined by director and filmmaker Sav Rodgers(http://savrodgers.com/) to discuss how important, and sometimes life-saving, queer representation is in media and his upcoming documentary, Chasing Chasing Amy. Don't forget to send us your questions for the next listener advice episode!! Check out Sav's Ted Talk! https://www.ted.com/talks/sav_rodgers_the_rom_com_that_saved_my_life We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast nottogetherpodcast@gmail.com Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique

Episode 65: Chasing Chasing Amy ft. Sav Rodgers

Zack and Haley are both gay, but they are definitely not together. Every week Z & H tackle queer topics from a gay and lesbian perspective featuring guests from within the community and the occasional straight-of-the-week! Hopefully educational. Hopefully funny. Definitely gay. We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast Zack instagram.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique

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