In this episode, I interview Matthew Raabsmith, a pastor and a life coach who works with men and addiction. Matthew shares his personal story with sexual addiction and how he has learned to overcome the shame he carried so long because of it. We also talk about the benefits of community and how it is important to bring close friends and family alongside you while you are on the road to recovery. Thanks for sharing your time with us, Matthew! ----more---- Show Notes: Matthew's website; Link *Parenting Hotline; Link *Connect with a Therapist!; Link *I don't get any money from referrals, just wanting to pass along help if you need it! ----more---- The Regulars: 'Whiskey & Ry Club' Patreon: Link 'Whiskey & Ry Club' Instagram Twitter Ryan's Links: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram  

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S3:E9; Talking Shame and Addiction w/ Matthew Raabsmith!

Sorry for the extended wait! Life happens, but we are back on track. I hope you have been enjoying our "(What is) Love?" series on the Patreon page. The last installment comes out tomorrow!  In the ep, I talk about a great new book by Justin Baldoni called Man Enough; Undefining my Masculinity. While I haven't read the book yet, I am so stoked for Justin to have put this out into the world. More men should be having this conversation and the fact he was so bold as to write about it and then publish it, my hat's off to you! Thanks for sharing your story.  I share about a great book I am reading called, Hooked: How to create habit-forming products. Do you want the inside scoop to a new product I am building? Send me an e-mail and let's chat! To wrap up I talk about the crazy story of WeWork and their 47 billion dollar evaluation, which I found out about after watching a sweet documentary on Hulu. Check it out and send me a DM and let me know what you think! Make sure to check in with the show notes and give a little love to our regulars and check out our Patreon series!----more---- Show Notes: "Man Enough"; Link to buy the book "Man Enough" Instagram; Link WeWork Doc; Trailer *Parenting Hotline; Link *Connect with a Therapist!; Link *I don't get any money from referrals, just wanting to pass along help if you need it! ----more---- The Regulars: 'Whiskey & Ry Club' Patreon: Link 'Whiskey & Ry Club' Instagram Twitter Ryan's Links: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram  

S3:E8; Catching up with Ryan!

Grab a seat (and maybe a few tissues) and join me and my good friend, Nick Warnes, as we hear about his family's journey with fertility and deciding to enter into In Vitro Fertilization (IVF). Nick shares with us how he and his wife, Whitney, came to the decision together, and what it was like to endure the highs and lows of getting good news followed by the heartbreak of getting the worst news any parents can get. But the story doesn't end there for the Warnes! They have a beautiful son, Lee, and are both finding happiness with the blessings they have today. But do they want to give the process another go? You will have to tune in and find out! Thanks Nick for coming on and sharing your story!----more---- Show Notes: Nick's Links; Instagram Book Information on IVF; Link Link Parenting Hotline; Link Connect with a Therapist!; Link ----more---- The Regulars: Ryan's Patreon: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan's Links: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram

S3:E7; “Who Do You Want To Be At The End Of________?” w/ Nick Warnes!

Buckle up you fuckin' wankers we are in for a wild fucking ride talking all things "swears" with Barry Taylor! I first met Barry as a young kid in Seminary, bright-eyed and full of hope. Barry opened my eyes wider and gave me more hope than I could have ever expected one person to give me in a lifetime and I am forever grateful to him for it. Barry and I talk about swearing as a universal expression, how swear words like, "pu$$y" have been reclaimed in songs like "W.A.P." by Cardi B. (ft Megan Thee Stallion.) And here is a little secrete for you...everyone swears! Even your grandma. Don't be a wanker and listen to this episode twice! Do it! ----more----Show Notes:Barry's Links; Book Instagram H&Co; Website ----more---- The Regulars: Ryan's Patreon: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan's Links: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram

S3:E6; “Everybody Swears” w/ Barry Taylor!

Happy Valentine's Day, lovers! My gift to you is an incredible convo about "love" with Maria French! Maria is the co-founder of H&Co. who recently got married and moved to the middle of England. Talk about LOVE! We hear from Maria about her experience dating after a divorce, taking a risk on loving again, and how love is a shared experience we all are meant to enjoy. What fun it was to have Maria on to chat about this topic! Make sure to check out her work in the show notes and send her some love!----more---- Show Notes: Maria's Links; H&Co, Instagram ----more---- The Regulars: Ryan's Patreon: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan's Links: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram

Bonus Episode! (What is) “Love”? w/ Maria French!

Cue the music! Grab the Aqua Net and let's JAM! "Ooooo Heaven is a place on Earth!!!" Big time "THANK YOU" to Kevin Garcia for coming by to have an amazing chat about "heaven." So much was shared about our past and individual upbringings in Church. And I also learned what a "hell house" is and...wow...just wow. SO HAPPY you survived that shit, Kevin! We are all better humans because of it. Make sure to follow his work and support him on Patreon, if you are able. Can't wait to have Kevina back again and next time...karaoke?  ----more---- Show Notes: Kevin's Website; Link Kevin's Book; Link Kevin's Insta; Link Support Kevin's Work!; Patreon ----more---- The Regulars: Ryan's Patreon: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan's Links: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram

S3:E5; “Heaven" w/ Kevin Garcia!

Back again is my good friend Michael Kinsman! Michael joins us to talk about his new organization, Uncommon Voices Collective, and their mission to bring together compelling stories from folks in Los Angeles, and beyond!  Check-in with them in the show notes below and if you have yet to subscribe to our show, make sure you do! ----more---- The Show Notes: Uncommon Voices Collective; Link Michael Kinsman; Instagram Wine Pastor ----more---- The Regulars: Patron: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan Charles Brown: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram

S3:E4; Welcome back Michael Kinsman!

In this special episode, Ryan talks about one of the things he is most proud of creating in 2020, a song for his son, Reece! Get an inside look at “Ten Tiny Toes” and hear the song before it is fully recorded in the studio.  "This song was written about the night our son was born and it is very, very special to me. I think any parent can appreacite the details and how vivid the memory of this special event can be. Thanks for listening!” - Ryan ----more---- The Regulars: Patron: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan Charles Brown: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram

S3:E3; "Ten Tiny Toes” Original song by our host, Ryan Charles Brown!

You all are so patient with me, just like Mike! I have been waiting to release this episode in the right contect and decided to say “F*uck it!” and give it to you now. Enjoy this interview with one of my biggest influences and someone I greatly look up to as a figure of a “healthy” guy. Pick up his new book NOW and if ya like, sign up for our mailing list via the Proxemia link below! ----more---- Show Notes: "You’re a Miracle!" "Cozy Robots" "Finding God in the Waves”  The Regulars: Patron: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan Charles Brown: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram

S3; Bonus Episode! “You’re a Miracle!” w/ Mike McHargue (‘Science Mike”)

Welcome to the show The Deep West! We have been enjoying their tune for a few seasons and now we get to sit down with the guys behind the magic, Adam, and Joey! Give their new song and our intro tune, "Giving Up" a listen TODAY!----more----Show Notes:The Deep West; "Giving Up" Song Music VideoThe Regulars:Patron: LinkWhiskey & Ry: Instagram TwitterRyan Charles Brown: Instagram TwitterThe Deep West: Instagram----more----*I have removed all ads from our Podcast stream. Going forward, Whiskey & Ry will be supported by you, the people, and not advertisers. Subscribe to our Patreon to support our mission!

S3:E2; The Deep West!

Yes, we are back and yes we are sorry for leaving so quickly! I hope you enjoy our first episode of season 3 and hear a little bit about what has been going on since March and the beginning of COVID "stay at home" guidelines. (How is THAT for being f'in PC haha.) I am working on expectations, setting them, sticking to them, etc. It isn't easy but I am working it out and I hope you can relate to my story a bit.Make sure to download the song The Fear of Letting Go" by Too Close To Touch. And follow us on Insta (@whiskeyandrypodcast) and tweet me @ryancharlesla!----more----Show Notes:The Fear Of Letting Go; YouTubeThe Regulars:Patron: LinkWhiskey & Ry: Instagram TwitterRyan Charles Brown: Instagram TwitterThe Deep West: Instagram----more----*I have removed all ads from our Podcast stream. Going forward, Whiskey & Ry will be supported by you, the people, and not advertisers. Subscribe to our Patreon to support our mission!

S3:E1; We Are Back! (Apologies & Expectations)

*Note* This episode was pre-recorded. For this reason, we do not discuss George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, or the many rallies for equality that occurred across the nation. We FULLY support BLACK LIVES and are learning ways we can be more effective in the pursuit of justice. - Ryan and the Whiskey & Ry team.----more---- Michael Kinsman brings his knowledge and wits to the show this week! Michael, among MANY other things, curates an Instagram page called @thewinepastor where he shares his food and drink expertise in photographs so good you wanna eat 'em! Hit up his SM links in the notes and get with the foodie pics! Michael and I also get into some real talk about marriage and planning for the future, even when things seem uncertain. You won't want to miss this great talk between two good friends!  ----more---- Show Notes: Michael Kinsman; Instagram @thewinepastor----more---- The Regulars: Patron: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan Charles Brown: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram----more---- *I have removed all ads from our Podcast stream. Going forward, Whiskey & Ry will be supported by you, the people, and not advertisers. Subscribe to our Patreon to support our mission!

S2:E8; Michael Kinsman!

*Note* This episode was pre-recorded. For this reason, we do not discuss George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, or the many rallies for equality that occurred across the nation. We FULLY support BLACK LIVES and are learning ways we can be more effective in the pursuit of justice. - Ryan and the Whiskey & Ry team. Join me in welcoming Ruth Schmidt! Ruth is an incredible Pastor and Director for Fuller's Brehm Center in Pasadena, CA. In this episode, Ruth and I talk about her career in advertising and how that has impacted how she now pursues a different career in ministry. We also talk her side hustle as a relationship coach and copywriter for dating profiles. Ruth is amazing and her story is amazing and I can't wait for you to hear it! ----more---- Show Notes: Ruth Schmidt; Twitter No-Drama Discipline; Link----more---- The Regulars: Patron: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan Charles Brown: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram----more---- *I have removed all ads from our Podcast stream. Going forward, Whiskey & Ry will be supported by you, the people, and not advertisers. Subscribe to our Patreon to support our mission!

S2:E7; Ruth Schmidt!

Following the last episode where we discussed patience, we now pick up the discussion with how men are likely to default expressing their feelings based on things that happened to them during their childhood. If men are introduced to their own sexuality before they know what to do with it, as I was, the chances of them having issues with their sexual expression as adults could be substantial. But that is not an excuse to do nothing about it. Men can learn how to express themselves in a manner that is healthy and does not harm another person.  We take on the deep topics on this show and this episode is proof nothing is off limits if it will allow for growth and maturity to take place.  *I have removed all ads from our Podcast stream. Going forward, Whiskey & Ry will be supported by you, the people, and not advertisers. Subscribe to our Patreon to support our mission! ----more---- Show Notes: Alison Armstrong; Link Yoga with Tim; Link----more---- The Regulars: Patron: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan Charles Brown: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram  

S2:E6; "How men express their emotions; The Good, the Bad and the in-between."

Hey, all you crazy cats and kittens! Just kidding, but...Carole killed her husband and fed him to the tigers. Let's just get that outta the way! In this episode, I share with you updates on building virtual communities to help curb the negative effects of social distancing. I also share some thoughts on COVID-19 and what it has been like for me to be both a parent and a romantic partner during this time of quarantine. It's not been pretty but it has taught me so much! Lastly, I talk about why I think men are better versions of themselves if they are with a partner who is patient with them. Make sure to follow along on social media, if you are not already. All links below. ----more---- Show Notes: Alison Armstrong; Link *Don't forget to become a "Founder" of Whiskey & Ry by joining our Patreon at the $25 level. Lifetime access to W&R content plus video streams of all the Podcasts!!! ----more---- The Regulars: Patron: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan Charles Brown: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram

S2:E5; COVID-19, Patience and Partnership during quarentine

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