“When you recognize the true source of who you are, that brings a whole other level of freedom from suffering and unshakable happiness.” -Hale Dwoskin   What is happiness and how can you achieve it? Most people feel that happiness is somewhat elusive. Yet, they keep on searching for it, although sometimes in the wrong place and in the wrong way. In this episode, Shirley and Hale Dwoskin, author of  New York’s best-seller, The Sedona Method reveal the secret to unshakable happiness. Hale shares one simple technique from The Sedona Method to dissolve all the unwanted feelings that cause suffering and pain. Also, discover how awareness and letting go of resistance can help you move from being a victim of life to being a master of it. Live the happiness, be the happiness! Tune in!   Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:00 The Secret 05:23 What Is Happiness?  13:11 The Sedona Method 22:25 Don’t Believe In Everything 29:24 Let Go of the Resistance 37:15 Be a Master of Your Life

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095: The Secret to Mastering Happiness with Hale Dwoskin

“The guy you're meant to be with wants to find you. So change your mind about what you can and can't do, and put yourself out there so that you can meet each other because life is short.”-Marni Battista   What’s your relationship status? If you’re looking for love and a lasting relationship, you’ve stumbled on the right podcast! This week, Shirley interviews Marni Battista, CEO of Dating with Dignity. If you’ve been broken and shattered because of a divorce or break up, never give up hope! There is life after all that you’ve been through! Learn the effective and efficient way to find love, how to move on faster, dating hacks, making your profile much more attractive and appealing, dressing suggestions, and online dating ideas to avoid boring conversations. Well, you know what happens when you combine two relationship experts together! Don’t make your one true love wait for you much longer! Listen in for dating tips and tricks that will help you write the love story you deserve!    Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:51 An Efficient Way to Heal and Find Love 07:46 Is There Life After Divorce? 11:21 How to Move On 15:06 Dating Tips 22:44 How Smart People Date 27:15 How to Succeed in Online Dating

094: How to Find the Person of Your Dreams (Even Amidst COVID) with Marni Battista

“You shouldn't discount what you love doing. It's so important to integrate that into what you do no matter what people say.” -Justine Reichman   The marriage of passion and business is one of the joys of life. But it’s an opportunity that not everyone is willing to take. If you want to start your own Passion Business, what are the things you need? In this episode, we learn valuable lessons on building your start-up with Justine Reichman, Founder of NextGenChef, a community that provides resources, expert advice, and connections for entrepreneurs. These are the Essential Ingredients needed for success. Justine also talks about why we need to be more aware of the food we eat, what benefits do fresh and local produce offer, and how regenerative practices can help the market provide affordable, accessible, and healthier products. Convenience foods have proved themselves lacking in many ways. In fact, they even create more problems than solutions. As a result of this growing awareness, people are in constant search of better foods. You can do something to bring this trend back to society! Join today’s conversation and learn how you can deepen your impact.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:03 NextGenChef Lunch and Learns 08:09 What is Better Food?  14:08 More Than Food 19:58 Benefits of Fresh and Local Foods 21:13 Don’t Discount on Yourself

092: Why You Should Bring Back Better Foods to the Table with Justine Reichman

“One way to get started on reforming some of these inexcusably bad policies is to get involved. Just taking part in community activities give people a sense of how working together with others can do modest reforms in a community.” -Phil Harvey   “It's your money. So where do you want it to go?” -Lisa Conyers   The rich are getting richer; the poor are getting poorer. Hard work ends with a paycheck; paychecks end up paying taxes. Life can feel unfair, and it will continue that way until the system is changed. In this episode, Shirley interviews Phil Harvey and Lisa Conyers. Phil and Lisa co-authored a very timely book called, The Human Cost of Welfare. In it, we learn the harsh truth about some biased federal spending & disguised welfare programs. Lisa and Harvey also discuss what private sectors can learn about putting up noble projects and making it a success without needing tax money or subsidies. And for today's highlight: What can you as a citizen do to end this injustice? Social issues will always be a part of an imperfect system. But there’s hope for improvement. Listen in and make sure your money goes where you want it to go!             Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:45 The Human Cost of Welfare 06:02 Robin Hood for the Rich 09:21 Non-Divisive Politics   14:22 Ripoff Projects vs Nobel Projects 18:40 What You Can Do 24:01 Where Is Your Money Going?  30:49 There’s Hope!

090: Shocking Secrets You Need to Know About Tax, Subsidies, and Pseudo Welfare Programs! with Phil Harvey and Lisa Conyers

“How much are you depositing into your loved one’s emotional bank accounts? If you make [intentional] deposits, you will see the wealth in your relationships start to grow.”  -Shirley Owens   Just looking at a growing bank account gives much satisfaction, knowing that hard work is finally paying off. What if there was another bank account that you could fill freely? Become wealthy in your relationships by filling your loved ones emotional bank accounts. Listen in as Shirley gives you how you can do just that!     Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:33 Emotional Bank Account 01:36 How Much Are You Depositing?

089: Reflection- The Secret to a Harmonious, Flourishing, and Long-Standing Relationship -Reconvo- with Thomas Westenholz

“Never threaten the relationship. Arguments are totally natural. But never go to the stage where you threaten a relationship because that becomes very difficult to repair.”  -Thomas Westenholz   Divorce cases piling up in courts, broken families, painful memories- If it is true that love never fails, why are there less and less evidence of it in the world? This week, Shirley and Relationship and Intimacy Expert, Thomas Westenholz reveal the secret to a lasting relationship. They talk about the dynamics in creating a secure attachment, boundaries when making choices, love languages, and conditions that help love to flourish. We also get profound insights into filling up your emotional bank account and dealing with triggers, resentments, and expectations to create deeper intimacy and bring back the connection. Tune in, and let's spend the next hour talking about the two best feelings in the world: to love and feel loved!   Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  01:35 What Adults Did Not Learn 08:03 Love Languages 14:45 Conditions For Love to Flourish 20:56 Map Out Your Triggers 28:32 How to Bring the Connection Back 35:13 Resentment: Good or Bad?  40:51 Learn to Outsource 45:11 Never Threaten the Relationship

088: The Secret to a Harmonious, Flourishing, and Long-Standing Relationship with Thomas Westenholz

“Find something you would never do and do it. If you do this, there will be growth in it. You may even find it more exhilarating and you may want to do more of it!” -Shirley Owens    What is one thing you swore will never ever be able to do? Of course, we all want to stay in our comfort zone. (Who doesn't!) But could it be that we're limiting our growth because of it? Listen as Shirley talks about how we sometimes become the primary obstacle in our progress and how we can live an extraordinary life by feeling the uncomfortable. Raise the bar higher and go beyond your limits!   Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:40 Turn Your Ordinary into Extraordinary 02:28 Grow by Doing

087: Reflection- Target Locked: Aim For An Extraordinary Life -Reconvo- with Tim Carlin

“Sometimes your greatest opportunities are those opportunities that other people are criticizing you for.” - Tim Carlin   What do you get when you put together an altar boy, a great swimmer, an army Colonel, a speed racer, a divine dancer, a financial planner, a versatile leader, and an author? -Tim Carlin. Tim is my guest today. He wrote the bestselling book called, An Extraordinarily Ordinary Life, where he shares how he was able to live an extraordinary life while being an ordinary man. Tim shares the 8 Principles that guided him through his journey. As we go through each one, we also hear of Tim’s funny and inspiring experiences that made the pages of his story more interesting. We also learn how being vulnerable and being of service contribute to our success. Your life can be incredibly wonderful. The key is to be comfortable being uncomfortable. Don’t miss today’s golden nuggets, and go live an extraordinary life! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve   Highlights:   02:35 Aim For Extraordinary 05:54 From Uncomfortable To Reinvention 11:58 Punch Above Your Weight 13:36 Discipline Is Freedom 22:11 Don’t Follow The Crowd 25:31 Ask For Help 30:18 Service To Others 40:07 Take Your Chances

086: Target Locked: Aim For An Extraordinary Life with Tim Carlin

“When we are super aware of not only the present but the past and future as well, we can make much better decisions that are sustainable.” -Shirley Owens   Are there decisions in your life that are weighing you down? Take a deep breath and pause for a bit. You don't have to decide right now. After all, your future depends on the choices you make! Listen as Shirley shares how to activate awareness so you can make sustainable decisions!    Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:35 To Decide or Not Decide 02:00 How to Make Sustainable Decisions

085: Reflection- 2030- A Year of Interest for the World! -Reconvo- with Mauro Guillen

 “Don't make any decisions that are irreversible… because you're most likely running yourself into a situation in which your assumptions as to what was going to happen, could be wrong and you'll be in big trouble." -Mauro Guillen   What does the future hold for the world? We've probably seen the worst in this century alone and recent changes came at a striking speed. That's why we can't help but wonder what's going to happen in the next 10 years. Today, Shirley talks to Professor Mauro Guillen, author of the bestselling book, 2030. He expounds on salient points in the book such as how the interconnection of politics, demography, and commerce can create great shifts in how we do things and live our lives. They also talk about how this pandemic is speeding up change and how to help the younger generation cope with these life-defining experiences they're having. Tune in to see what the future holds!    Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve   Highlights: 01:33 Be Aware Of Where You're Going 03:16 2030: Think About The Future 8:00 Future Of Women 12:15 Political Consciousness Of Younger Generation 14:58 Every Generation Is Different 17:08 How The Pandemic Changes Things 19:42 Purpose Of The Book 2030 21:57 Make Decisions That Are Not Irreversible

084: 2030- A Year of Interest for the World Mauro Guillen

"If you feel that you aren't surrounding yourself with those who level you up, maybe it's time to start shedding some of those people and start rebuilding that mastermind with those who will lift you and cherish who you are. When you do this, life becomes a completely different experience filled with happiness, fulfillment, and ease." -Shirley Owens   What if you can change the flow of your life story with just one decision? Today, Shirley shares the importance of creating healthy relationships and its role in creating beautiful experiences that will bring you more joy and empowerment. Tune in and have a happier and more fulfilling week! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:41 How Your Relationships Affect You 01:35 Relationship Questions to Ask Yourself Today!

083: Reflection- Never Underestimate The Power of a Great Mastermind! -Reconvo- with Aaron Walker

“Small minds talk about other people;  great minds talk about ideas. If you surround yourself with trusted advisors that will give you candid feedback, … you can live a life that’s amazing.” -Aaron Walker   What are you doing to live proactively? In this episode, Shirley sits with Big A, Aaron Walker, author of  View from the Top.  They dive deep into what truly makes life amazing and meaningful. Life is about forming satisfying and beneficial relationships. Aaron speaks from experience how surrounding yourself with great minds can significantly change your life. He also speaks about the importance of being transparent in relationships as early as possible, putting money in its right perspective, and accepting feedback constructively.  Books can make us knowledgeable, but experience can make us wise. The best thing about it is, it doesn’t have to be first hand. Tune in for more golden nuggets to help you be wiser in your business and in life!  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve   Highlights:   03:02 From Broker To Convict To Coaching 07:58 Experience Is The Best Teacher 14:43 Principles And Boundaries In A Relationship 20:49 Balance View Of Money 27:29 Come As You Will Be In 2023 34:39 What Do I Want?

082: Never Underestimate The Power of a Great Mastermind! with Aaron Walker

“If we can all be open to lend a hand and open up our hearts to what others may be going through, the world will be a better place to live in.” -Shirley Owens     Kindness comes in many forms and many levels. There is a degree from where we can show kindness that will allow us to genuinely feel for others. As a result, we can offer help and assistance more completely. Today, Shirley reflects on how we can show kindness on a higher level and how to get started with it. The world needs kindness especially, in these perilous times. Listen in for another inspiring week full of kindness and empathy!   Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:45 Kindness and Empathy 03:00 Where to Start with Kindness  

081: Reflection- 10-Minute Daily Habit That Will Make You Better at Showing Kindness -Reconvo- with Houston Kraft

“We are human becomings and not human beings. There is a process there where you could be genuinely doing something kind.” -Houston Kraft   Is kindness becoming rare? With all the crime, cruelty, and violence happening today, it’s unthinkable how humans could one day live without kindness. Stresses, fear of being taken advantage of, and daily hustles also contribute to a less kind environment. But there is hope! Today, Shirley and Kindness Advocate Houston Kraft, talk about what kindness is and what we can do to practice kindness on a daily basis. Houston shares what prevents us from showing kindness, 3 steps to follow to make sure we’re being genuinely kind, and how to expand our impact and affect more people with kindness. He also explains the difference between being nice and being kind and how to help teenagers deal with the hypocrisies in the world so they may become kinder individuals. What will kindness look like for you today? Tune in and find out!     Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:48 Where Kindness Originates 07:22 Are You Nice or Kind?  12:57 Empathy and Kindness 22:13 Helping Teenagers Be Kind 28:00 Expand Your Impact 36:57 Kindness in 10 Minutes

080: Get What You Want by Being Kind with Houston Kraft

 “If you have a problem with what would be considered the more extreme whether it's right or left, start looking for the moderates and connect there.”  -Linda Seger   What would the world be like if everyone came together for one single goal despite differences in beliefs and opinions? In this episode, Shirley and Linda Seger discuss a very timely and significant topic in our society today. They talk about how we are oftentimes, stuck in our stopping place instead of engaging and moving forward and how we can get past the hatred, biases, and gaps in our society. Our values are expressed in our society but despite these discrepancies, it is possible to resolve disagreements and find that third creative solution. How? Tune in to find out! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:48 What Do We Really Care About?  06:37 Our Stopping Place 13:23 A Piece of Thought For Republicans and Democrats 18:19 Bridging the Gap 23:00 A Time For Silence 29:36 Do Not Cower 

078: A Piece of Thought For Republicans and Democrats: An Effective Way To Solve Disagreements with Linda Seger

We all want something. What is it that you want? How do you get it? Relationship expert, Shirley Baldwin Owens, brings her own expertise as well as the expertise of her amazing guests, to help you figure out what is it you want, and most importantly, how to get it! If you are wanting more out of yourself, your relationships, or your life, listen as they share their inspirational stories, insights, and advice on how you can create whatever it is that you want!

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