When the cant control you they seek to control what others think about you

Ignite Your Light with Xara Black

Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 9 Narcissists Smear Campaign

Discussing Spiritual Abuse and what the Church should be doing With Katherine Spearing from Uncertain Podcast

Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 8 The Church Needs to do Better

Ex Pastor Marc-Henri talks about his experience as a pastor and how came up with the concept of his book Toxic Jesus. ​You can follow my instagram page @xarablack https://bit.ly/2CrAQHZ​Like my facebook page bit.ly/3gZo5mM Also, Listen to my podcast Ignite Your Light -spoti.fi/37xJRKw Follow the author Marc-Henri on Instagram @toxicjesusthebook,  Buy the book now at https://www.amazon.co.uk/kindle-dbs/entity/author/B08LZRC43X?_encoding=UTF8&node=266239&offset=0&pageSize=12&searchAlias=stripbooks&sort=author-sidecar-rank&page=1&langFilter=default#formatSelectorHeaderThanks for watching x

Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 7 Toxic Jesus Author Speaks On Spiritual Abuse

The Narcissist will bombard you with attention, love and care. They will work incredibly hard to impress you, making you think that you are their soul mate. They may even mirror your likes and dislikes. This may feel uncomfortable in the same breath the target may feel this is everything they have been looking for

Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 6 What is Lovebombing?

Fear based Religion is capturing the minds of black people in turn pulling them further away from the truth. Follow @xarablack on Instagram  Like Xara Black on Facebook

Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 5 Religious Ignorance in the Black Community

These Personality traits can be beneficial for you in your day to day life. The narcissist may have used them on you but you can use them to get ahead in life without abusing people.

Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 4 Narcissistic Personality Traits You Can Steal from Your Narcissist

Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 3 How to Spot Insecure Men

Alleged Prophet Sylvester Ofori shot his wife Barbara Tommy at her work place after she attempted to file for a divorce from him. She had suffered domestic violence at the hands of the Alleged man of God. This story teaches us all to be aware of wolves in sheeps clothing and not all men/women that claim to be righteous, are. Themes of domestic violence and spiritual abuse.

Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 2 Alleged Prophet Kills his wife

Getting through the dark night of the soul can be incredibly tough as you can feel that you have no purpose or meaning in life. Many feel like giving up at this time as the pain is unbearable. I explain a few things you can do that might help you to get through the dark night.

Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 1 The Dark Night of the Soul

What, and how much should we be compromising in a relationship and what should we discard immediately 

Ignite Your Light S3 Ep 13 Deal Breakers vs Compromise

Manifest the relationship that you want by setting your intention, making up your mind and sticking to the rules. Don't play yourself and blame the other person. 

Ignite Your Light S3 Ep 12 Don't Date Down

Many people say they are afraid of failure but a lot of people are unconsciously afraid to succeed. Do you subconsciously have the fear of success?

Ignite Your Light S3 Ep 11 Fear of Success

Here are the Main differences I have noticed when leaving religion and becoming more spiritual. 

Ignite Your Light S3 Ep 10 Religion vs Spirituality

A lot of us do not think that we could ever become victims of brainwashing and mind control but in fact may already be under the spell of another without knowing. Religious, spiritual and cult leaders often use mind control and brainwashing techniques on their followers without the follower realising that their thought processes are being influenced. 

Ignite Your Light S3 Ep 9 Brainwashing and Mind control

DO NOT even waste your time. If a person is wicked, there is no redemption for them, take it at face value and never wait for a "change" that may never come. We can only go by what we have already seen and that is abuse, lies, manipulation. When someone shows you who they are...Believe them. 

Ignite Your Light S3 Ep8 Wicked Men Don't Change

It's all about taking control of your life. I talk you through my journey & experiences of, domestic abuse, divorce, dating, business, motherhood and religion. This podcast will show you how I went built my life back by becoming a successful entrepreneur.

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