Do you follow your intuition? As you move through your love journey, trusting your gut can be a huge advantage, but how do you know how to interpret what you feel? This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews a leader in listening and leaning into her intuition, Noel Elie. Noel is an entertainment industry professional, model and actress, and founder and CEO of Noel Elie productions where she works with people to help build their brands, get media features, and more.    EPISODE 215 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Trusting Your Intuition:  Interview with Actress Noel Elie   Kimmy and Noel kick off when Noel shares the story of how she moved to New York City, just months after graduating college with a dream to break into the modeling world. You'll hear how Noel developed her confidence and trusted her intuition to move her career forward in unexpected ways. You'll hear some incredible gold nuggets from Noel about the building blocks you need to have in place to make it easier to trust your gut. If you've identified or gained your confidence as a caretaker of others before yourself, listen in to hear some tangible tips on how to prioritize your own needs. Kimmy shares that intuition comes from a place of certainty. You'll hear a great tip about how you can increase your confidence daily by using a simple trick Noel uses to get through tough times and put things into perspective. And, Noel shares a story about her recent health journey and how her intuition played an essential role in her progress. If you feel that you are comparing yourself to others on social media or have anxiety tied to that, this episode is for you. Finally, Kimmy and Noel talk about how improv and dancing are powerful tools to help you play out different emotions, allow you to make mistakes, and have fun.    If you are having trouble trusting your gut and because of that fall into bad dating and relationship patterns, take the first step and reach out to Kimmy to build your confidence and intuition. Schedule your call right here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and get the right guidance towards attracting the right person for you!   EPISODE 215 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Trusting Your Intuition:  Interview with Actress Noel Elie The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups 

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Trusting Your Intuition: Interview with Actress Noel Elie

Do you know how to network to increase your chances of meeting potential dates?  Your ability to build strong relationships is essential to your success in dating. The stronger your network, the more likely you are to meet or be introduced to someone who could end up being the love of your life! This week, Kimmy interviews an authority on creating and cultivating connections in business, Michael Roderick. A former high school English teacher, Michael capitalized on the power of strong connections to transition to a career as a Broadway producer in record time. Now, as the CEO of Small Pond Enterprises and host of the podcast Access to Anyone, Michael works with people and brands to help make them more memorable through his frameworks on how to create influence.    EPISODE 213 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building Relationships For Dating Success:  Interview With Michael Roderick   This conversation is all about how to make a lasting impression on the people you meet so that those relationships bear fruit for years to come. Kimmy breaks down the top 3 mistakes YOU might be making on dates that are preventing you from making real connections with those you meet. Kimmy and Michael discuss how Michael developed a framework around how to make yourself referable. What are the factors that make others want to introduce people to you? You'll learn the key factors and qualities you can increase to raise your likability and actually show up as your authentic self. And, if you've been dreading going to a social event or have been avoiding them, listen in to hear Michael break down how to improve your interactions with fun animal avatars! This episode is a great reminder that it's a wonderful gift to help others, but you have to remember to let others help you, which will in turn create more opportunities in your dating life.    If you are over 40 and having a hard time meeting people and building connections for your dating life, Kimmy's back with another Flirt Workshop! Coming to you on October 19, Kimmy is inviting both women and men together for an interactive virtual workshop designed for folks in their 40s, 50s, and 60s to get back in the game! Whether you are shy, feel awkward, or have been out of the dating scene for a while, you'll learn about the fundamentals of flirting so you can create irresistible chemistry, experience unforgettable first dates and have fun conversations! Space is limited. Register for your spot today: https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting   EPISODE 213 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Building Relationships For Dating Success:  Interview With Michael Roderick.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups 

Building Relationships For Dating Success: Interview With Michael Roderick

Have you noticed a pattern of dating or attracting emotionally unavailable people? Do you find it difficult to open up with new friends or in potential relationships? In this episode, you'll hear Kimmy live coach Dawn, a self-described social butterfly who has no trouble having fun and attracting men, however you’ll be surprised to hear how her flirting has been used as a love shield to deflect her from going deeper in her interactions. As an proclaimed extrovert and waitress, Dawn is great at making sure everyone else is taken care of and focus on others, but often doesn't ensure her emotional needs are met. Now, she's come to Kimmy looking for help on how to create a fulfilling relationship that lasts.    EPISODE 213 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Attracting The Unavailable:  Coaching With Kimmy   At the top, Kimmy shares three reasons why you may find yourself in emotionally unavailable relationships or situationships. Listen in to hear about how you may be unconsciusly recreating a pattern from your childhood or history in your current interactions. Often, we repeat relationship dynamics that are familiar to us. Kimmy and Dawn dig into Dawn's history to uncover some of the possible traces of this pattern for her. If you're like Dawn, you may have developed certain behaviors to protect yourself from getting hurt in the past. Kimmy talks through some simple first steps to notice and shift these behaviors to get a different result. You'll hear tips around expanding your social circle, the benefits of expressing your feelings early and often, and how to build up your self-worth so that you attract more opportunities for deeper connections.    And, if you're over 40 and find yourself feeling lost about how to navigate today's dating scene, come check out Kimmy's Flirt Workshop! Back by popular demand on October 11, Kimmy will gather both women and men together for an interactive virtual masterclass designed for folks in their 40s, 50s, and 60s to get back in the game!  So whether you are shy, feel awkward or have been out of the dating scene for awhile, you'll learn about the fundamentals of flirting so you can create irresistible chemistry, experience unforgettable first dates and have fun conversations! Space is limited. Register for your spot today: https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting   EPISODE 213 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Attracting The Unavailable:  Coaching With Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups 

Attracting The Unavailable: Coaching with Kimmy

 Are you dating later in life?  Dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s is different! Especially if you're jumping back into the dating world after a divorce or a long-term relationship in adulthood. Often, your identity was tied to your partners for so long that it can be tough to find who YOU are again. Dating has also changed in the last decade and now is the perfect time to understand how to date smarter so you can find who's right for you now. In this week's episode, Kimmy addresses the biggest dating mistakes people make after 40.    EPISODE 212 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating After 40: Avoiding These Top 5 Mistakes   Kimmy jumps right in by sharing the beginnings of her own dating journey after divorce and the biggest misadventures she made, including why she found herself attracting narcissists initially! You'll hear about some of the new rules of the dating world, and how you can start out dating smarter not harder this time around.  If you've ever thought, "Can't I just skip all this dating and get to the relationship part?!" this episode is for you where you’ll learn how you might actually be prolonging the process by diving in too fast too soon.  Kimmy walks through the top 5 dating mistakes people make in their 40s, 50s and 60s and how it can negatively impact your dating life.  She shares some actionable tips for you to reframe your mindset around how to date.  Tune in to hear a story about a 68-year-old woman she worked with who successfully got back out there and found love in an unexpected place... Tinder!    And, if you are over 40 and having a hard time navigating the dating scene she has an exciting opportunity coming up October 11.  By popular demand, Kimmy's Co-ed Flirt Masterclass is here again but this time focusing on how to do it in your 40s, 50s and 60s! Join a motivated group of women and men ready to learn to get their sexy on, create attraction and land dates at ANY age. Space is limited so sign up today here https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting   EPISODE 212 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating After 40: Avoiding These Top 5 Mistakes.   The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups 

Dating After 40: Avoiding These Top 5 Mistakes

Have you ever gotten swept up in the magic and romance of a movie or a song?  Do you ever ask yourself, “Why can’t I find love?" The truth is that it's a lot easier to depict a picture-perfect whirlwind courtship in a romantic comedy than to replicate that experience in real life. When it comes to finding love, it may be more beneficial to *create* the love you want, instead of searching for it. This week, Kimmy talks to Adam Gilad who is an Emmy-nominated producer and writer and founder of Kyynder about developing deep love connections between men and women.   EPISODE 211 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating Love, Not Finding It: Interview With Adam Gilad   Kimmy begins the episode with the importance of why it’s better to create love vs. finding it.  Kimmy and Adam jump right in to talk about how you have the power to build skill sets that make you more likely to create the kind of love you're looking for. Adam shares his journey of how his world was turned upside down when he found himself single at 39 and how he picked up the pieces to put his life back together. If you have gone through a breakup of a long-term relationship or a divorce, listen in to Adam's story. This conversation between old friends is a reminder that navigating the dating world is a journey and so many of us go through very similar things throughout this process. Adam shares some of the top skills that successful daters and couples can use through practice to help them have more healthy and happy relationships. You'll hear about how raising your awareness of certain personal triggers helps you interpret the behaviors of others with more clarity. Kimmy and Adam touch on the power of having a community surrounding and supporting you in order to start to shift your consciousness around the relationship skills you want to build. And, Adam shares some lessons he's learned in his new relationship about not making assumptions about others because everyone has grown up differently with different experiences.    If you're ready to start honing your relationship skills, get some time on Kimmy's calendar here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In a FREE 30-minute session with Kimmy you could start to uncover some of the central challenges you face when dating and begin to craft a roadmap of how to practice and navigate where you want to go.  Also if you want the practice join Kimmy and other amazing experts in Adam’s Kyyndr interactive summit.  This is a curated community of men and women who meet every week to learn advanced dating and relationships skills together and to connect in a deeper way online.  Click here to join! www.kyyndr.com/seltzer   EPISODE 211 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Creating Love, Not Finding It: Interview With Adam Gilad.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups 

Creating Love, Not Finding It: Interview With Adam Gilad

Everyone experiences extreme life events that impact how we think, act and behave throughout our loves. If you've experienced trauma, physical, verbal or emotional abuse in your family or past relationships, this week's episode will resonate with you. You'll hear Kimmy have a coaching call with Margaret, a healthcare worker who is struggling to move beyond her past and find love again.  After leaving an abusive 11-year marriage, Margaret is focused on how she can shift her perspective to start attracting different people into her life.    EPISODE 210 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How Trauma Prevents You From Finding Love:  Coaching With Kimmy     Kimmy dives in by describing the signs of the 3 most common responses to fear: fight, flight or freeze. If one of more of these responses feels like you, listen in to hear proven strategies to begin breaking those patterns for yourself, while still prioritizing your own health and safety. Margaret jumps in to share that she has no problem meeting guys, but when it comes to trusting their motives, it's a different story. If you've built in some questions to "test" your dates early on, Kimmy explains reasons why this tactic may backfire when trying to filter through red flags. Margaret also shares what the dynamics in her family looked like growing up and Kimmy identifies how those patterns could be repeating themselves in her dating life today. If you've found success in "fixing" or helping others, this conversation will illuminate how this dynamic creates unhealthy dating dynamics. Kimmy shares some tips on how to check in with yourself and what you're feeling to make sense of the reactions you may have to different behavior. If you have a tendency to focus on making others happy at the expense of getting your own needs met, stay tuned to hear how you can take small steps to start breaking those patterns. Learn how to shift the focus back to you, instead of trying to predict what the person you're dating may or may not be concealing.     If Margaret's experience resonates with you and you're looking for a path that could release you from your past trauma in relationships, reach out to Kimmy for a complimentary coaching call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough When you learn to shift your focus from others to yourself at this stage, you'll be able to build a sense of empowerment, raise your standards and go after what you want and deserve in a relationship.   EPISODE 210 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How Trauma Prevents You From Finding Love:  Coaching With Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups 

How Trauma Prevents You From Finding Love: Coaching with Kimmy

Dating in today's landscape can be intimidating. Gone are the days of being introduced to your person through family or friends as nowadays people are more and more likely to meet online. The world of dating apps is big, and without a concrete plan, you may feel like you're out in the wilderness. This week, Kimmy speaks with an authority on how to navigate dating online, Dawoon Kang, the co-founder and Chief Dating Officer of popular dating app Coffee Meets Bagel.    EPISODE 209 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Navigating Virtual Dating:  Interview With Coffee Meets Bagel Dating Expert   Kimmy and Dawoon dive into Dawoon's experience going on hundreds of first dates and how that informed her work at Coffee Meets Bagel. Dating smarter (not harder!) means diversifying your options by socializing with other single people, trying new things, and getting out of your comfort zone, which includes a healthy relationship with the apps. Dawoon and Kimmy talk through why it's so important not to begin your dating journey by focusing on finding "the one" but instead, focusing on how you feel with the other person. These two geek out about the science behind great, long-lasting relationships and what signals to look out for online to see if you and your date are compatible.  Tune in to hear the biggest red flags you should watch out for to tell if a dating profile is real or fake. This conversation is a beautiful reminder that your dating profile can be a space curated to showcase your authentic self. You can signal to others who you are and what you want by choosing flattering photos, and sharing personal information that showcases what matters to you. Find out how to focus on the story, not the facts, in a profile and why you’ll get better results by doing that.     If you are tired of numbing out and swiping through people who you don't see a real connection with, get in touch with Kimmy for a complimentary, 30-minute call to map out a dating plan here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough One call can set you on the path to clarifying what you're looking for and even tips on how to date smarter.   EPISODE 209 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Navigating Virtual Dating:  Interview With Coffee Meets Bagel Dating Expert.   The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups 

Navigating Virtual Dating: Interview With Coffee Meets Bagel Dating Expert

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with current and former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what's changed since working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Maricus, who is starting his dating journey for the first time since leaving his marriage and finding himself in the process.    EPISODE 208 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Discovering Yourself After A Breakup:  Where Are They Now With Maricus   Kimmy and Maricus dive in by talking about how his marriage to his ex-wife was lopsided. If you're like Maricus, chances are you've spent a lot of time focusing on what others want and not a lot of time considering what you want. This conversation touches on strategies to ensure that your needs are met, especially if you don't have a lot of dating experience under your belt. And, you'll expand your definition of what dating is all about! You don't need to date with the intention of getting into a relationship, you can date in order to expand your social skills and get to know how you show up and how you want others to show up for you. You'll hear how through working with Kimmy, Maricus was able to come out of his shell, find his confident voice and be more true to who he is in order to find potential partners. Plus, Maricus tells stories about how he's been able to put himself out there more through meetups and getting out of his comfort zone, which has led to him making new connections with new people where he lives. Stay tuned to hear about the new relationship Maricus is in and how it's totally different than anything he's been in before.    If Maricus's experience resonated with you and you have been hesitant about reaching out to speak with someone to get your love life on track, listen in to hear his advice about how to get started. When you're ready to take the next step whether that's strengthening your relationship with yourself, your personal confidence, or forging new love relationships, get in touch with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough One phone call could be the difference between you staying stuck and you moving forward and finding the fulfilling relationship you've always wanted.   EPISODE 208 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Discovering Yourself After A Breakup:  Where Are They Now With Maricus.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups 

Discovering Yourself After A Breakup: Where Are They Now With Maricus

 How do you care for yourself? Nurturing yourself and taking care of your needs is an essential part of being the best version of yourself. This week, Kimmy has an introspective conversation with Dr. Gertrude Lyons, a life coach, speaker, podcast host of Rewrite The Mother Code, and self-described mothering revolutionary. This week, Kimmy and Gertrude invite you to think about the art of mothering in all its’ forms, regardless of your gender. This episode is all about how to mother and nurture yourself and attract the kind of love you want.   EPISODE 206 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mother Yourself To Attract Love:  Interview with Dr. Gertrude Lyons   Gertrude talks about her family upbringing and early career discovering her love of connecting with people and how it led her to find her core self through the years. If you’re a highly analytical and high-achieving person like Gertrude, it’s even more important to tap into your emotional side so you can connect on a deeper level with the people you date. Kimmy and Gertrude talk about the concept of mothering as a way to foster a healthy sense of self-love without feeling selfish so that you attract more reciprocity in your interactions. Listen in to hear why securing support and accountability is the best decision you can make when it comes to nurturing your relationship with yourself. You’ll hear tips on naming emotions as you feel them so you can better express yourself and gain self-awareness. This conversation will remind you to look at your love journey as a process to grow through. These two experts review some real, practical tips to help you develop the self-care you need to create a healthy relationship with yourself and others.   If you listen to this and you are struck with knowing you are focusing too much on others and want to learn how to empower yourself to attract love, hop on a call with Kimmy to map out a strategy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Remember, working on yourself is working on your dating life!   EPISODE 206 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mother Yourself To Attract Love:  Interview with Dr. Gertrude Lyons.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups 

Mother Yourself To Attract Love: Interview with Dr. Gertrude Lyons

Have you ever felt like you were just dating the same person over and over again? Even though you've been working on yourself and listening to podcasts (like this one!), you still can't seem to break free from experiencing the same patterns. This week, Kimmy is going to help you tackle some issues you may not have been able to see before. Listen in to hear her Top 5 Love Shields that may be preventing you from finding the one.    EPISODE 206 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  5 Things That Block You From Love   You'll learn time-tested techniques to help you look inward and determine what you can do to start attracting a different kind of a person into your life. When you mirror the kind of partner you want to be with, you'll connect more deeply with the kind of people you are seeking. The more you know yourself and show up as your authentic self (quirks included!) the more you'll be able to set the standard you desire in a relationship. This empowering episode will show you that you cannot change or control others, you can only change yourself.  Kimmy delivers some tough love in this episode with tips and tricks that will help you determine if you are conflating reality with fantasy in your dating life. Listen in to hear how fear can create habits that keep you from getting hurt.  Learn how taking risks and going outside your comfort zone will help you have an experience or create an opportunity to meet someone you never would have otherwise.   If you recognize that you are being held back by your fears and you need help seeing past your own barriers, book a free call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Your first half an hour with Kimmy is complimentary to see if you could benefit from working with her to crack your love code!  Also, Kimmy will be in NYC in September and is opening up 1-2 slots for private coaching and possibly a small group gathering.  If you are interested, inquire at Askkimmy.com for more info to apply.   EPISODE 206 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Things That Block You From Love   The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups 

5 Things That Block You From Love

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In these episodes, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with her clients to find out how their life has changed since working with her, and the secrets to their success. Today, you'll meet Meredith, who found Kimmy on a friend's recommendation and now has completely changed her story and has found love.   EPISODE 205 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How Vulnerability Attracted Love:  Where Are They Now With Meredith   Meredith dives in by sharing what she struggled within dating. From uncovering habits and behaviors tied to growing up in a household where emotions were not shared to dating men who gaslit her and invalidated her needs, Meredith was ready to make a drastic shift. Listen in to hear how she came to the realization that she could make different choices and start seeing different results. If you have ever felt like you were too broken or had too much baggage to deserve a happy, healthy and fulfilling relationship, this episode is for you. And if you're like Meredith, you may have unconsciously been creating some of the conflict you were desperately trying to avoid by people pleasing and worrying about everyone else's needs before your own. Kimmy and Meredith break down the key factors in the coaching process that led to breakthroughs for Meredith -- in love and at work! This conversation is a beautiful reminder that what shows up in one area of your life often leaks into other areas, including business. And, listen in to hear the words that helped Meredith feel valued and seen for her authentic self, not who she used to try to be to impress the guys. Stay tuned to hear Meredith's incredible story of how her new relationship has blossomed from a totally unexpected place! Hopefully, some of the insights from Meredith's journey to discover self-love, confidence and the power of saying no will resonate with you!    You can change your story with just one call to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Just like she was for Meredith, Kimmy can be a built-in accountability partner to guide you and keep you on track to work on your love life.   EPISODE 205 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How Vulnerability Attracted Love:  Where Are They Now With Meredith. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups 

How Vulnerability Attracted Love: Where Are They Now With Meredith

Does the idea of confronting conflict in a relationship make you cringe? Would you rather avoid sharing your true feelings because you're afraid that sharing how you feel will cause more problems? If this sounds like you, tune in to hear Kimmy's interview with David Wood. David runs the world's largest coaching business for high-performing entrepreneurs, is the celebrated author of Get Paid for Who You Are, and is an expert in having tough conversations.    EPISODE 204 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Tough Conversations To Improve Your Love Life:  Interview With David Wood   If you have ever decided not to speak up because you were afraid that communicating your truth would damage a new or existing relationship, this conversation is for you. Listen in to hear Kimmy and David talk through David's method to reduce fear when having hard conversations. David shares one powerful question that will help you clearly see the upside to sharing your true feelings. Addressing conflicts with others can feel quite intimidating, but rest assured that you don't need all the answers upfront. When you engage in a discussion with someone else, clarifying your goals or what you might want from the other person can help demystify this process and make it easier to get started. David and Kimmy discuss the possible effects of conflict avoidance, which might surprise you!  When you are armed with a strategy to address conflict in a healthy way, you will be more able to express yourself and get what you want. This episode will show you that you do not need to modify your behavior just to please someone else. Listen in until the end to hear David breakdown exactly how to structure your next tough conversation.   If YOU are avoiding hard conversations in your life and it's preventing you from finding an intimate relationship or the right partner, get in touch with Kimmy and find a time to chat to give you the plan and courage to do so: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.   EPISODE 204 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Tough Conversations To Improve Your Love Life:  Interview With David Wood. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups 

Tough Conversations To Improve Your Love Life: Interview With David Wood

When was the last time you truly leveled up? Are you comfortable where you are right now or are you ready for the next level in your love life? This week Kimmy interviews an expert in reaching the next level of success, Joe Sanok. He's a keynote and TEDx speaker, business consultant, and hosts the #1 podcast for counselors, The Practice of the Practice Podcast.    EPISODE 203 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Leveling Up Your Career & Love Life:  Interview With Joe Sanok   Joe dives in to talk about how he set out on a career path that ended up differently than he ever expected. He talks through how he moved out of a conformity mindset from doing what was expected of him to forging his own path and the challenges that came along the way. If you have arrived at a place in your life where you're seeking more happiness and fulfillment in your love relationships, listen in to hear the surprising concept Joe introduces that will change the way you think about rejection. This conversation is a reminder that in order to progress in dating (or in anything!) you have to rise out of your comfort zone and the ONLY way to do this is practice. Listen in to hear two concrete tips on how to combat the fear of failure that we all have. Joe and Kimmy talk about the power of setting small, achievable goals that you can take action to accomplish with the intention to make things easier for yourself. And, Joe and Kimmy break down the signs that you ARE actually pushing past your comfort zone into the next level you're seeking. When you lean into your curiosity and actively seek experiences that challenge your current mindsets, you're on the right path.   If you want to reach a new goal in your love life and need support transcending your comfort zone, reach out to Kimmy and set a time to talk here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. It's free, it's 30-minutes and at the end, you'll leave with a new perspective and a road map towards accomplishing your goals.   EPISODE 203 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Leveling Up Your Career & Love Life:  Interview With Joe Sanok.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups 

Leveling Up Your Career & Love Life: Interview With Joe Sanok

What does it mean to embrace your feminine power? Are you open to receiving, letting men earn you, and learning to flow in your feminine energy? This week on the podcast, Kimmy interviews Petia Kolibuva, a women's transformation coach who helps her clients release what is holding them back so they can become the loving, nurturing, powerful women they've always dreamed of being. If you are struggling with giving off masculine energy or constantly being in work mode in your dating life, listen in! This conversation will deliver you some of the key factors to gaining a new sense of femininity without giving off the "wrong" impression.    EPISODE 202 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Using Feminine Flow To Attract The One:  Interview With Petia Kolibova   Petia shares a vulnerable personal story about the struggles she experienced in her youth and how she emerged from that darkness into feeling that she was deserving of abundance and happiness in her life. If you're like Petia, you may have grown up on the offensive, feeling as if you had to fight or protect yourself from people and situations. Stay tuned to hear how you can begin to break down your masculine habits and build softer, feminine ones. Kimmy and Petia walk through some of the steps that you can take to identify limiting beliefs that you may have that are blocking you from embracing your truth. This episode will redefine your perception of feminine energy as everything from softening your approach, to reconnecting with nature, to being open to receiving to being more present. Kimmy talks through the important distinction between being "sexy" and truly being "in your feminine" while commanding respect in every aspect of your life. Petia leads an exercise in breathwork to remind us what is in and out of our control.   If you are looking to embrace your feminine side and have no idea where to start, Kimmy can help! As always, you can sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with her here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In one short call you could walk away with concrete tips on how to be more in your feminine to attract the kind of partner you're seeking.  Also, inquire about her exclusive 6-week class coming up called Get Your Sexy Back.  This interactive and fun coaching program will teach you how to look and feel attractive, desirable and feminine so that you capture a man’s interest no matter who you are with and where you go.  If you are interested in attending go to askkimmy.com   EPISODE 202 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Using Feminine Flow To Attract The One:  Interview With Petia Kolibova.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups 

Using Feminine Flow To Attract The One: Interview With Petia Kolibova

Do you flirt intentionally to capture someone’s eye? Flirting is one of the most common challenges people face when dating. If you're not a confident flirt, chances are you're holding back because you don't want to come off as cheesy, unintelligent or give someone the wrong impression. On today's show, you'll learn the *REAL* definition of flirting and hear Kimmy coach Keren, a travel nurse who's had some bad luck in relationships and wants to get back out there but worries because she doesn’t know how to flirt.    EPISODE 201 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting With Intention:  Coaching With Kimmy   Kimmy asks Keren about her interpretation of flirting and digs into what about it feels uncomfortable. If you have ever felt nervous, anxious or repelled from flirting in the past, this conversation will help shift your perspective about what flirting is so that it's fun and intentional. Keren and Kimmy talk about approaching flirting and dating from a proactive place, as opposed to a reactive place. You'll hear about Keren's upbringing in a big family where learning and observing were valued and how that plays into her current dating life. If you are like Keren, a high achiever who is often focused on doing the *right* thing, this episode will help you let go of the outcome a bit more and just focus on being purposely playful while staying present. Listen in for Kimmy's expert tips about the science of flirting, how being direct is more effective than being ambiguous and how to put out the right smoke signals to let people know you're open and interested in making connections. With such a demanding job, one of the biggest challenges in dating for Keren is her schedule. With being so busy, Kimmy talks to Keren about dating herself and practicing getting comfortable speaking with men without the intention of getting into a relationship. This episode stresses the importance of practicing with baby steps and not getting ahead of things.    If you're like Keren and bite size assignments motivate you and are hitting a roadblock in flirting, Kimmy can support you on your journey! In just one 30-minute conversation, you might see your love life in a new way. Book your time here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And, Kimmy is launching a brand new program just for women called, Get Your Sexy Back! To find out more, go to askkimmy.com and drop her a note mentioning you're interested. Space will be limited so sign up now to get on the priority list and get your sexy back! And if you just want to start with the bite size assignment, you can Awaken Your Feminine Energy to be sexy, flirty and confident with Kimmy’s new FREE dating video series by just signing up here awakenyourfeminine.com.  There is NO excuse to not inquire about any of these opportunities to get you going.   EPISODE 201 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting With Intention:  Coaching With Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups 

Flirting With Intention: Coaching with Kimmy

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kim Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kim and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

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