We are know there is no silver bullet when it comes to preventing our loved ones from accessing porn, however today we introduce you to man whose company's mission is to get as close as possible. Using technology developed in Israel to scan for nudity in real time, Canopy offers a level of protection and range of features not yet seen in the US market.  Sean Clifford, CEO of Canopy invites Fight For Love listeners to be part of the next generation of this software, using our feedback to help thousands of other couples world wide!  BREAKING OFFER: To sign up use the promo code FIGHTFORLOVE at www.canopy.us for a free month and 20% off subscription (This is hot off the press so if the code doesn't work yet try again in a few days and it will be working.) Also make sure you are signed up at our newsletter at www.fightforloveministries.org so we can contact you with details of how to give feedback to Sean. Lastly, this is the last in the current season of Fight For Love. We are all taking a little break for a couple of months, but do not panic we have not gone anywhere and will be back with season 4 shortly. Use this time to get caught up on past episodes! 

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77. New Technology for Internet Filtering - Canopy with Sean Clifford

Today we come alongside those of you who are feeling tempted to seek, or have already sought, comfort outside of your marriage to cope with the pain of being neglected and/or betrayed by your spouse . Christy Neal is an advocate for women who feel tainted and cast out after adultery. As the author of Don't Ever Tell and the post host of Everyone Has a Voice she is the catalyst for hope and healing she desperately needed but never found a decade ago after her own affair. 

76. Redemption After Adultery with Christy Neal

If you feel crushed and broken by your partner's persistent emotional distance and neglect, this is the episode for you. Today we are so blessed to have Karen Rellos, Certified APSAT coach, Certified AASAT Intimacy Anorexia Coach and founder of Restored Hope Coaching &  Redeeming Love Marriage Ministry, with us to share her incredible story of finding her voice and restoring her marriage after years of soul-crushing emotional neglect and abuse. Grab a fluffy blanket, a cup of tea, a box of tissues and join us for this validating, honest and inspiring conversation. 

75. Hope for the Perpetually Neglected with Karen Rellos

If you have ever felt invalidated, confused and manipulated,  found yourself second guessing your instincts, or had trouble making decisions, this episode is for you. Living with someone who is intentionally, or even unintentionally gaslighting, is a confusing, painful and lonely prison. Eroding your ability to connect with your authentic self, gaslighting steadily robs you of your self-worth and true power. Sarah Morales, relationship coach, host of Deconstructing Gaslighting™ podcast and speaker, joins me today to help you understand and identify gaslighting in your life and relationships.      

74. Gaslighting with Sarah Morales

We keep talking about "Recovery" for partners and how important it is, but what does that actually mean? What will you actually be working on when you enter recovery, and why is it so important to find an experienced guide? Joining me today to give us a candid closeup of three stages of the healing process is Lisa Taylor, an APSAT trained Christian counselor specializing in sex addiction and betrayal trauma.  The Three Stages of Betrayal -Trauma Recovery: Stage 1 - Establishing Safety Stage 2 - Remembering & Mourning Stage 3 - Reconnecting To connect with Lisa, follow her research, and access her incredible blog www.beyondbetrayal.community Naked Truth Project To access Fight For Love resources, join the Fight For Love support group, download a free devotional for partners,  or purchase our Biblical Battleplan go to Fight For Love Website

73. The 3 Stages of Betrayal-Trauma Recovery with Lisa Taylor

A heartfelt message from me to you, my dear exhausted sister. A short exhortation to encourage and equip you to stand firm when the enemy tries to convince you that you are not strong enough for this fight.    Music credits Lucid by The Seraphim Project https://www.worshipstart.com/royalty-free-music/p/bg-horizon-by-hoyle-96wha-6krzg-yyxy6-ge9hl-44nr3-ax5j7-wggmy-25zrf-lf3d3-rfx3z-lzhaz-p9znc-3rs4w-hbrfw-yr8y4  Loop 4 by Soundology & Co https://www.worshipstart.com/royalty-free-music/p/bg-horizon-by-hoyle-96wha-6krzg-yyxy6-ge9hl-44nr3-ax5j7-wggmy-25zrf-lf3d3-rfx3z-lzhaz-p9znc-xbwl6-rhmza-3hcm9-d3b8l-p5l3p-8wdh5-cjptz-m5dgy-tpxdf-j75lh-3dp79-f66hr-l4mn9-r4rcj-2ws2d  Ancient Ones by Katie Overbeek https://www.worshipstart.com/royalty-free-music/p/bg-horizon-by-hoyle-96wha-6krzg-yyxy6-ge9hl-44nr3-ax5j7-wggmy-25zrf-lf3d3-rfx3z-lzhaz-p9znc-xbwl6-rhmza-3hcm9-d3b8l-p5l3p This work is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike 4.0 International License.

Oxygen Mask #1 : When You Feel Like Giving Up

Whether or not you have a daughter, this is a ministry that you need to put on your radar. From her unique perspective as a betrayed wife and daughter, and a Certified Pastoral Sexual Addiction Specialist, Kristin Cary of Living Truth shares a message of hope and help for those impacted by a parent's problematic sexual behavior. Plus you are not going to want to miss hearing about their unique and totally free support group for daughters between the ages of 15-30. For more information about Living Truth's Men in the Battle and Women in the Battle communities go to www.living-truth.org  Sign up for the next women's group just opened up! (as of 8/2/2021) To access Fight For Love resources click here  

71. Helping Daughters Heal with Kristin Cary

If you are passionate about the topic of Human Trafficking, but the sheer scale of the problem leaves you feeling overwhelmed and paralyzed, this is a conversation that will hopefully turn things around for you.  In this episode Raleigh Sadler, Author, Founder & Executive Director of Let My People Go shares with Rosie how acknowledging our own vulnerability is key to being able to identify and come alongside the most vulnerable people in our community, those who are often hidden in plain sight behind our false assumptions about human trafficking.  Click here to buy Raleigh's book Vulnerability : Rethinking Human Trafficking Click here to be taken to the Fight For Love Website  

Rethinking Human Trafficking

Whether you are newly divorced and thinking about dating again, or wanting to relaunch yourself in your marriage, Jenni Rochelle brings an inspiring message of hope and healing. With her contagious vibrancy, Jenni unpacks the daunting process of learning to trust again, and makes it seem possible for every women to embrace her own big sexy comeback. Don't forget to check out Jenni's podcast - Beauty after Betrayal and her 8-week Big Sexy Comeback Mentorship Group. Special offer for Fight For Love listeners : Use the code Worthy100 for a $100 discount!   Check out our resources at the Fight For Love website Come hang out with us at the Fight For Love Support Group

69. Your Big Sexy Comeback with Jenni Rochelle

If you or your partner are currently in, or are thinking about signing up, for a Pure Desire group this is an episode you don't want to miss. Ashley Jameson, Author, Speaker and International Women's Group Coordinator, joins me today to chat through many of the questions and concerns that I have received from wives over the years about Pure Desire groups. Remember your job is not to fix your husband, but to help get him to a professional or a group who can. However, in order to do that, you need to know what to look out for in a good group. How can you tell if your husband is actually doing the work versus simply attending? What guidelines should his group be following? What tools should you, as his wife, be hearing about? 

68. Pure Desire Ministries with Ashley Jameson

Calling all of you who are feeling weary and hopeless, come, sit and be comforted and inspired by Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith as they take you through their practical and profound step-by-step approach to creating a beautiful biblical level of intimacy out of the ashes of betrayal and addiction.  With their unique and irresistible style, Matthew and Joanna take us on a journey through the stages of honesty, safety, trust, vulnerability and intimacy. This is one to listen to with your partner. This is why we FIGHT FOR LOVE! 

67. The Intimacy Pyramid with Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith

If you are curious about what really happens at a residential trauma intensive, take a listen to my conversation with Matt Wenger, Clinical Director of Boulder Recovery as he takes us behind the scenes at his 14-Day Intensive for men struggling with sex, porn, and relationship issues. The program uses the TINSA® treatment model (Trauma Induced Sexual Addiction) to heal the traumatic experiences and attachment wounds driving addictive behaviors and problematic thinking around sex and intimacy. Boulder Recovery is also the only Christian intensive in North America that includes support for partners impacted by the trauma of betrayal through online psychoeducation, care and interaction during the men’s intensive with a betrayal trauma specialist.  In this episode you will learn: How an intensive experience differs from weekly individual therapy What different healing modalities are used to treat trauma What actually happens during the different stages of the intensive What support for partners is available What is the best time to attend an intensive    Fight For Love Website Fight For Love Book Fight For Love Private Online Support Group

Residential Trauma Intensives with Matt Wenger

Dr Jake Porter, Licensed Professional Counselor, and founder and president of Daring Ventures, joins me today for a rich and deep dive into the brain of a betrayed partner. Drawing on his vast expertise in relational neurobiology and attachment theory, Jake compellingly explains the following: How betrayal trauma affects the brain Why triggers can feel overwhelming How you can begin to rebuild trust when your entire history feels like a lie. Why healing happens in relationships Why a full disclosure is essential What is couple-centered recovery How you and your partner can learn to co-regulate each other   Daring Ventures Website Sign up for the FREE 40 Day Connection Challenge Download the FREE Making Saves Tool   Fight For Love Website Fight For Love Fellowship - Private Facebook Group for Betrayed Partners     .      

65. How Betrayal Trauma Affects the Brain with Dr Jake Porter

If you are struggling with feeling like you will never measure up in your husband's eyes, this is the episode for you. In this exploration of this dreadfully painful subject we shoot you straight with both the reality of the problem and the solution. Although some parts of our conversation may be hard to hear, dragging everything into the light is the only way forward. The biblical truths that Heather Creekmore, (author, speaker, and host of Compared To Who podcast ), shares today hold life and power to set you free from this debilitating and life-sucking issue.  Connect with Heather at www.comparedtowho.me Fight For Love Website

64. Struggling With Body Image

If you have ever felt that small but insistent internal nudging to start your own group this is a conversation you don't want to miss. Donna Meredith Dixon from A Door Of Hope shares with us so many precious insights and wisdom about facilitating groups for betrayed partners, and introduces us to her unique 12 week peer facilitator training program. Topics we talk about include: What makes a good peer facilitator? Is it a natural or a learned skill, an art or a discipline? How do you hold in tension the needs of a group and the needs of the individual as the same time?  What roles does a facilitator undertake at different stages of the groups development? How do  you become more comfortable with uncomfortable situations?  What do you need to be thinking about before you start your group, and as you end? Is compassion fatigue a real thing?   Find out more about A Door of Hope Facilitator Training at www.lifeisahead.com To join the Fight For Love Facebook group click here. To see the Fight For Love website/resources click here. To buy the book Fight For Love click here.

Do you feel called to lead a group?

 Join LifeWay author and founder of Fight For Love Ministries,  Rosie Makinney, and her fabulous team of wives, Crystal, Miranda, Mindy and Jené, as they tackle everything you need to know about helping your porn addicted spouse. This honest and upbeat panel discussion will educate and motivate you to take proactive action to take back your marriage from porn.    Over the weeks you will discover: Why time is of the essence when porn is rewiring your husband's brain. Why trying to compete with porn only makes things worse.. What is the best thing you can do for your husband What recovery from porn addiction looks like. What fighting against porn will do for you, your marriage, your family, and your faith.   

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