Oh my gosh, how are Charlie and Remi 3 already?!? Morgen & Trisha discuss what they have planned. While Trisha is going super low-key, Morgen is doing a big 3rd bday bash. The big question is what time do they start the festivities since the girls still nap midday (which, p.s. thank goodness for that, mama needs a break to get stuff done). Of course, having October babes means Fall-themed everything, which Trisha & Morgen love. Bring on the pumpkin painting, bouncy houses, pony rides, caramel apple-making bar, and so much more!!! Share your birthday plans for your kiddos. We want all the details! Momjeansandminivans@yahoo.com .   Links: Overalls https://liamsbabycloset.com/products/baby-girl-denim-overall?_pos=2&_sid=1a23be88e&_ss=r#judgeme_product_reviews   Fall headband  https://www.etsy.com/listing/1045448177/fall-pumpkin-baby-headband-halloween?gbraid=0AAAAADtcfRICFoxWdjhRyBfTOB6Yqzges&gpla=1&gao=1&&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=shopping_us_c-accessories-hair_accessories-headbands-baby_headbands&utm_custom1=_k_EAIaIQobChMIsMr_6qyW8wIVjIjICh1oNQBlEAQYCyABEgIIEPD_BwE_k_&utm_content=go_1844702571_78172181028_346364033238_aud-459688891635:pla-315321639809_m__1045448177_468305225&utm_custom2=1844702571&gbraid=0AAAAADtcfRICFoxWdjhRyBfTOB6Yqzges&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIsMr_6qyW8wIVjIjICh1oNQBlEAQYCyABEgIIEPD_BwE   DREAM PAIRS Girl's Toddler/Little Kid/Big Kid Belle_01 Mary Jane Glitter Ballerina Flat Shoes  https://www.amazon.com/DREAM-PAIRS-Toddler-Belle_01-Ballerina/dp/B08KY652LY   BGFKS Layered Tulle Tutu Dress for Toddler Girls,Baby Girl Rainbow Tutu Princess Skirt Set with Flower Headband.  https://www.amazon.com/BGFKS-Layered-Toddler-Princess-Headband/dp/B08LKBKV49/ref=asc_df_B08LKBKV49/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=475715914063&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=9139219844429799783&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9003575&hvtargid=pla-1072207781022&psc=1   Qishare Baby Birthday Crown Headband, 2Pcs Elastic Tiaras Mini Birthday Crown for Baby Girl or Pet, Photo Prop Hair Clips Party Hat for Women(Gold)  https://www.amazon.com/Qishare-Elastic-Headbands-Princess-Birthday/dp/B08GPGXZ6X

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Let The Party Planning Begin (Holy Cow They Are 3)

Does anyone have a two-going 12-year-old toddler where the tantrums are almost laughable/infuriating at times? It's a roller coaster ride, to say the least?! Morgen and Trisha spill the beans on what Charlie's and Remi's tantrums are like. It's the whining that can drive Trisha's blood pressure sky high, especially in the car. The thorn in Morgen's side is when Charlie throws her things, especially since her water bottles and toys keep breaking. Let's just say the eggshell walk is real. You are teetering on a very fine line, not knowing which side of the toddler reaction you will fall on today. We know you must have some fantastic toddler tantrum stories, so please share with us at momjeansandminivans@yahoo.com .

Toddler Tantrums, and Surviving Them

Morgen and Trisha touch on the societal stereotypes we feel our children are pushed into. When shopping, the girls' section is all pinks and purples with flowers, ballerinas, and what is deemed feminine. The boys' section is all blues and greens with trucks, Dinosaurs, and superheroes. The same goes for the toys the kids are given. Girls are expected to play with dolls and have tea parties while the boys are given trucks and robots. The societal norms are more than just gift-givers going with social influences; it starts at the stores we buy from. As mama's with girls, Morgen & Trisha want Charlie & Remi to be empowered and not too influenced by societal stereotypes on what is considered feminine or masculine. The same goes for Auggie when he gets older.  Listen in and weigh in on your thoughts. Also, would you shop at the store Trisha has in mind of creating?! Contact us at momjeansandminivans@yahoo.com. We can't wait to hear from you! 

Boys Vs. Girls: The Societal Stereotypes Of Toys, Gifts, and Clothing

Baby monitors, baby monitors, baby monitors! Morgen and Trisha recently upgraded their baby monitors, almost three years later, and both love their new ones compared to their previous ones. The image is better, and the camera rotation is better. They’re on a secure network; multiple cameras can be connected to the same baby monitor, and the connection and battery life are better. Bottom line, a baby monitor is one of the items that is used the most, so you want to make sure it checks all the boxes. Listen in to find out which two Morgen and Trisha ended up with and why. Please do share what you love or hate about yours because we’re always scoping the scene! You can reach us at momjeansandminivans@yahoo.com and make sure you include your momfession.    Links: Infant Optics: The Infant Optics DXR-8 video baby monitor has a long track record as a monitor that you can trust. Its compact ...   Eufy baby monitor: https://www.amazon.com/eufy-SpaceView-Pioneering-Generation-Wide-Angle/dp/B07GBP3GH9   VaVa Baby Monitor: https://www.amazon.com/eufy-SpaceView-Pioneering-Generation-Wide-Angle/dp/B07GBP3GH9/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=2U4YE986A1HMB&dchild=1&keywords=vava+baby+monitor&qid=1631038705&sprefix=vav%2Caps%2C203&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUFZNUtXR1kxUkVDRk0mZW5jcnlwdGVkSWQ9QTAxNTM2MTlGTlhMWjU5NUhKQTkmZW5jcnlwdGVkQWRJZD1BMDU4MjA2NTNITklHME02TDM2QzImd2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9hdGYmYWN0aW9uPWNsaWNrUmVkaXJlY3QmZG9Ob3RMb2dDbGljaz10cnVl   VuSee Corner: VuSee Corner | Estante universal para monitor de bebé | Compatible con la mayoría de monitores de bebé | Gestión segura de cables | Fácil instalación          

It‘s Time For A Baby Monitor Upgrade

The theme of this week's episode is 'do whatever you have to do to get by,' and it's referring to the crib-to-toddler bed transition. Morgen and Trisha talk about their totally different timelines, sacrifices made for more sleep, and how both Charlie and Remi respond differently to methods used to help them sleep and transition to their big girl beds. Trisha transitioned Remi early, around 16 months, because she started climbing out of her crib shortly after her first birthday. Charlie is almost three, and Morgen is going through the process now and has a 5-month-old unpredictable baby to contend with.    The struggle is real, mamas!    Morgen is yearning for one night of uninterrupted sleep since it's been a year and a half since she's had one. Trisha's three-month process had her sleeping on the floor in front of Remi's bed some nights, barely sleeping, but at least being able to stay horizontal and not have to get up 1000 times. The things moms do for their children, and to get an ounce more sleep!  Links: Mella Ready to Rise Children's Trainer, Alarm Clock, Night Light and Sleep Sounds Machine https://www.amazon.com/LittleHippo-Childrens-Trainer-Sounds-Machine/dp/B078Z5FHG9/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?dchild=1&keywords=mella&qid=1629541913&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUEzREJTMTZSN1hVWjkzJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwNzE0NjY4MzZTVTNYUjdJRlBTUiZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwNDkyOTA4M1JYNzdJN1VPVEg0USZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU=     Weighted Blanket   https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07MQT2C4F/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o09_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

The Transition To A Toddler Bed (May The Force Be with You)

Death is a part of life, and unfortunately, every person will be affected by it at some point in their life. When death strikes close to home, and there are children involved, helping them process it all can be a tricky road to navigate.  Remi just lost her uncle Johnny to a nine-year battle with brain cancer, and Trisha did a lot of research and got creative on ways to discuss it with Remi and her niece and nephews (Johnny's children).  Books are a great way to introduce and explain death to children, while guided journals can be a way to create memory boxes. Getting paper lanterns that the kids can draw on and sending messages to their loved ones is an excellent way to feel connected with someone who is physically not there anymore. Death is a sensitive time for everyone involved, and although children are very resilient, they are still trying to process feelings and emotions much bigger than they are. Be patient, be kind, and understanding, and if you are simply there, you're already one step ahead. Now on a separate note, if potty training is a part of your world right now, you'll want to hear Morgen and Trisha's momfessions this week, plus you'll get to learn what a "BM" is if you don't already know.  If this week's heavy episode is something you have dealt with and you've got advice or even any questions, please email us at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1481426400/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_3BWSRFQBR2SXRREQKB20?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1   The Memory Book: A Grief Journal for Children and Families (Memory Box)  https://www.amazon.com/dp/1506457819/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_4HYRRY3N1NJ7FBG2FFTA?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1   The Memory Box: A Book About Grief  https://www.amazon.com/dp/1506426727/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_ED8ZF9XWBNEBGY5RJ1AP?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1   The Invisible String  https://www.amazon.com/dp/031648623X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_CT4ZEW37Z2EDQEWD7EAM?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1   I Miss You: A First Look at Death  https://www.amazon.com/dp/0764117645/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_J5Z4EG1Q0BM54JMPMKSZ?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1   Chinese Wishing Lanterns 100% ECO Friendly Biodegradable Paper Sky Lanterns with Fire Resistant Paper for Weddings Birthdays Memorials and Celebration Events (10 Pack) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08LNNW832/ref=cm_sw_r_em_api_glt_fabc_F4TA4JM1KPNTMPTRKJ3K?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

Death and Talking toToddlers

Morgen and Trisha are joined by new mom, Allison, as they delve into all things maternity leave. More importantly, the struggles of returning to work after maternity leave. Let’s say the week and especially the night before returning to work involved many mini breakdowns and tears. They discuss common misconceptions like people thinking maternity leave is like vacation when in reality, it is exhausting, and wonderful. Both Morgen’s marternity leave with Auggie, and Allison’s with Harrison was during Covid making them both feel pretty isolated and limited on getting out and doing things with the babes.   There are so many emotions with having a new baby but us mama’s got this. One day and one maternity leave at a time. Share your story! Momjeansandminivans@yahoo.com .

Maternity With A Newborn and Then It's Back To Work We Go

Having an infant, no matter if it's your first or you've got multiples, is exhausting. Having infant tips, tricks, and hacks can make all the difference in keeping your sanity and getting through the day. Listen in as Morgen and Trisha dish about the things that made their lives easier, and let's be honest, every minute counts. Yes, all the contraptions that allow you to wear your baby are lifesavers. Hands-free is not just a term used with cell phones. Those cute crossover tulip-shaped shoulders on onesies are not just adorable but functional, and any parent that has dealt with a diaper explosion can attest to that. (Ahem, Trisha).  It's also about the things that give you back a little bit of your sanity through the chaos. Morgen can take long hot showers again because she's discovered that Auggie likes the sound of running water. Morgen and Trisha advise you to take the help when offered and go on mommy play dates with mothers who have a child or children the same age. You'll be glad you did.  Listen in for some of our favorite tips and tricks when dealing with infants. Please, do share your hacks at momjeansandminivans@yahoo.com .   CHEERS!   Links: Gripe water https://www.walmart.com/ip/Mommy-s-Bliss-Gripe-Water-4-fl-oz/26967487?wmlspartner=wlpa&selectedSellerId=0   Baby Wearing:   K'tan: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07Y26R7CZ?colid=T3DDD4M94VT8&coliid=I1FZQ9PPUCLLS&ref=br_ADD_TO_CART_title_link   Ergo:   https://www.amazon.com/Ergobaby-Ergonomic-Carrier-Positions-Newborn/dp/B0743L6R1T/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=BLAUVOLXWR8H&dchild=1&keywords=ergobaby+omni+360&qid=1626120712&rdc=1&s=baby-products&sprefix=ergo%2Cbaby-products%2C319&sr=1-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUE0VUJHWjJRM0lPRTcmZW5jcnlwdGVkSWQ9QTA2Nzc3MzAxS0pEVjlaTFFLOE5MJmVuY3J5cHRlZEFkSWQ9QTAwNjY1OTUzMjJIVzk5Q01FV1ZJJndpZGdldE5hbWU9c3BfYXRmJmFjdGlvbj1jbGlja1JlZGlyZWN0JmRvTm90TG9nQ2xpY2s9dHJ1ZQ==   Pacifier Clips:   https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01ELB9SN8/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1   Baby Booties:   https://www.amazon.com/Zutano-Cotton-Booties-Grippers-Heather/dp/B07HNHSYR2/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=2A6TWPESSPGJB&dchild=1&keywords=baby+booties&qid=1626224995&s=baby-products&sprefix=baby+boo%2Cbaby-products%2C209&sr=1-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUExVkIwR1IwWkZUR1NTJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwNDU4MDk0MUhKMVFIRFkzSk9OOSZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwNjI1MDM4MzVaMzI0Q0dINzM4NiZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU=   Silicone Breast pump (Haakaa):   Haakaa Manual Breast Pump 4oz/100ml, New Style   $12.94   Haakaa Manual Breast Pump 4oz/100ml, New Style Haakaa Manual Breast Pump 4oz/100ml, New Style     Kiinde Milk Storage:     Kiinde Twist Universal Direct-Pump Feeding System and Warmer Gift Set for Breastmilk Collection, Freezing, Heating and Feeding, Free Foodi Starter Kit Included, New Mom Gift   $99.99   Kiinde Twist Universal Direct-Pump Feeding System and Warmer Gift Set fo... Kiinde (pronounced Kind) is pleased to offer this innovative breast milk storage set. It is a perfect baby showe...       Bumkins Wet Bag:   Bumkins Waterproof Wet Bag, Washable, Reusable for Travel, Beach, Pool, Stroller, Diapers, Dirty Gym Clothes, Wet Swimsuits, Toiletries, 12x14, Cactus   $11.92   Bumkins Waterproof Wet Bag, Washable, Reusable for Travel, Beach, Pool, ... The better alternative to single-use plastic bags, our reusable wet bags are made from the same easy-wipe waterp...     Disposable Changing Pad:   https://www.amazon.com/Munchkin-Hammer-Disposable-Changing-Count/dp/B002KCMSPQ/ref=sr_1_6?dchild=1&keywords=disposable+changing+pad&qid=1626605481&rdc=1&refinements=p_72%3A1248867011%2Cp_85%3A2470955011&rnid=2470954011&rps=1&s=baby-products&sr=1-6

Newborn Tips and Tricks for Keeping Your Sanity

It’s summer 2021, the Covid vaccines have come out, and Morgen and Trisha discuss what that means for summer playdates.  Dealing with Covid for over a year has created a new norm of social distancing. There is some discomfort, fear, and anxieties around exposing our toddlers to more people and being maskless. Is it weird to ask people if they’ve been vaccinated? How are you going to approach summer and letting more people into your circle? Please do share with Morgen and Trisha at momjeansandminivans@yahoo.com , and you’ll probably want to stick around for this week’s momfessions. Cheers and happy summer, everyone!!

Post Covid Playdates

It's dentist time!  Somehow the dentist visit seems to be the one appointment that parents procrastinate on. Add Covid into the mix, and that procrastination gets amplified. When do you bring your child to the dentist for the first time? When do you start brushing or start flossing? What toothpaste do you use, fluoride or no fluoride? These ladies had so many questions, more so Morgen, and Trisha helped answer many of them in this "Lil' mama-sode," with Remi conquering her first dental visit. Plus, you won't want to miss baby Auggie chatter while the ladies were on the mic. Talk about keeping mom life real! #newbornmamalife   Links: Finger Toothbrush for babies https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01LZAGSIU/ref=cm_sw_r_em_api_glt_fabc_E5YKK836TN924NXXKRD0?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 Infant Training Toothbrush, 100% Food Grade Silicone https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07W79ZRW3/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_KEBGVLg3cBeIL Hello Fluoride Free Training Toothpaste for Toddlers + Kidshttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0744Q3XKP/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_327as1ytkmf58 Tom's of Maine Anticavity Fluoride Children's Toothpaste, Kids Toothpaste, Natural Toothpaste, Silly Strawberry https://www.amazon.com/dp/B082VL6SH9/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_XBKDjwLPOSyaU    

Lil' Mama-sode: The First Pediatric Dental Visit

In November, these mommas mentally prepared for their toddler's messiest and most adult-involved milestone yet, potty training. Both Morgen and Trisha planned on tackling potty training differently.  It's now four months later when pen to paper meets reality. In this episode, we update you on the reality of potty training, sharing what we ended up doing and how it REALLY is going, especially now that they are at the bowl movement stage. Playground accidents, anyone?   Remi was ready to take the lead within a week, whereas Charlie slowly grasped the concept and then regressed once her brother was born, causing Morgen to change her approach a few times. The ladies also discuss how the training is going at home versus school and they highly suggest sending to school extra pants you won't mind having sit there for weeks on end. Morgen sent a pair of pants to school she forgot about, and thought Charlie was wearing another child's pants when she came home in them. Let's not forget that potty training isn't just about trying to make it accident-free. It's also about toddlers learning to wipe. Too little toilet paper, too much toilet paper, the struggle is real. Morgen and Trisha may differ on how they tackle potty training, but their most significant takeaway is to follow the child. Both Charlie and Remi let their parents know in their own ways when they were ready. As a parent, you can be afraid of "missing the potty training window," but we promise you won't if you listen to your child and the signs they are giving you.  Links: Magnetic Potty https://www.homedepot.com/p/BEMIS-NextStep2-Children-s-Potty-Training-Elongated-Closed-Front-Toilet-Seat-in-White-1588SLOW-000/311424359   Step Stool Potty  www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07PBVLVWF/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1   Travel Potty  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071YF2F22/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VJZHH4YX2C2E93EWXSDA?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1  

Potty Training Update, Pen to Paper Meets Reality

Morgen & Trisha welcome the newest addition to their Mom Jeans and Minivans tribe, August, aka “Auggie.” Congratulations to Morgen, Phil & Charlie. They are now a family of 4. Just wait until you see those cheeks! They’re scrumptious! This episode is about how the first 3 weeks have been for Morgen with a newborn and a toddler. Morgen speaks about a scare at the hospital and how breastfeeding is going. Every baby is different, so although Morgen is doing much of the same things that she did with Charlie, there are some things she has decided to do differently... like waking Auggie during the day to feed him and throwing the “never wake a sleeping baby” rule out the window. You have to hear the sweetest thing that Morgen did for Charlie when she knew she’d be in the hospital away from her for a couple of days, mom award of the year, just saying. Listen in to hear what it’s like with a newborn and a toddler and how Morgen balances it all. There are some interesting takeaways you won’t want to miss. Got a newborn and want to share some stories; please do at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07CWK4S5W/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_M03YKPWPD5515D3H0T74?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1   Cloud b Sleep Sheep Sound Soother https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00IABHYV4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_H0EER8DNSCZ8C4ZF8C3M

And Then There Were Four: Raising a Newborn with a Toddler

Alright, Morgen and Trisha might have only realized this once they started recording, but the funny things the girls do are perhaps not as amusing as they are cute unless you see them in the act. Haha whoops. The hope is that this episode stirs up some of your own memories and makes you smile just hearing the joy in Morgen and Trisha’s voices as they recall the funny things that the girls are doing right now. Toddlers truly say and do the darndest things. As moms of 2-year-olds, they often hear other mothers with older children say how they miss the toddler stage. If only we could bottle it up and save it forever. If you’ve some good stories, pics, or videos, please share as we love connecting with our Mom Jeans and Minivans posse! Momjeansandminivans@yahoo.com .       

Toddlers Say and Do the Darndest Things

Running errands which led to Charlie trying her first strawberry milkshake, opened the door to wondering what kind of mommy-daughter dates we can make happen? Morgen and Trisha dish about all the ideas they have for the mommy-daughter dates. The girls are getting older and will begin remembering these moments, so they want to start now. Plus, parents of two can relate to children having to share their parents and carving out time for both kiddos. Eventually, Morgen and Trisha want to create actual dates with the girls like a firehouse excursion, princess day with manicures & pedicures, a day at a local animal rescue farm, a tea party, and indoor gyms. These mamas need the girls to get their energy out, so something active is a must at some point in each date. We throw lots of ideas out there for mommy-daughter dates but are always looking for more ideas, so if you've got a good one up your sleeve, please do share at momjeansandminivans@yahoo.com . Links:  Blippi  https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LfuEad93Ap0

Lil' Mama-sode: Mommy-Daughter Date Ideas with our Toddlers

Get ready for cuteness overload! Morgen and Trisha put Charlie & Remi on the microphone in this episode, and it’s so stinkin’ adorable. Listen in as this one is toddler-led, and the two-year-olds are taking over with talking, singing, pure goofiness, and answering questions in the way only toddlers can. Their sweet little voices will melt your heart and also have you asking for a toddler translator at times. Do you have a video of your kiddo that you can’t show to enough people? Please do send it our way at momjeansandminivans@yahoo.com .

The Toddlers are on the Mic: Charlie and Remi Give a Toddler's Perspective

Morgen and Trisha are 1st time new moms. Come along each week as they document their mom journey, touching on everything from their "geriatric" pregnancies, food ideas for the little ones, the time baby poop got all over the place, breastfeeding successes and stresses, and so much more. They hope you will laugh right along with them because isn't that really the best way to go through this crazy beautiful ride of mom-hood?

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