Today's guest Shade Ashani has interviewed hundreds of women and discovered 6 archetypes for how the wounded response shows up in our relationships with men.  •The CEO•The Savior •Ms. Commitment•The Revolving Door•The Romantic•The Shut DownListen to the episode and discover which one may fit your pattern of relationships with men.

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Episode 061 | Shade Ashani Anniversary Rewind: "We often see things through the lens of our past and often through the lens of our pain."

It is through great emotion and clear vision that motivation is ignited.• Emotion- a compelling instinct or intuitive feeling• Intention-the reason and why of it all • Motivation-the strong desire and willingness As long as you don't give up then you will always have a shot at accomplishing any goal you may have.My goal is to serve you.  Let me know how I can do that better, click HERE to leave me a  message. Danyale Thomas Ross and The InstigateHer™ Podcast does not own or claim to own any of the curated featured content.

Episode 060 | Sheli Rae Verela Anniversary Rewind: "I felt like screaming sometimes because it was so overwhelming but I never quit."

The solution to our money issue lies in our alertness and in developing our financial intelligence. We can't ignore what is happening, because every step we make or don't make needs to be calculated and taken carefully yet confidently to get to safety. The only other option we have is to do nothing and hope someone will save you, but trust and believe me,  no one is coming to save you.Check out Elizabeth White's book 55 Unemployed and Faking NormalDanyale Thomas Ross and The InstigateHer™ Podcast does not own or claim to own any of the curated featured content.

Episode 059 | Elizabeth White Anniversary Rewind: "Half of all American households have no retirement savings at all, that would be 0. No 401K, No IRA, Not a Dime."

We are constantly talking to ourselves. It is through this self-talk that we guide and shape our lives. So, instead of just saying affirmations, you can change your life by changing the entire conversation you're having with yourself. Here are the 4 ways you can better collaborate with your brain to have a better life. Change the pictures you make in your head and the words you tell yourself.Make what is familiar, unfamiliar and what is unfamiliar, familiar.Associate what you want with pleasure.Give your brain clear commandsClick HERE to schedule your RTT™ session with me. Danyale Thomas Ross and The InstigateHer™ Podcast does not own or claim to own any of the curated featured content.

Episode 058 | Marisa Peer Anniversary Rewind:"This is more than positive thinking, this is collaborating with your mind."

Time to celebrate, InstigateHer Podcast is 1 year old!I am thrilled, excited and grateful to still be here, with you, one year in.  Here are the three ways that you can help me celebrate:1. Email me at InstigatheHer@gmail.com and tell me what you love and/or what can be improved about the podcast. 2. Subscribe, rate and write a favorable review for the show on whatever player you listen on. 3. Share the show with a friend and tell her to subscribe. Check out more of the incredible Lisa Nichols at her website, motivatingthemasses.com.Danyale Thomas Ross and The InstigateHer™ Podcast does not own or claim to own any of the curated featured content.

Episode 057| Lisa Nichols Anniversary Rewind: "I would rather fall flying than live a life on the edge never jumping off."

You are invited to The Mini Retreat & Mid Year Vision Board BrunchHouse of Healing HawaiiAugust 10th 11am-3pmClick HERE for tickets and more information. When you joyfully receive what you are asking for even in the most minuscule form is a way of saying yes to the universe to send more of whatever you are asking for. Money is energy.Take responsibility for your life.Know your purposeSet clear goals.Identify and let go of your blocks.Clear physical, mental and emotional clutter.ForgiveExpress GratitudeDanyale Thomas Ross and The InstigateHer™ Podcast does not own or claim to own any of the curated featured content.

Episode 056 | Thuli Sithole: "Just as much as you manage your time you've got to manage your money."

You are invited to The Mini Retreat & Mid Year Vision Board BrunchHouse of Healing HawaiiAugust 10th 11am-3pmClick HERE for tickets and more information. It's the lack of confidence pulls us down from the bottom and weighs us down from the top, crushing us between a flurry of cant's, won't's and delusion of impossibility.It's when we are curious and willing to explore the perceived boundaries that our confidence is affirmed and we set ourself free. For more Brittany Packett click here. Danyale Thomas Ross and The InstigateHer™ Podcast does not own or claim to own any of the curated featured content.

Episode 055 | Brittany Packnett : "Confidence is the difference between being inspired and actually getting started." 

I want to help you ROCK the rest of your year!You are invited to The Mid-Year Vision Board BrunchAugust 10, 2019 11am-3pmChinatown Artist Lofts, HonoluluWhy is it considered abnormal for women to display and express anger? It is like the world has adopted the attitude that anger is not feminine.But how can this be if anger is a signal emotion? Anger is designed to warn us of indignity, threat, danger, and harm. But if we are constantly denying the signal of this emotion, we are the constant denial of our self-worth.This type of denial shows up, not only in our lives but also in bodies.  Unexpressed emotions will cause our organs to weep.•Anger: Weakens the liver•Grief: Weakens the lungs•Worry: Weakens the stomach•Stress: Weakens the heart and brain•Fear: Weakens the kidneyYou can find Soraya Here and watch the full clip of todays episode Here. Danyale Thomas Ross and The InstigateHer™ Podcast does not own or claim to own any of the curated featured content.

Episode 054 | Soraya Chemaly: "I'm sick and tired of women I know, being sick and tired."

Do you need help with leveling up your mindset, ending self sabotage and making changes in your life? Go to danyalethomasross.com   and schedule a complimentary discovery session. There are times when we can't manage to do something that we say we really want to do because we are not willing.Willing to show upWilling to take a riskWilling to be uncomfortableWilling to look badBeing willing means having to be uncomfortable or unreasonable in some area of our lives. Danyale Thomas Ross and The InstigateHer™ Podcast does not own or claim to own any of the curated featured content.

Episode 053 | Iyanla Vanzant : "You're never going to rise above where you are until you rise above who you are."

Get your complimentary discovery session with Danyale!Searching your soul and questioning your life reveals if we are living the most meaningful life possible. It can be challenging not to allow prestige and the expectations of society to decide our lives for us.  There's constant pressure to achieve a level of acceptable and recognizable success based on standards that may or may not be part of your core values. We have the right to wholeness and fulfillment. More importantly, we have a responsibility to fully live this life we have been given and to do this must choose to stop suffering. Click here for more Maria Phalime and to watch the full clip of her talk click HERE.Danyale Thomas Ross and The InstigateHer™ Podcast does not own or claim to own any of the curated featured content.

Episode 052 | Maria Phalime: "It's a powerful act to put your hand up and say, I'm struggling."

Get your complimentary discovery session with Danyale!Believe that no matter what you are going through it is all aligning for you to achieve a deeper understanding and possibly developing a perspective that may have not been available to you before the struggle. Stay focused on these concepts and come out on the other side of your struggle ready and prepared to seize your next opportunity.Creation over Competition:In order to be successful, I don't have to take anything away from anyone else.  It is not necessary to compare and compete with anyone else. The more you give the more you receive:Align your intentional giving with what is most important to you in life and it will return to you with interest. Success comes when opportunity meets preparation: Don't wait until you the opportunity presents itself instead always be practicing, preparing and rehearsing so you can be ready when your time comes.  Watch this full clip with Zain Asher.Danyale Thomas Ross and The InstigateHer™ Podcast does not own or claim to own any of the curated featured content.

Episode 051| Zain Asher: "Trust your struggle!"

Click & Connect with Danyale Thomas Ross!Happiness unleashes our god given talent so that we can positively influence the world.If we have a major goal to achieve we need to be able to see the possibility before we can solve the problems. The way we can best align ourselves with the possibilities we see is by cultivating core relationships that support our dreams.It is our relationships have the greatest impact on our happiness.  In particular the relationships we have with the 5 people we spend the most time with. Cheerleader:  When you cannot believe in yourself this person cheers you on. Mentor: They point you in the right direction, they are someone with a willingness to share information. Coach: Makes you uncomfortable so that you can maximize your potential. Helps you to become more of who you are.Friend: The person who know your truest heart's desire.Peer: They help you out in social situations and is in the same industry or does similar work as you.Connecting to the right people in these key areas will help to inspire us to happiness. Click to find more about Stacy FlowersDanyale Thomas Ross and The InstigateHer™ Podcast does not own or claim to own any of the curated featured content.

Episode 050 | Stacy Flowers: "Happiness happens before success."

According to Susan David, Emotional agility is a process helps us to better navigate the twists & turns and ups & downs of life.  The process isn’t about ignoring the hard shit and suppressing our most difficult emotions and most negative thoughts. It’s about facing those emotions courageously and compassionately and moving past them to incite change in your life."Only dead people don't get inconvenienced by their feelingstough emotions are our contract with life."  The way to flex your emotional agility is to: Show upStep OutWalk Your WhyMove OnClick HERE to listen the full talk on Youtube.Do you need support, guidance or mentorship with launching or growing your business? I help women just like you end the self sabotage, eliminate self doubt so you can do the damn thing already. Just go to DanyaleThomasRoss.com for your free discovery session. Danyale Thomas Ross and The InstigateHer™ Podcast does not own or claim to own any of the curated featured content.

Episode 049| Susan David:"Discomfort is the price of admission to a meaningful life."

We have no idea when we are making choices which ones are insignificant and which ones will be and life-changing. Every day we are making micro-choices that are the foundation and the very fabric of the quality of our lives, our well being, our health, and financial stability.  When it comes to positioning yourself and empowering, the choices we make when we're alone, these are the choices that have the most impact on our lives. Here are 5 key choices from Caroline Myss that can greatly improve your well being: 1. Live a life of integrity2. Pass on my wisdom, not my suffering3. Take risks4.  New words5. Bless your dayClick HERE to listen the full talk on Youtube.Do you need support, guidance or mentorship with launching or growing your business? I will help to get you out of your own way so you can do the damn thing already. Just go to DanyaleThomasRoss.com for your free discovery session. Danyale Thomas Ross and The InstigateHer™ Podcast does not own or claim to own any of the curated featured content.

Episode 048 | Caroline Myss: "Don't look back for guidance, the reason you're where you are is because that part of your life is over."

We came to the planet as perfect and whole beings and what happens along the way is we forget about this perfection.  The energy of our mind, body and spirit become separated and it's in this separation that illness, depression and disconnectedness occurs.Our environment has an incredible influence on our quality of life and health. The power we have to change our thoughts and beliefs is our ability to create a better more whole and more happy reality."You have to train the mind to find you."You can find more about Dr. Sue Morter and get a copy of her book, The Energy Codes here and you can listen to today's full talk HERE .Sign up for FREE training through WomanSpeak.  If you become a leader you can get paid to support women's leadership & public speaking in your city. And, if you use my name, Danyale Thomas Ross, as the referring leader I will give you proven ways to market and fill your circle.Danyale Thomas Ross and The InstigateHer™ Podcast does not own or claim to own any of the curated featured content.

Episode 047 | Sue Morter : " We have to move beyond logic if we really want to healing to happen."

The InstigateHer podcast is for women ready to crush self-doubt, give the middle finger to fear, and leave procrastination in a cloud of dust. Hosted by Head InstigateHer in Charge, Danyale Thomas Ross, she highlights women thought leaders, personal development experts, and female badasses with a message designed to incite, provoke and encourage in 20 mins or less. Subscribe and get inspiration, an uplifting perspective and powerful conversations with women, BEING the change they want to see in the world.

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