This week, Ebuni and Kay relax and mostly avoid the week’s clickbait to talk about life in general. We talk about Shonda leading us astray and why Viola must be protected; dreams that don’t make any sense, the Spice Girls tour and whether we managed to get tickets, more TV talk and Rihanna “possibly” having new music. Ebuni took a 24 hour dive into dating apps and met her very own #fraudbae and a possible #whitebae in person, whilst Kay is putting and strictly enforcing her boundaries. Check out the blog post Kay wrote about it here: https://www.rhymeandlife.com/blog/2018/11/10/he7luighvpvhk30huyix08fmujj5dy. Ebuni’s Books Of The Week: Mother Country: Real Stories of the Windrush Children by Charlie Brinkhurst-Cuff and The Courage To Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga. To submit dilemmas etc. for Wyllow’s advice segment, please send them to: WyzWyllow@gmail.com. Please also state if you wish to remain anonymous in your email. If you have a general question, a business enquiry or want to submit topics then please email us: whoyoucallingapodcast@gmail.com. Enjoy, subscribe, leave a comment, rate us & tell a friend! Don’t forget to follow us on social media: Instagram: @whoyoucallingapodcast Twitter: @whoucallingapod Facebook: Who You Calling A Podcast Kay’s Instagram & Twitter: @rhymeandlife Wyllow’s Instagram & Twitter: @WyzWyllow Ebuni’s Instagram: @ebuniajiduahhair

Who You Calling a Podcast

I'm Looking For A Sweet One

This week we were all tried but due to growth, we had to side-eye all the mess and keep it movin’! We discussed influencers, social media and those with minimal common sense when it comes to what certain influencers promote on Instagram. The latest mess between Drake and Pusha T, Drake aligning himself with Conor McGregor and THAT fight had us in hysterics. Somehow we wandered into the difference between indomie vs noodles and Remy Ma’s problematic comments on State of the Culture (Revolt). Unfortunately, we had to discuss some white women troubling Terroll Lewis, Jeremiah Harvey and Kay over the past week. To lighten the mood, we talked about our favourite show, How To Get Away With Murder, and recommended some dope shows you should check out! Ebuni’s Book Of The Week: What I Know For Sure by Oprah Winfrey. To submit dilemmas etc. for Wyllow’s advice segment, please send to: WyzWyllow@gmail.com. Please also state if you wish to remain anonymous in your email. If you have a general question, a business enquiry or want to submit topics then please email us: whoyoucallingapodcast@gmail.com. Enjoy, subscribe, leave a comment, rate us & tell a friend! Don’t forget to follow us on social media: Instagram: @whoyoucallingapodcast Twitter: @whoucallingapod Facebook: Who You Calling A Podcast Kay’s Instagram & Twitter: @rhymeandlife Wyllow’s Instagram & Twitter: @WyzWyllow Ebuni’s Instagram: @ebuniajiduahhair

"lol"

This week, join us (Ebuni & Kay - Wyllow is in absentia) as we celebrate the UK Black History Month and vent about who tried us this week - Southwark Council and Topshop! The council talk continues as we discuss the London councils trying to change Black History Month to diversity month *sigh* and an audience member on Question Time claiming that the UK is the least racist country in Europe. We also cover the Insecure finale, share our general thoughts on this season and much more! To get tickets to “How To Work With Black Hair & Skincare”, the event where Ebuni is part of the panel click on the link below: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/how-to-work-with-black-hair-skincare-tickets-50460334218?aff=ebdssbdestsearch. To submit dilemmas etc. for Wyllow’s advice segment, please send to: WyzWyllow@gmail.com. Please also state if you wish to remain anonymous in your email. If you have a general question, a business enquiry or want to submit topics then please email us: whoyoucallingapodcast@gmail.com. Enjoy, subscribe, leave a comment, rate us & tell a friend! Don’t forget to follow us on social media: Instagram: @whoyoucallingapodcast Twitter: @whoucallingapod Facebook: Who You Calling A Podcast Kay’s Instagram & Twitter: @rhymeandlife Wyllow’s Instagram & Twitter: @WyzWyllow Ebuni’s Instagram: @ebuniajiduahhair

Black History Month

Join us this week as we discuss all things Insecure. Issa Rae’s HBO hit, has us all in our feelings while we recap the first half of season 3, and try and piece our edges back together after a familiar face makes a return. Wyllow is ignoring Molly’s entire existence, Ebuni dips her whole face in the eye candy dish that is Nathan, and Kay is worried about Tiffany’s state of mind in the later stages of her pregnancy. We make predictions on what will happen to Issa and Co. towards the end of this season, and cross our fingers for at least a few explosions and fireworks to close off what we know will be a memorable finale! To submit dilemmas etc. for Wyllow’s advice segment, please send to: WyzWyllow@gmail.com. Please also state if you wish to remain anonymous in your email. If you have a general question, a business enquiry or want to submit topics then please email us: whoyoucallingapodcast@gmail.com. Enjoy, subscribe, leave a comment, rate us & tell a friend! Don’t forget to follow us on social media: Instagram: @whoyoucallingapodcast Twitter: @whoucallingapod Facebook: Who You Calling A Podcast Kay’s Instagram & Twitter: @rhymeandlife Wyllow’s Instagram & Twitter: @WyzWyllow Ebuni’s Instagram: @ebuniajiduahhair

Insecure Like

We kick of this episode with an impromptu stroll down Horoscope Avenue, and see what truth there is in our individual starsign strengths and weaknesses. We reminisce on the street fashions of days gone by, which leads us to the 30th Anniversary Campaign Advert for Nike, and all the people who are seriously butt-hurt by the inclusion of Colin Kaepernick. We celebrate Serena, cheer for Cardi B and boo Nicki Minaj (as usual), while also sending out condolences to Mac Millers family and friends (after his recently fatal drug overdose), and much more. To submit dilemmas etc. for Wyllow’s advice segment, please send to: WyzWyllow@gmail.com. Please also state if you wish to remain anonymous in your email. If you have a general question, a business enquiry or want to submit topics then please email us: whoyoucallingapodcast@gmail.com. Enjoy, subscribe, leave a comment, rate us & tell a friend! Don’t forget to follow us on social media: Instagram: @whoyoucallingapodcast Twitter: @whoucallingapod Facebook: Who You Calling A Podcast Kay’s Instagram & Twitter: @rhymeandlife Wyllow’s Instagram & Twitter: @WyzWyllow Ebuni’s Instagram: @ebuniajiduahhair

Warning Signs

Ebuni and Wyllow traipse through the Internet (at a leisurely speed) this week while we discuss; the crazy skin-bleaching video; The Bridezilla that other lesser Bridezillas can only aspire to be; and, the video Michaela Pearson and Candice Little took (and uploaded) of themselves giving drugs to children as young as 18 months, while in their care. Aretha Franklin’s Homegoing was televised this week...and so was the Pastor’s grip on Ariana Grande’s breast. We talk about ‘the creepy uncle’ (you know the one that extends the hug for a little bit too long?), and why we need to speak up about it happening. Also, Wyllow would like to watch her funeral happen, as Ebuni has planned a guest list with restricted entry for hers. Ebuni’s Book Of The Week: Why I am no longer talking to white people about race by Reni Eddo Lodge To submit dilemmas etc. for Wyllow’s advice segment, please send to: WyzWyllow@gmail.com. Please also state if you wish to remain anonymous in your email. If you have a general question, a business enquiry or want to submit topics then please email us: whoyoucallingapodcast@gmail.com. Enjoy, subscribe, leave a comment, rate us & tell a friend! Don’t forget to follow us on social media: Instagram: @whoyoucallingapodcast Twitter: @whoucallingapod Facebook: Who You Calling A Podcast Kay’s Instagram & Twitter: @rhymeandlife Wyllow’s Instagram & Twitter: @WyzWyllow Ebuni’s Instagram: @ebuniajiduahhair

Who You Calling A Porno?

The Trio is reunited...and it feels so good!! Kay gets some DPD-related PTSD off her chest ahead of her long-haul flight, Wyllow gets credit rather than anger-management to make peace with her PCN past life, & Ebuni has short-term amnesia about who tried her this week. We ignore the Pink Print Elephant in the room, and remember Aretha Franklin & Aaliyah’s legacies, and celebrate The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill on its 20th anniversary. Also in this episode: Serena Williams is still a Super Woman; Insecure has us in our feelings; Big Narstie has us dazed and confused; Manhunting With My Mum gives us a mini culture shock; we send our condolences to the Beyoncé (and Jay-Z) stage invader; & social media makes us think twice after a young lady loses her dream internship at NASA because of a tweet. Ebuni’s Book Of The Week: Nappily Ever After by Trisha R. Thomas. To submit dilemmas etc. for Wyllow’s advice segment, please send to: WyzWyllow@gmail.com. Please also state if you wish to remain anonymous in your email. If you have a general question, a business enquiry or want to submit topics then please email us: whoyoucallingapodcast@gmail.com. Enjoy, subscribe, leave a comment, rate us & tell a friend! Don’t forget to follow us on social media: Instagram: @whoyoucallingapodcast Twitter: @whoucallingapod Facebook: Who You Calling A Podcast Kay’s Instagram & Twitter: @rhymeandlife Wyllow’s Instagram & Twitter: @WyzWyllow Ebuni’s Instagram: @ebuniajiduahhair

"Excuse Me? This Frog Prince Is Defective..."

This week, Ebuni is beefin’ with Argos (again) and Kay is losing it over the inconsistent London weather (again). Ciara’s new “Freak Me” video gets a side-eye from Ebuni and we deep dive into a particular clip from The ZeZe Millz Show. ZeZe claims that black UK artists don’t support up-and-coming, black female-fronted shows but will clear their schedules for the “Chicken Shop Date” YouTube show (hosted by the very white Amelia Dimoldenberg). Of course this sparked a debate and offended our fave, Giggs, and some attention seekers who had a lot to say! We also talked about supporting other black people; persevering as creatives when the support, funds, enthusiasm and time you have is little to non-existent and continuing to ignore Nicki Minaj’s new album. Ebuni’s Book Of The Week: The Secret Lives of Baba Segi’s Wives by Lola Shoneyin. To submit dilemmas etc. for Wyllow’s advice segment, please send to: WyzWyllow@gmail.com. Please also state if you wish to remain anonymous in your email. If you have a general question, a business enquiry or want to submit topics then please email us: whoyoucallingapodcast@gmail.com. Enjoy, subscribe, leave a comment, rate us & tell a friend! Don’t forget to follow us on social media: Instagram: @whoyoucallingapodcast Twitter: @whoucallingapod Facebook: Who You Calling A Podcast Kay’s Instagram & Twitter: @rhymeandlife Wyllow’s Instagram & Twitter: @WyzWyllow Ebuni’s Instagram: @ebuniajiduahhair

Bitter Business Women

We are back after a Kit-Kat! Join us as we cannonball into the last few weeks of joys and depravity! Ebuni tries out her Sexy Voice, Wyllow does some mad manoeuvres, and Kay has had a long forgetful week. We are all outraged at the notion the Jenny from the Block is set to receive the MTV Michael Jackson Video Vanguard Award, considering the alumni she will be sharing the accolade with. We celebrate Lebron James’s new school initiative, we raise up Missy Elliot, and also discuss the Love Island Final & much more. The ‘My Great-Grandfather, The Nigerian Slave-Trader’ extract from Ebuni’s book of the week, Buried Beneath The Baobab Tree by Adaobi Tricia Nwaubani, is available here: https://www.newyorker.com/culture/personal-history/my-great-grandfather-the-nigerian-slave-trader. To submit dilemmas etc. for Wyllow’s advice segment, please send to: WyzWyllow@gmail.com. Please also state if you wish to remain anonymous in your email. If you have a general question, a business enquiry or want to submit topics then please email us: whoyoucallingapodcast@gmail.com. Enjoy, subscribe, leave a comment, rate us & tell a friend! Don’t forget to follow us on social media: Instagram: @whoyoucallingapodcast Twitter: @whoucallingapod Facebook: Who You Calling A Podcast Kay’s Instagram & Twitter: @rhymeandlife Wyllow’s Instagram & Twitter: @WyzWyllow Ebuni’s Instagram: @ebuniajiduahhair

J To The L-O, Hell No

Teyana and Iman aren’t the only ones having a threesome as our tenacious trio is back in full effect this week! Ebuni returns from Absentia with a list of people who tried her while she was away, Kay would like a small break from the heatwave, and Wyllow considers giving up life on the road. We have a catch up and then we start rooting for everybody black at the Emmys, and go through our favourite work of the nominees. We also discuss Niecy Nash’s bawdy goals, Henry Cavill’s unsavoury comments regarding #MeToo, and if any of us would take part in a threesome. To submit dilemmas etc. for Wyllow’s advice segment, please send to: WyzWyllow@gmail.com. Please also state if you wish to remain anonymous in your email. If you have a general question, a business enquiry or want to submit topics then please email us: whoyoucallingapodcast@gmail.com. Enjoy, subscribe, leave a comment, rate us & tell a friend! Don’t forget to follow us on social media: Instagram: @whoyoucallingapodcast Twitter: @whoucallingapod Facebook: Who You Calling A Podcast Kay’s Instagram & Twitter: @rhymeandlife Wyllow’s Instagram & Twitter: @WyzWyllow Ebuni’s Instagram: @ebuniajiduahhair

Ménage à whaaaaaa?

All babies are beautiful, unless they’re ugly…and we’re sure your baby has a great personality… Drake is still not potty trained but wants us to applaud his underwhelming double album efforts, Nicki Minaj is cranky and needs a time out immediately, and Stormzy is a big boy now - making moves to expand his Merky empire. We also cover Wyllow’s life of fines, and Kay’s new found growth when dealing with microaggressions, as well as discussing the male version of the 90-day dating rule, and why it’s okay to acknowledge when people produce facially challenged offspring. To submit dilemmas etc. for Wyllow’s advice segment, please send to: WyzWyllow@gmail.com. Please also state if you wish to remain anonymous in your email. If you have a general question, a business enquiry or want to submit topics then please email us: whoyoucallingapodcast@gmail.com. Enjoy, subscribe, leave a comment, rate us & tell a friend! Don’t forget to follow us on social media: Instagram: @whoyoucallingapodcast Twitter: @whoucallingapod Facebook: Who You Calling A Podcast Kay’s Instagram & Twitter: @rhymeandlife Wyllow’s Instagram & Twitter: @WyzWyllow Ebuni’s Instagram: @ebuniajiduahhair

How Childish Is Young Money?

Mother Nature defeats Wyllow in both the plant and creature categories, as Kay gets excited about the Everything is Love album and the prospect of future collaborations from The Carters. We discuss the murder of Lesandro ‘Junior’ Guzman-Feliz & the footage which has been spread across social media, the wider implications of J Hus being arrested for carrying a knife, and bitter mothers that use children as bargaining tools to control their relationships with the fathers. To submit dilemmas etc. for Wyllow’s advice segment, please send to: WyzWyllow@gmail.com. Please also state if you wish to remain anonymous in your email. If you have a general question, a business enquiry or want to submit topics then please email us: whoyoucallingapodcast@gmail.com. Enjoy, subscribe, leave a comment, rate us & tell a friend! Don’t forget to follow us on social media: Instagram: @whoyoucallingapodcast Twitter: @whoucallingapod Facebook: Who You Calling A Podcast Kay’s Instagram & Twitter: @rhymeandlife Wyllow’s Instagram & Twitter: @WyzWyllow Ebuni’s Instagram: @ebuniajiduahhair

Have You Ever Seen A Moth Going Apeshit?!

Join us again as (while Beyoncé and Husband perform in London) we talk about Nicki Minaj shouting you can be a ‘Naughty Girl’, but whispering ‘don’t ‘Get Me Bodied’’, in her ELLE magazine profile, accompanied by a not-so-controversial photo with celeb hairstylist Kim Kimble. Kay and Wyllow discuss the suggestion by the guys from 3 Shots of Tequila, that black women are at fault when it comes to dating; is the dating pool smaller because we don’t let it grow, or because not many people want to RSVP to our pool party? To submit dilemmas etc. for Wyllow’s advice segment, please send to: WyzWyllow@gmail.com. Please also state if you wish to remain anonymous in your email. If you have a general question, a business enquiry or want to submit topics then please email us: whoyoucallingapodcast@gmail.com. Enjoy, subscribe, leave a comment, rate us & tell a friend! Don’t forget to follow us on social media: Instagram: @whoyoucallingapodcast Twitter: @whoucallingapod Facebook: Who You Calling A Podcast Kay’s Instagram & Twitter: @rhymeandlife Wyllow’s Instagram & Twitter: @WyzWyllow Ebuni’s Instagram: @ebuniajiduahhair

...then I fill the tub up halfway, then ride it with my ironing board

Join us on a nightmare journey as we wade through the ghoulish mess of last week. Wyllow and Kay go into the poorly lit basement alone, as Ebuni is in Absentia, to discuss; the media monster Kim K, and the shocking exchange between Winnie Harlow and Adwoa Aboah; why we should face our ‘fear’ of mental wellness and of recognising how deeply it effects the Black community and the urge to decapitate (figuratively speaking) the institutionalised zombies that racially profile us. We also talk about knife crime in the UK, which is the subject of the latest episode of Grapevine TV, muse on Jorja Smith’s recent interview with Julie Adenuga on Beats 1 and have a frank conversation about parenting & striking the right balance with the younger generation. To submit dilemmas etc. for Wyllow’s advice segment, please send to: WyzWyllow@gmail.com. Please also state if you wish to remain anonymous in your email. If you have a general question, a business enquiry or want to submit topics then please email us: whoyoucallingapodcast@gmail.com. Enjoy, subscribe, leave a comment, rate us & tell a friend! Don’t forget to follow us on social media: Instagram: @whoyoucallingapodcast Twitter: @whoucallingapod Facebook: Who You Calling A Podcast Kay’s Instagram & Twitter: @rhymeandlife Wyllow’s Instagram & Twitter: @WyzWyllow Ebuni’s Instagram: @ebuniajiduahhair

Are You Afraid Of The Dark?

Kay and Wyllow are back this week to give you an update on Drake and Pusha T’s beef with a slice of Nicki Minaj nonsense. We reflect on the rise of Rihanna and the downfall of Keri Hilson. Back to Drake, we ponder why Drake’s fans are attempting to change the essence of hip hop due to Drake’s non-existent musical response to Pusha T’s diss “The Story Of Adidon”. Whilst talking about petty 50 Cent, we reminisce about Ja Rule and the importance of his “Pain Is Love” album. #classic We also talk about Big Narstie vs the UK media, celebrate the announcement of book two in the Children Of Blood & Bone series and the movie deal then take a left turn to some book adaptations that went wrong! Finally, we discuss the recent Grapevine TV “Maya Jama & Colourism” episode (S3E26), featuring a UK panel. Links to the episode, which are split in two, are below: Maya Jama & Colorismo (part 1) https://youtu.be/KOH501CnRc8, Maya Jama & Colourism (part 2) https://youtu.be/oID923mTvTY. To submit dilemmas etc. for Wyllow’s advice segment, please send your issue to: WyzWyllow@gmail.com. Please also state if you wish to remain anonymous in your email. If you have a general question, a business enquiry or want to submit topics then please email us: whoyoucallingapodcast@gmail.com. Enjoy, subscribe, leave a comment, rate us & tell a friend! Don’t forget to follow us on social media: Instagram: @whoyoucallingapodcast Twitter: @whoucallingapod Facebook: Who You Calling A Podcast Kay’s Instagram & Twitter: @rhymeandlife Wyllow’s Instagram & Twitter: @WyzWyllow Ebuni’s Instagram: @ebuniajiduahhair

It's Murder! King Push, Drake & Colourism

Completely sensible and utterly insane...just three black queens chatting shit. New episodes are fortnightly on Mondays and available on Spotify, Soundcloud, iTunes and Stitcher.

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Who You Calling a Podcast

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