Celibacy gets a bad rap because people don’t do it very well. I would never counsel someone to just “give up sex” without any intention behind it. Or, without learning how to channel their sexual energy. That would be “unconscious celibacy”. Doing it consciously is deciding to contain yourself for a while, to put an invisible “not available” sign on your forehead, and direct your energy inward. This could be for any number of reasons, such as:  to recover and heal after a breakup  to take stock and try and change patterns and behaviours in relationships before starting a new one  Up-levelling parts of your life before your next relationship, so that you are in a better place to welcome someone into your space and life I often talk having had some of my most well-fucked periods of my life, when I was single. If you know anything about my work, the way I define “well-f**ked” isn’t just about “having lots of sex”. It’s having lots of gourmet, conscious, life-changing sex and channeling your sexual, pro-creative energy out into the world as a manifesting power to birth and shape your reality. So how do we do this? Show notes and product links here: https://kimanami.com/conscious-celibacy/

Orgasmic Enlightenment

Conscious Celibacy

This is the ultimate creative power of the universe and it flows through  you.Instead of tuning into this ad riding this wave, most people are totally disconnected from and have disowned this power.All of my work is about helping you get it back.“Unexpressed creativity is not benign. It metastasizes”~ Brene Brown I say the same thing about your sexual energy: whatever you aren’t expressing and owning, inverts back on you and creates all kinds of stagnation and blockage in your life.In today’s episode: Are creatives born or made? The fastest way to achieve creative genius The connection between the deeper vaginal orgasms and being divinely inspired Sex and self-actualization #poweredbyvagina is the mantra I live by. How I create my own life–via my vagina Three techniques to activate your creative and orgasmic brilliance Plus, we have THREE Well-F**ked All Stars today sharing on how they have fuelled their creative projects and lives.With their orgasms and vaginas.My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is now open for registration until tomorrow—Friday February 4th at midnight PST.In this 8-week online salon, I've compiled the best of my 30 years of sexual and vaginal experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss. We cover everything talked about in today’s episode, from yoni massage to how to use the jade yoni egg, to activating your feminine energy as the receiver in your life—all of which bring you into your creative genius.You'll learn: How to have a toned, orgasmic and ecstatic vagina; How to channel your sexual energy into creative power Step-by-step instructions for your vaginal weight lifting practice, thereby putting yourself in the running for the Guinness Record for world’s strongest vagina; My guided routine for giving yourself, or having your partner give you, a healing and activating yoni massage. How to give your man a hand job. With your vagina. Come and get it.After tomorrow, it's gone until 2023!

Everyone Is Creative: Just Ask Your Vagina!

While the clitoris is good for a laugh or a warmup, if you really want to harness the power of your sexual energy, you need to go deeper.A few inches deeper.These deeper, vaginal orgasms are like the Loch Ness Monsters of sexuality. They are mysterious and subject to much skepticism and known only to some.The reason why they elude many people, and especially laboratory analysis (though they’ve been sighted in some labs; mainly French, and not English), is because they involve far more than just technique.In fact, I’d say that technique is less than 10% of what will take you there.In this episode we cover the other 90%. We also talk to Well-F**ked All Star Robin, who is a 44-year-old from our Well-F**ked Hall of Fame. She’s taken my salons for women and emerged out the other side a radiant, lubricating, ejaculating, vaginal orgasming-on-the-regular, sexual powerhouse. My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is open for registration! www.kungfuvagina.com Having a Kung Fu Vagina is every woman’s birthright and within her natural abilities.  With the right tools! This is what is possible for every single vagina, on the daily:  Multiple, vaginal and ejaculating orgasms  Insane, life-changing pleasure  A vagina that is so responsive that it gets wet just from hearing your lover’s voice.  Produces a tsunami of wetness  A ravenous libido  Gives your lover a vaginal handjob with your sensational articulation skills. Aka "voodoo pussy".  Shoots ping pong balls. This is the normal, healthy baseline for every vagina.  Zero urinary incontinence. Some women reverse this in a week.  Iron-clad pelvic floor strength that maintains your internal organs. Yep. You were meant to keep them.  In short: Ecstasy and power on tap. Courtesy of your Kung Fu Vagina. Come and get it: www.kungfuvagina.com 

5 Reasons Why You Aren't Having Vaginal Orgasms

Most vaginas are numb. They aren't pleasured or exercised well, and they atrophy into a place of disconnection and lackluster existence. You can change that, and instead cultivate a Super Pussy that is: - Strong, articulate and powerful.- Orgasms wherever, however, whenever it wants, with the full range of orgasmic pleasure: clitoral, G-Spot, cervical orgasms - Feels blissful during sex - Has a voracious libido- Can give hand jobs. Just like with your actual hand, a super pussy can push, pull, squeeze and isolate different sections of the muscles, playing the proverbial flute.- Produces “tsunamis of lubrication”- Shoots ping pong balls. This is every woman’s God-given right. In this episode, we’ll cover: Super Pussy mythbusting: Common reasons why you think you might not be able to have one. I’ll prove you wrong. My #1 tool for creating Super Pussies. Plus four more. On removing blocks from our reproductive organs, freeing them up to be orgasmic and blissful. Constantly. Is lube really a girl’s best friend? Well-F**ked All Star Mara shares how she started her Super Pussy journey at eight months pregnant, had her first cervical orgasm on her birthday six weeks later, and how they use sex to keep them energized with a young baby and four other children.  All my vaginal power secrets and practices will be revealed in the upcoming Vaginal Kung Fu Salon. The salon opens for registration on January 19th. You can get on the list to be notified when it does, and check out my free preview video series for the salon now: https://kimanami.com/vaginal-kung-fu/

5 Techniques to Create a Super Pussy!

Organic sex toys. Is that even a thing?There definitely are #thingsIwouldputintomyvagina and things I would not. The whole Anami philosophy is about cultivating the highest quality experiences and using the healthiest and most holistic products in our intimate lives. I created the Anami Alchemia online shop so that we could feature exactly that: Erotic accessories you could trust to be an extension of the Anami way of life: Beautiful, (functional), impeccable quality, and nourishment for your body and spirit. So let’s talk about clean, organic and body-friendly erotic accessories to uplevel your orgasmic enlightenment. 

#thingsiputinmyvagina: Kim's Fave Organic Sex Toys

They apply to all women, all vaginas, everywhere.They are true in every circumstance, 100% of the time.There are NO exceptions to these rules.None.Ever.It doesn’t matter if a woman has had everything from sexual trauma, to reproductive organs removed, to a strict religious and shaming upbringing to being in menopause, to having emerged out of a 20-year shitty marriage or whether she is straight or gay, single or coupled.These laws apply to EVERY WOMAN at any and every stage of her life.We don’t do excuses in Anami Land. Or Band-Aids.Only solutions.So buck up bitches and let’s go.

5 Laws of Female Orgasms

One of the things I hear most often from women who had a transcendent, empowering, largely independent, birth experience, is that it wipes out the residue of former births they may have had, where they were more entrenched in the allopathic system. Women who had C-sections have gone on to have triumphant free-births at home, which we’ll hear about in today’s episode. All of the education I put out around this topic is to reassure and REMIND you that YOU can do this. Yourself. In order to have this kind of orgasmic, ecstatic birth experience means taking the reins early on in your journey. Even during conception. As you work out the kinks and blocks in yourselves and the collective of your relationship, you free up the flow for a smoother conception, pregnancy and birth.Anything significant that is NOT resolved between you, will show up in your birth.And even before that in your pregnancy and even before THAT in your conception journey.Combine all of that with the programming and imprinting you receive around birth, you’ve got a lot of work to do to clear the space.The most important “preparation” you can do is on your mindset, your fears, your internalized beliefs and then setting to work on reframing and recreating all of that to fit the vision YOU want to have. In today’s episode, we are talking with our Well-F**ked All Star couple of the year, Mark and Amanda. Their story is amazing, and encapsulates ALL of the concepts I’ve just described. Amanda’s first child was breech, and she was told that she’d have to have a C-section. Her fourth child was born at home, in her bed, with just her husband present. This was a free birth, with no one attending her pregnancy either. In between all of that was FIVE miscarriages. Their story is amazing, inspirational and super entertaining, as they share what happened and how they evolved along the way. Anyone can take their power back, and recreate their lives. Including you. The Sexy Mama Salon begins today! This 8-week online class is ALL about how to educate yourself, deprogram and reprogram yourself as the powerful portal you truly are. We cover everything from conscious conception, blissful pregnancy, birth orgasms, breastfeeding and early childhood education. This is the ultimate condensed and enlightened guide on how to use pregnancy and birth as an ascension experience and raise independent, free thinkers in the process. It all starts with birth. Check out Sexy Mama now. 

From C-Section to Free Birth

A natural, sovereign, empowered pregnancy and birth brings you: Confidence, boldness and the ability to stand up and speak your truth. Knowing that you can do anything in your life. If you can do this. An even stronger link with your intuition and divine guidance, that leads you through pregnancy, birth and into all parts of your life. You’ve earned this. And you get to keep it. A transcendent, pleasurable and orgasmic birth A deepened relationship and love of yourself and your body A strengthened bond with your partner An un-traumatized child—which is a rarity in this world—who will also have a stronger connection to their innate knowing and the divine You emerge from birth in a state of euphoria that lasts weeks, months and even years. The Sexy Mama Salon is now open for registration.This 8-week online class is ALL about how to educate yourself, deprogram and re-program yourself as the powerful portal you truly are.We cover everything from conscious conception, blissful pregnancy, birth orgasms, breastfeeding and early childhood education.This is the ultimate condensed and enlightened guide on how to use pregnancy and birth as an ascension experience and raise independent, free thinkers in the process.It all starts with birth. 

Intuitive Birth: Trusting Yourself and the Divine

Birth either becomes an initiation into your own power, autonomy and sovereignty, or it becomes a massive imprinting on your psyche and body of the outsourcing of it. Do modern midWhat has happened to the modern midwife? With Yolande Norris-Clark.

Med-Wives vs. Mid-Wives

This is one of the topics I get asked about ALL the time: “How do we talk to our children about sex?”This question becomes even more crucial to parents, as they begin doing this work of orgasmic enlightenment.As they see and feel the changes in their own relationships and lives, they wonder: “How can we present a different view of sexuality to our kids, than we got?”“How can we make it so that they don’t have to go through all of the de-programming that we have?”f you aren’t guiding your children and modelling a healthy sex life to them, someone else will.That will likely be through pornography, or the cultural messages of shame, violation and unconsciousness, or the school “sex ed” messages of “sex will kill you and get you pregnant, now off you go”.The responsibility for educating your children about sex and how to cultivate a healthy, sacred, powerful relationship with it, begins with you.In this video, I chat with our Well-F**ked All Star Couple of the Year, Mark and Amanda. We discuss: How their relationship changed since doing this work and what their children noticed The ways they talk to their children about sex and handle all the questions they get How they model healthy intimacy in their family The direct connection between the state of their relationship and how it impacts their family: i.e. the more sex they have, the happier EVERYONE in the family is What their children’s reactions are to seeing their parents passionately into each other  Sign up for my Sexy Mama: Holistic Pregnancy and Ecstatic Birth Salon and watch the free video preview series: https://kimanami.com/sexy-mama/

How to Talk to Children About Sex

In our conversation, we chat about:  How women are underf**ked if they are only having clitoral orgasms. Giving your woman a non-stop flow of G-Spot orgasms  “Cervical after cervical after cervical” orgasms that crack her open and give her that “I just saw GOD!” face  The definition of a well-f**ked man  Super-charged erections at every age (Paul is older than his wife so he makes this a priority)  She comes first and many, many times Constantly receiving oral sex from his woman (so tedious, I know). yet he soldiers on  Using their orgasms to manifest a new house, job opportunities and more! Seriously tho.  Everyone can reach these places. If you put in the time and energy. It’s the Anami Guarantee: That’s why I’ve created all of my salons—to get you there. ****** The Sexual Mastery for Men Salon is open! This 8-week virtual salon is all about harnessing male sexual power and rocking her world. The salon covers all things sexual mastery:  Foreplay How to last for hours… Testosterone boosting Cock lengthening and strengthening exercises How to give your woman G-Spot and cervical vaginal orgasms Cockfidence: inhabiting your cock and your masculine alpha self.  and even sex acts that will boost your business. You have weekly videos full of techniques and my well-f**ked secrets, homeplay for singles and couples and weekly live Q&A coaching calls with me! Plus, you have lifetime access to the course. Are you coming??? 

Meet Another Well-F**ked Man!

Mark shares his perspective as the other half of this radiantly well-f**ked couple, and the impact that up-levelling their sex life has had on all parts of his life, from finance and business, to parenting and friendships and of course, as a man who can f**k his woman open to smithereens. He can have sex for hours, he can come—or not—when he wants to. He is giving his woman multiple, vaginal, life-changing orgasms. And throat-gasms. And anal-gasms. He is the well-f**ked man, to his well-f**ked woman. He becomes the man he was always meant to be. Sexual Mastery for Men is open now! In my signature 8-week online salon for men, you’ll learn:  How to last longer in bed: my massively effective techniques to eliminate premature ejaculation permanently and extend your staying power for as long as you want.  Orgasms without ejaculation.  How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women.  Cock lengthening and strengthening exercises.  How to use your sexual energy and relationship as a power source in your life to bring you more cash, business success and overall life abundance.  And much more!Signup now!  

The Well-F**ked Man

Stamina is: when a man has complete control of his ejaculation. He comes when he wants. Even in the most sexy, wild moments, with his woman’s butt up in the air, and her back arched and she’s making those crazy noises that just. send you… you keep it together. For women to reach the deeper vaginal orgasms—G-Spot and cervical—it can take 30-45 minutes. Women were built for the long haul. They are naturally multi-orgasmic and sexually insatiable. One of the main reasons they never realize their full potential is because they’ve had a series of male lovers who are two-pump chumps. You can be much better than a two-pump chump. Marathon stamina is one of the many things I teach in my signature 8-week online program for men. Not only will you learn how you, too, can fuck like Sting, but you’ll learn how to: - Grow cock organically with lengthening and strengthening exercises- Bring her to deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot and cervical  - Reclaim your masculine strength and power Registration is open now. Signup: https://kimanami.com/sexual-mastery-for-men-salon/

Stamina: The Most Important Sexual Skill for Men

NOTE: This episode is a video I highly suggest you WATCH on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szfTXMUIE8g**In this week’s special investigation SMM news report, we bring you a visual depiction of the Beta Variant pandemic. And it’s cure: The Alpha Variant. The report features:  Dr. Kim Anami, of the CUFDC (Center for Underf**ked Disease Control), who makes a return appearance to weigh in on the controversy. As our most trusted expert, she has fabulous advice for those seeking to ward off and develop natural immunity to the Beta Variants.  Exclusive footage of Beta and Alpha Variants in their natural habitats. A graphic demonstration of the effects of the Beta Variant on women.   An inspiring rally cry for Alphas to make their return. We are waiting with bated breath and ready-to-open legs.  A great question I received after last week’s provocative episode, was:  Can Beta Variants be transformed into Alphas? ANSWER: Yes, they can. Beta behavior is learned and acquired, both socially and physically. Any man can take charge of his life and make massive changes and in a short period of time. Your sexual energy is the quantum leap shortcut to getting there. Once you have mastery over it, that dominion extends to all parts of your life: woman, confidence, finances, career. In my Sexual Mastery for Men, I show you how to occupy your fully embodied, testosterone-fuelled, ultra-f**kable masculine self. Salon opens next week! FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kimanami/?hl=enYOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/user/KimAnami

Beta Male Variants: The Real Epidemic

Who Wants to F**k a Beta Male?

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