Join me in the journey of how my own sexuality has evolved through the years. Sexuality is fluid, and by accepting that who we love may not be based on gender, but rather on personalities will change your outlook on love!

Psychedelic Lover's Musings

Dicks, Tits, and Vibrators: The Fluidity of Sexuality

Surviving the 2019 Polar Vortex involved a lot of movie watching. I decided that I am not okay with teen rom-coms, but I can't stop watching them, so instead I have analyzed what's wrong with them. Adulthood apparently involves picking apart things from my childhood.

Teenage Dreams Make Me Squeam

Let's talk about lady friendships, and how they're literally the best thing for being a functional adult. Here's a short love letter to the babes in my life, and also ways for you to be a better homie this year.

Ladies! and Kayden

It's 2019 and I got my first tattoo of the year, but what made it special? I got it done at Villain Arts Tattoo Convention in Minneapolis! I decided to compile an easy list of tips if you want to do the same.

Saba's Survival Guide to Getting Tattooed at a Tattoo Convention

Let's talk about non-monogamy! How do I do it successfully? What does it entail, give it a listen and shoot me your questions on Twitter @sabathegoldfish

Being Non-Monogamous in the Age of Monogamy

I'm backkkkk. Thank you to everyone for their patience, I'm stoked to be back at it. Let's talk about some fake New Years Resolutions and wanting to kill ourselves.

New Year, Kill Me

I have struggled with an eating disorder for most of my life.  It's not a short lived fight, it's a lifelong battle.  The road to recovery has been long, but I hope this will help others who are struggling.

Cigarettes, Coffee, and Eating Disorders

With the holiday season and uncomfortable family gatherings, sometimes you need to sneak away and do the dirty with you signifigant other.  Let me help you.  

Having Sex When You Live With Your Parents

I have a lot of feelings about Tinder, and I'm going to explain to you why Tinder is the glorified sex menu you need in your life this winter.

Tinder: The Sex Menu

I have been going without wearing a bra for almost three years.  I hope that this podcast will inspire you to think about joining the Free the Nipple movement.

Free the Nipple: Slowly Then All At Once

In honor of my favorite time of year, I have narrated the time I lived in a haunted dorm in college.  This is a true story, but being skeptical is to be expected.  Happy Halloween!

Remember that One Time, When I was Haunted?

Not to be taken as a literal guide to survive hotel fires, but rather, a humorous story of that one itme I thought I was going to experience the film Towering Inferno in real life.

Saba's Survival Guide to Hotel Fires

I wrote this piece after the mass shooting in Orlando at the Pulse nightclub. I thought this was going to be out of date, but sadly with the senseless murder in Las Vegas, it has come back to relevance. 

Media Bias, Victim Blaming, and an All Around Shitty Week

Body hair is body hair, but if it's on a woman it's unsightly.  I'm here to prove them wrong.  I stopped shaving my armpits, and I'll probably convince you to do the same. 

This Could Get Hairy

There is a battle between sex and porn.  Should we be having more sex or watching more porn? What are the benefits, let me tell you all about it!  

Can't Fuck, Too Busy Watching Porn

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