A native of Chicago, Modi G is a ‘cancer’ who moves off feelings, emotions, and intellect. She loves hard and the result of that type of love put her into a deep depression. Depression can be a crippling disease, but Modi was and still is resilient and refuses to let it get the best of her. Modi is an Author, blogger, and writer for men and women of all ages. She blogs about controversial topics based on love, life, and relationships. A graduate of Fisk University, Modi fell in love with literature as she earned her degree in English. Modi’s passion for writing keeps her depression and anxiety at bay. Modi G talks to students and audiences about her book with a focus on self-esteem, healthy relationships, and eliminating the stigma of seeking help for mental health challenges. As an HBCU graduate, Modi has a special interest in addressing these issues for black women.  On our season finale we discuss: Recognizing unhealthy relationships and learning to choose yourself The cathartic benefits of writing Her journey from desiring the approval of others to embracing self-acceptance & self-love How she got the courage to leave her position as a CEO to pursue her passion Game-changing lessons she’s learned through running her brand Therapy Directories - https://providers.therapyforblackgirls.com/ and https://www.psychologytoday.com/us Resources for Domestic Violence - https://www.thehotline.org/ Mind Over Modi In Modi G’s own words:  “My blogs are a constant battle with my mind and my heart IN EVERY TOPIC. My heart is the core of me and my mind being the facts and knowledge that I’ve learned and feel in my gut. They battle it out and may the best woman win.”  Check out Modi G’s latest post, “Forbidden Quickie” and follow the journey Modi’s pen creates for her readers.  Purchase Your Paperback or Kindle copy of Some Women Prefer Hell via Amazon.  Follow Modi on Instagram:  @JustModi__  To Learn More about Modi G, please visit her website itsjustmodi.com.

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The Cathartic Impact of Writing Helped Modi G. Overcome Depression and Publish her Book Some Women Prefer Hell -Ep. 33

⁣⠀ Water the grass you have✨⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ Tune into episode 32 to hear the full talk I had with my sorority sister, Brittany Bethea of the Alabaster Box Podcast. ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ We dived deep about:⠀⠀ *Our faith in God⠀⠀ *The comparison trap ⠀⠀ *How we walk into our purpose ⠀⠀ *Lessons she learned after being laid off⠀⠀ *Giving yourself grace to mourn loss⠀ *The value of prayer, gratitude, and therapy⠀ *Why you should consider getting tested for COVID19 so you can spend time with loved ones to rejuvenate  ⠀⠀  

Walking into Your Purpose and Strengthening Your Faith During a Pandemic - Ep. 32

“Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” – Maya Angelou Today’s episode is about how I’ve been secretly married for over three months?.. You’ll find out why we got married a year earlier than planned, why we’ve kept it on the quiet, and why we don’t want to keep it a secret anymore. It was unplanned and a year ahead of the formal wedding we had been planning for over a year. The pandemic definitely changed our lives & shifted all of our 2020?? & 2021 plans??. It’s ultimately for the better because I got a special head start on forever with my best friend. Yes, I still get sad and overwhelmed at the thought of skipping over special premarital events like a bridal shower?, bachelorette party?, and Traditional Ghanaian Engagement/Wedding ?. We’re still praying that we’ll be able to celebrate with our loved ones & have the wedding of our dreams when it’s safe to do so! I want us to flourish in love!   //RESOURCES FOR YOU: Need clarity on a challenge in your relationship? Book a clarity call with me: https://flourishwithdelores.com/flour... Join our free private Facebook community for millennial couples launching mid-October: https://www.facebook.com/groups/14790...   Feeling in limbo about your career, love life, or both? Book a clarity call: https://flourishwithdelores.com/flour... I Said This You Heard That Workbook: https://amzn.to/2FkJZ66 Before You Say I Do Workbook: https://amzn.to/3ietDL3 The Big Activity Workbook for Couples: https://amzn.to/35gNJ3A Self Love: Be Unapologetically You: A Self Love Guide for Women of Color: https://amzn.to/3bPiG04 //M U S I C: Yemi Alade - Na Gode Living My Best Life - Lil DuVal Enjoyment - Kidi I do not own the rights of these songs and only play about 8 seconds of it. //C O N N E C T ♡WHEN I AM NOT HERE, I AM HERE ☆　----- Connect with me -----　☆ Website | www.flourishwithdelores.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/flourishwit... Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/flourishwith...

Our Secret Quarantine Wedding During the Covid-19 Pandemic|Lessons Learned

Dr.Natalia Fuller is a Psychiatrist, mental health advocate, and sex therapist.  Dr. Fuller earned her medical degree from Washington University of Health and Science. Certified as a Sex Therapist by the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) through Modern Sex therapy Institute. As a doctor and sex therapist, she has expertise and experience working with a wide range of sexual and relationship issues. Dr. Fuller specializes in working with individuals with mental illness, sex education, discordant desire and infidelity in couples, sexual dysfunction and anxiety, and sexual compulsivity. There is literally no question or concern that is too troubling or difficult for her to help you address. Dr. Fuller obtained her undergraduate degree in Psychology with a minor in neuroscience and theatre from Wesleyan College. Masters from Walden University specializing in children/adolescent counseling and sex education.  On this episode we discuss: How she stumbled into her career as a sex therapist and psychiatrist  The challenge of being a black sex therapist and how she is breaking barriers with her company, Mind Body Sex, LLC The precautions she takes when working with sex offenders and serial killers How overcoming trauma and self-care can awaken your inner sexual Goddess The power you have with your healthcare and medication you are subscribed Connect with Dr. Fuller -  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mind.body.sex/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.canary/ Email: MindBodySexLLC@gmail.com

Not Your Average Medical Doctor: How Founder of Mind Body Sex, LLC is Breaking Barriers in Psychiatry and Sex Therapy -Ep. 31

Evingerlean D. B. Hudson, Ph.D., affectionately known as Dr. Eve, is a native of Charlotte, North Carolina, and first-generation college graduate who earned a Ph.D. at the age of 28. She has a background in higher education with experiences in both academic and student affairs. After years of service in postsecondary education, Dr. Eve decided to switch gears and started her social entrepreneurial journey. She is Founder and Chief Strategist of an entity created to help people thrive through personal transformation and entrepreneurial development. Further, she leads The First-Gen Lounge, an international podcast uplifting first-generation college graduates that has tens of thousands of downloads and has reached more than 50 countries.  Dr. Eve holds degrees from Shaw University (the oldest HBCU in the South) and The University of Southern Mississippi. She is a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated, and Vice President of Young Alumni Relations for Shaw University's National Alumni Association. In her spare time, Dr. Eve enjoys mentoring, reading, traveling, food tasting, cuddling with her chocolate lab (Maxwell Alexander), and adventures with her life partner, Dr. James M. Hudson. On this episode we discuss: Why she left her job and the idea of becoming a college President to pursuing her own social entrepreneurial entity, Evingerlean Worldwide How she prepared her coins before pursuing full-time entrepreneurship How she gains national & local speaking engagements How she navigates pricing for her services How she scaled her company worldwide & built her team Navigating the comparison trap How she pivoted her business as a result of the COVID19 pandemic Effective mentorship Connect with Dr. Eve: Website: Eve Hudson, Ph.D. | Uplifting YOU in Life and Biz. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evehudsonphd/

How Dr. Eve Transitioned her Dreams to Becoming a College President to Creating her Own Social Entrepreneurial Entity, Evingerlean Worldwide -Ep. 30

Krystle M. Davis is the Visionary and Founder of I Still Love You (ISLY). She is dedicated to introducing healthy coping skills to individuals struggling with life transitions as well as building and redefining healthy mentorship and community building.     Using a combination of education and knowledge coupled with knowledge of public interest, company’s views, and specific issues, she provided services to organizations and businesses with specialties in non-profit and community events. Through this position, she gained leadership roles such as Director of Community Relations at Fashion For A Cure and co-founder of The Ujima Awards.  Krystle has also contributed to panels focusing on mental health and therapeutic interventions in addition to developed and presented workshops on topics such as self-esteem building, communication skills among teens, and healthy coping skills.  Krystle is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Registered Yoga Teacher with an ongoing devoted passion for working with youth and young adults in urban communities and helping individuals and families navigate the demands of life. She also services her community as a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. Her goals and aspirations are not limited as she uses her current experiences to continue to grow, learn, serve, and be a service to others.  On this episode we discuss: The healing powers of therapy + yoga Being a therapist in the height of Covid19 + #BlackLivesMatter The necessity of being Still so we can be more present Navigating through self-doubt Black Women Superhero Complex Navigating support circles to hold you accountable  How we can support each other when we are not at our best How her passion for yoga developed  Connect with Krystle using the links below: Website: http://isly.org/meet-the-founder/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/isly_org/ Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/ISLYorg/

How Founder of I Still Love You Creates Healing Power through Therapy and Yoga -Ep. 29

Yessenia Mercedes has a Bachelor of Social Worker from Seton Hall University and a Masters of Social Work from Fordham University. She has 10 years of experience in the field of children and family. Her experience includes working as a Case Manager with Child Protection and Permanency and as a School Social Worker for the Board of Education in NJ. On this episode we discuss: The trauma and beauty behind her journey to becoming a mother  The important questions to ask your OBGYN and what her OBGYN missed Fertility stigmas in the Latin community  Intrauterine Insemination (IUI) vs In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) Ways to support a friend who is experiencing infertility Game-changing tips for new mothers My Wellness Solution - Dominican Owned Holistic Care The value in forgiving strained family relationships Her perspective of the expeditions we have for the people in our lives Her new journey as “funemployed” Do not ask a couple when they are giving you some babies, period Keep up with Yessenia on IG @rooted.courage The Dominican owned holistic health service https://mywellnesssolutions.com/ and @mwshealth on Instagram

A Voice for the Voiceless: How Yessenia Mercedes’ Experience with Infertility Led to Her Rooted Courage -Ep 28

Jumping on to let my subscribers know that I am changing my name! I want ya'll to be the first to know. Tune in to this episode to hear why! New everythang! New Website: FlourishWithDelores.com New Email: Hello@FlourishWithDelores.com New IG and Social Media Handle: @FlourishwithDelores Thanks for taking this journey with me! Peace,  Delores

The Rebirth - I Changed My Name!

Autumn Kyles is the founder of Proxie Detroit and the co-founder &  CEO of Detroit Dough, Detroit’s first safe-to-eat cookie dough manufacturer, revolutionizing the concessions industry. On this episode we discuss: How she started her businesses and sold $230,000 in cookie dough, equaling approximately 70,000 cups Resources for small business through @ProxieDetroit  How she organizes her ideas to pivot and troubleshoot, especially during the COVID19 pandemic How she turns her flaws into strengths Selfcare tips from the CEO & creative Some of the foundations available to small business owners Stay connected with Autumn using the following: Instagram: @FallNightLights @EatDetroitDough @ProxieDetroit Website: https://www.proxiedetroit.com/ and https://eatdetroitdough.com/

How Autumn Kyles Embraces the Power of the Pivot: Lessons from the CEO of Detroit Dough and Proxie Detroit - Ep. 27

Dr. Elissia is an Analytical Chemist and the creator of the ResearchHer podcast. On this episode we discuss: Her path to becoming an Analytical Chemist with a PhD at the age of 26 The inspiration behind the ResearchHer Podcast How she navigates through adjusting to changes in her journey Her journey to figuring out who she is beyond her accolades and learning to live life for her How she’s learning to share her “baggage” Nicaila Matthews Okome - Podcast Moguls Program Connect with Elissia on instagram @TheResearchHer  Tune into the ResearchHer! ResearchHer Podcast: http://theresearchher.com/ Mommy and Me Episode: http://theresearchher.com/mommyandme/

How Dr. Elissia Franklin Created a Platform for the Everyday ResearchHer -Ep. 26

Mi'esha Reynolds is a spiritual blogger, coach, school counselor, and the creator of Be Spiritually Bold.  On this episode we discuss: The power in praying bold prayers How she found the courage to find and connect with her biological father  The story behind her creation of Be Spiritually Bold The value of pre-marital counseling Why you should own your story and truth Her bold move to Egypt  Connect with Mi’esha using the following: Website: www.bespirituallybold.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bespirituallyBOLD/ Instagram: @BeSpirituallyBOLD  

What You Need to Know About Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone and Being Spiritually Bold -Ep. 25

In these times of dismay, I feel incredibly blessed to have God’s grace and an incredible circle of loved ones in my life. Having my fam & friends share stories of when they’ve seen me at my best and the lessons they’ve learned (that we can all glean from) is an AMAZING gift. I cannot describe the feeling that I get as I listen to this special episode, truly incredible. This episode has so many gems! My prayer is to be a light in this world and do God’s will for my life. Happy 1 year anniversary to the We Are Still Becoming podcast & 29th birthday to me!   Follow @WeAreStillBecoming on Instagram and Facebook for updates

Birthday Episode - When I’ve Been at My Best & Life Lessons from Loved Ones -Ep. 24

Kenneth Osei-Gyan is a Lead Nurse Practitioner for the Department of Health in the City of Newark working as an Internist. He is dedicated and committed to his community, making sure all who come into contact with him are left feeling seen, heard, supported, and most of all, knowing that they matter.  His previous professional experience includes working in medical-surgical and post-anesthesia care units, providing adult medicine and care for patients with traumatic orthopedic injuries and debilitating diseases, and as a charge nurse overseeing three recovery room departments and 64 Registered Nurses. While Kenneth has significant experience in the medical setting, he has worked in academia serving as the Student Development Specialist for the Educational Opportunity Fund Program at Rutgers University in Newark, New Jersey.  Kenneth completed his Bachelor of Science degree in Biology at Montclair State University, a  second Bachelors of Science in Nursing at The University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey, and his Masters of Science in Nursing from Rutgers University. A proud member of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. and Sigma Theta Tau International Honor Society, Kenneth has been a recipient of many awards including Mount Sinai Hospital’s Magnet Nursing Award.  On this episode we discuss: How his passion for health and helping the community led to his profession His research on men and their mental health The value of having a relationship with God Our thoughts on men practicing celibacy  The value of being authentically kind How his upbringing and faith inspires his work ethic The value of being still and enjoying every little accomplishment 

How This Nurse Practitioner Pushes Through Adversity with Grace -Ep. 23

Aurellia Whitmore also known as Dr. Rell, is a pharmacologist/toxicologist by trade, and a STEM enthusiast, and white coat consultant by design. Dr. Rell spends a large amount of time supporting the scientific community including Big Pharma, biotech companies, and academic institutions across the nation. Dr. Rell leverages her academic, industry, and networking experience to provide a multitude of career consulting services for those seeking alternative career paths in STEM. She empowers MD’s, PharmD’s, PhDs, and undergraduate STEM majors to secure positions and opportunities that lead to fulfilling careers. Dr. Rell’s commitment to scientific endeavors commensurate with her commitment to the community. She mentors youth interested in pursuing STEM-focused education and careers; frequents as a guest speaker at conferences, HBCU’s, and other academic institutions; and dedicates time to respond to queries from hungry heart’s through Instagram. With her staunch devotion to supporting those pursuing STEM careers in industry and beyond, let Dr. Rell help put you on the path to the profession of your dreams! On this episode we discuss: How she is learning to be gentle with herself The road that led her to her PhD How she navigates imposter syndrome The value of mentorship  Why you should step out of your comfort zone How to fund your graduate degree  The idea behind her consulting agency How we deal with rejection The questions you should ask before accepting a job offer  The value of self-care and being still Connect with Dr. Rell using the following mediums: Website: https://www.drrell.com/ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/dr.rellwhitmore/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drrell/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Dr.RellWhitmore/ Email: info@whitecoatwhitecollar.com

The Light After the Rejection Tunnel: Lessons from Pharmacologist Dr. Rell on Why You Should Step Out of Your Comfort Zone Ep. 22

Welcome back! I feel blessed to have you on this journey with me. In this episode, I am pulling back layers and getting more transparent with you. You’ll hear about how I dealt with a recent rejection and the importance of processing my feelings rather than avoiding them. ————————————————————————————————- Quote sent to me by my childhood friend, Rochelle: “Be full of sorrow, that you may become full of joy; weep, that you may break into laughter.” -Rumi Find out your top 5 strengths https://www.strengthsquest.com/home.aspx Check out IMANEE https://www.imanee.org/ Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @WeAreStillBecoming Subscribe to our Three Bullet Thursday newsletter here.

Here's What I Learned About the Value of Processing My Feelings ep. 21

Adulting ain't easy! We Are Still Becoming takes pride in our raw conversations with young professionals. We discuss our journey, challenges (like imposter syndrome, anxiety, managing money, relationships, family planning, finding time for self-care and development), and the ways that we try to navigate through our growing pains. I'm your host, Dr. Delores Sarfo-Darko and I am passionate about dispelling the myth that we are supposed to have it all figured out! As you listen to each episode and hear the authentic stories of "successful" young professionals, you'll learn that you are not alone in the adulting struggle. This show airs biweekly on Wednesdays. Follow @WeAreStillBecoming on Instagram and Facebook. Visit DeloresSarfoDarko.com for show notes. Be sure to subscribe so you do not miss a beat when season two begins on March 18, 2019!

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