The Enneagram Glow is a concept to describe how you and your partner’s combined relationship gifts shine brightly together in the world. On the flip side, it also provides a framework to work through your unique “couple shadow”. The glow we create together looks very different season to season and after years of struggle, coregulating, and exchanging our gifts. On today's show, Christa goes through the 6 Step Enneagram Glow process most couples go through and introduces the Glow freebie also! The Glow Freebie! As always, if you find our tips and chats at the E + M Podcast, leave us a 5 Star Review at Apple Podcast. Be sure to check out our Glow Guides, previous shows, and more great content at www.EnneagramandMarriage.com

Enneagram and Marriage

The 6 Enneagram Glow Stages of a Relationship

Whether you're a heart, head, or body type, your body is important and the ways you move and don't move affect your relationship quite a lot. Because of this, Christa interviews the amazing Hallie Ringhand, Enneagram 2, of New U & Fit Enneagram about helping couples with their health and fitness needs. Hallie is of the 2-6 Glow and not only does she tell us heart tips from over two decades of marriage but she also shares tips for all individuals about what to watch out for in their health and fitness needs. Find Hallie @ www.newutoday.com  Hallie's IG: https://www.instagram.com/fit.enneagram/ Hallie's Fit Enneagram Podcast  Hallie's Patreon For more great virtual Enneagram and spirituality learning, join us for the InterVarsity Press >> All Things Enneagram Conference 

The Enneagram, Fitness, & Marriage with Fit Enneagram's Hallie Ringhand, MFT & Type 2 (2-6 Glow)

Do you feel like you're loved by everyone else but your own spouse doesn't appreciate you? Do you want to get both deep and practical in your growth journey? This episode covers some of the complexity of being married to someone with a different core fear and how to step into growth together. Christa interviews 3-6 Glow couple Pastor Matthew Stephen Brown and Tammy Brown about their mission to extend God's love for each other and the world through their lens of ministry and Matthew's new Enneagram book. https://www.harpercollinschristian.com/9780785240853/a-book-called-you/ https://www.ivpress.com/all-things-enneagram/register For more great Enneagram and Marriage episodes and freebies, as well as to find your Glow Pairing Guide, visit us at www.EnneagramandMarriage.com  

The Enneagram from a Grace Filled Christian Perspective with Matt & Tammy Brown, 3-6 Glow

When you're hitting trauma triggers in your relationships, you need to restore your body's sense of safety and survival to progress. Therapist and author Aundi Kolber, Enneagram 4, not only talks us through our body's responses to triggers with her trauma-informed approach Try Softer, but she also offers tangible healing steps. As we work to bring safety into our lives one grounding step at a time, Aundi reminds us that the result of this newfound freedom and growth will be a unique piece of our gift to the world. Links from Show Notes: https://aundikolber.com/ Aundi's Try Softer Book The Accompanying Guided Journey Workbook For more great virtual Enneagram and spirituality learning, join us for the InterVarsity Press >> All Things Enneagram Conference 

How to Get Out of Survival Mode with Aundi Kolber, Enneagram 4

Christa is joined by Des Schnell, Enneagram 3 of the 3-5 "Master Minds" Glow Pairing as we learn about working with both 3s and 5s in marriage as well as the pairing. We're also talking about not just working on marriage but being in one as ourselves honestly as people and as parents, as we continually lean into growth and grace. Join us for tips for on both maintaining your authenticity, finding your solace during raising children, and most of all, finding a deep heart connection together, no matter what your type! Find Des at her size 5 through 5X IG boutique @josiejamesco and on her page for moms on IG @desschnell   For more great virtual Enneagram and spirituality learning, join us for the InterVarsity Press >> All Things Enneagram Conference 

Being Authentic in the 3-5 Glow Pairing with Des Schnell, Enneagram 3

Are you looking for new ways to move in your relationship? Wondering what motivates certain behaviors and instincts in your partnership outside of your core Enneagram types? You won't want to miss the talk with Katherine Fauvre, discoverer of Tritype, a systematic way of looking at your gift and issues through a multi-faceted lens. Here you'll practical tips to use the information you discover, learn more about the heart connection between couples, as well as hear from listener Tritype questions as well! Links from today's show: https://www.katherinefauvre.com/ https://enneagramtritypetest.com/   All the E & M Freebies >> The E & M Relationship Freebies All Things Enneagram Conference 

All About Tritypes in Relationships with Katherine Fauvre, Creator of Tritype, 874

We all have certain routes we believe will help us in our life and relationships. However, they are actually the well-trodden but dysfunctional paths known as the ego-fixations that trip us up and create distance, disharmony, and conflict in our relationships, ultimately wounding us, our partners, and our families. Join Christa in hearing about not only the fixation of each type but in learning practical and sensitive solutions for helping individuals and couples of each and every type to find hope and healthy redirection. Links from today's show:  All the E & M Freebies >> The E & M Relationship Freebies 

The Thinking Fixations of Each Enneagram Type in Relationship

We all need refreshment and tips on how to get on the same page with a spouse or partner. In this episode, Christa is joined by financial experts, the energized 3-3 Glow pairing, Daniel and Kay of Centsei Financial, to help give you the tips that could change your financial trajectory forever. In addition to sharing their Truth in Love Glow Guide tips, Daniel and Kay take us on their marriage journey and give you tried and true tips for yours! Show notes from today: For Daniel and Kay's website and FREE budgeting course https://centseifinancial.com/ For editing services for your next course or project, contact:   For Julie Relyea's Editing Services, visit www.lovetowrite.co  or email her at lovetowrite.co@gmail.com For more great virtual Enneagram learning! The InterVarsity Press >> All Things Enneagram Conference 

Working Through Financial Issues with Daniel and Kay of Centsei, 3-3 Glow

Are you struggling with staying focused and organized in this crazy moment of culture? Today's show covers mentally and physically energizing ways for couples, families, and individuals to get organized and to stay organized as we begin the new season! Christa is joined by the organizational expert, author, course creator, and podcaster Laurie Palau, as she shares her Enneagram and Clutter course tips, helping us to uncover the patterns, habits, and emotions under clutter as we consider Enneagram types as well. https://simplyborganized.com/ 5 Daily Practices in the Wake of Change Link to Laurie's website: https://simplyborganized.com/ Link to the Enneagram & Clutter Course: https://simplyborganized.com/online-courses/ Don't forget to enter promo code "MARRIAGE" during checkout for E + M listeners to receive 20% For more episodes of Enneagram and Marriage, freebies, and Glow Pairing Guides, visit www.EnneagramandMarriage.com Upcoming Enneagram Virtual Conferences & Other Episode Links: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/join https://www.ivpress.com/all-things-enneagram/register https://www.pauseapp.com/      

The Enneagram & Getting Organized with Laurie Palau, Enneagram 8

Today's show covers the fascinating topic of how you can use the newest Enneagram Truity research to deepen your bond, to help you discover missing pieces together, or even to help you hone in on finding a partner. Truity's latest Enneagram personality tool helps couples to take their relationship to a healthier level together, but understanding how to use it makes all the difference. Christa is joined by Molly Owens, CEO of Truity as they join efforts in analyzing this compelling relationship research. For the new relationship test visit Truity's link below and share your results with us at IG! https://www.truity.com/test/which-personality-type-your-love-match For Truity’s relationship research at large: www.Truity.com For the Enneagram InterVarsity Press (IVP) conference Christa will be speaking at this Oct, visit https://www.ivpress.com/all-things-enneagram/register

The Enneagram and Relationship Research with Truity CEO Molly Owens

Today Christa and Beth McCord explore the Enneagram and relationships together as well as the deeper implications of the Enneagram. How does the Enneagram theory work with someone who's a Christian? Is it a healthy tool spiritually? How can we use it to grow closer to God? Finish out Season 2 with a close chat between Christa and Beth and find your way to grace, balance, and as always more great tools, including Beth's book, Becoming Us. For a deeper dive into each type as you grow in your faith, check out the E + M personal link to the 40 Day Enneagram Daily Reflections Series edited by Suzanne Stabile, highlighting diverse authors and published by InterVarsity Press (See coupon code for the Enneagram series below)! All links from the podcast are below as well! Use special coupon code for the devotional series: "EMPOD30" for 30% off and free US shipping. For Beth McCord's website, books, courses, podcast, and more, visit: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/ Enneagram Daily Reflections Series: enneagramtoday.com/dailyreflections For Beth McCord's info on Enneagram and Faith: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/origins Enneagram & Marriage Instagram for Contest: https://www.instagram.com/enneagramandmarriage/?hl=en For more episodes, Glow Guides, and E + M info, visit us at www.EnneagramandMarriage.com  

The Enneagram and Faith with Beth McCord

When you have a relationship rhythm where one partner has an entirely different way of moving through the world than you do, you have to learn to balance. Today Christa is joined by Sarajane Case to talk about her 7-4 Glow pairing with her husband Oby. Join two Sevens in a conversation about Oby falling in love with Sarajane in their better-than-fiction coffee shop romance love story, and more importantly, how they continue to learn the importance of pacing together to both embrace one another in the shadows and to find one another again in the hopeful light.   For Sarajane's Instagram @sarajanecase and @sarajanecasewrites For Sarajane's website: www.EnneagramandCoffee.com   For Christa's Enneagram & Marriage Glow Guides, Certification Course, and previous podcast episodes visit www.EnneagramandMarriage.com  

Slowing Down with Sarajane Case, 7-4 Glow: Finding Healthy Rhythms in Marriage

When marriage research combines with the determination and strength of the awesome 1-9 Glow pairing, watch out for an honest-to-goodness explosion of fun and wisdom for all the world to learn from. Join Christa as she interviews New York Times and Booklist favorite, power couple Nate Klemp, PhD and Kaley Klemp, MA, (Kaley's also an Enneagram Institute Coach!) as they talk us through how we can turn a 50/50 marriage up a solid notch for a new levels of health with the 80/80 marriage and a model of radical generosity!  Find out more about Nate, Kaley, and the 80/80 Marriage here! https://www.8080marriage.com/ https://www.kaleyklemp.com/ https://www.nateklemp.com/

Radical Generosity and the 80/80 Marriage with Authors Nate and Kaley Klemp

Your worldview greatly affects how you move in relationships and in life, and it especially influences how you get stuck, too. Depending on whether you're an idealist (1, 4, or 7), a relationalist (2, 5, or 8), or a pragmatist (3, 6, or 9), you operate differently, often contrasting your spouse in other groups or even a different kind of idealist, relationalist, or pragmatist than you. Listen to today's episode for insights on how to learn how your spouse sees the world and to grab the freebie also! For today's harmony triad freebie, text "HARMONY" to 941-301-8420 Visit www.EnneagramandMarriage.com for more episodes, freebies, and the Enneagram and Marriage course.

How Your Harmony Triad Affects Your Marriage: Idealists, Pragmatists, and Relationalists

Dr. Camden Morgante of the 9-6 Glow Pairing joins Christa to talk about both her pairing as well as her specialty of sex therapy. Many couples struggle in the sexual arena and today we take a different angle. Tune in to talk with us about some of the most painful and perplexing moments most couples walk through, including ED, pain and trauma in the bedroom, and more! Visit www.DrCamden.com for more info on working with Dr. Camden or to check our her freebie. Visit www.EnneagramandMarriage.com for more episodes, to check out the next E + M course, or to sign up for our email list! 

Sex Therapy 101 with Dr. Camden Morgante, 9-6 Glow Pairing

The Enneagram and Marriage Podcast, hosted by Christa Hardin, MA, is rooted in her 18+ years of experience counseling and coaching couples. On top of her expert marriage advice, Christa uses the Enneagram to add in another layer of understanding as to how we work as individuals and gives us deeper insight into how we connect with others and how we view the world.

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