Uncover the captivating blend of art and science in relationship coaching. Join Jayson as he guides the way, painting a masterpiece of understanding, growth, and authenticity. Discover the science behind lasting happiness and the significance of deep connections for a fulfilling life. It's not just about belonging; it's about being truly known and loved. Step into a transformative adventure, mastering the art and science of coaching. Embrace your evolution, becoming a beacon of connection in a world craving relational leaders. Enroll in Relationship Coach Training now at relationshipschool.com/RCT. Start your transformative journey today, and become a catalyst for thriving, authentic relationships. Timestamps: 0:48 - What is relationship coaching and why is it important? 4:23 - The art of relationship coaching 12:31 - The power of the here and now 16:08 - The science of relationship coaching 17:04 - What we know about human fulfillment and life satisfaction 19:29 - The ACEs study 25:51 - Should you become a relationship coach? Links: Apply to Relationship Coach Training Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook 

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The Art and Science of Relationship Coaching - Jayson Gaddis - 461

In our latest episode, Jayson talks with Layne Norton, a distinguished figure in health, fitness, and personal development. Listen to their candid discussion on compassionate communication, setting boundaries, and fostering healthy relationships. Layne's emphasis on breaking free from restrictive food rules and embracing a balanced, joyful relationship with nourishment reflects his dedication to empowering individuals to achieve their health goals. Watch this inspiring episode to learn more and discover how exercise and weightlifting can transform your life, especially after age 40. Timestamps: 0:45 - Introduction 3:33 - How did Layne Norton get into evidence-based fitness and nutrition? 7:37 - Areas to focus on for long-term health 9:55 - How to avoid eating too much 13:05 - How tracking your food intake can help you make better choices 15:35 - How do you measure food? 20:54 - The ACEs study 30:25 - Empathy and accountability 32:40 - How important is doing the inner work in terms of health? 35:10 - How did Layne's experiences with bullying impact his life trajectory 42:45 - Why is exercise so important for people over 40? 51:30 - Layne's thoughts on food rules 1:01:00 - Why is fiber important? 1:07:40 - Just start doing the little things 1:09:55 - Layne's relationship advice for high-school students 1:12:00 - Where can people find Layne? 1:13:10 - Action steps Links: Layne Norton's Website Carbon — Smart Diet Coach Follow Layne Norton on Instagram Apply to Relationship Coach Training Enroll in Relationship Mastery Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook 

Your Relationship with Food, Body, Exercise, and Health - Dr. Layne Norton - 460

Are you ready to break free from the chains of victimhood and embrace empowerment? Join Jayson and Ellen in this episode as they dive deep into the complexities of fault versus responsibility. They also discuss the struggle between victimhood and authorship. Explore empowering perspectives, real-life stories, and learn how to transform challenges into personal growth opportunities. You won't want to miss this as they challenge the norms compassionately, fostering self-reflection and self-discovery without blame. Find out what got Ellen saying "Honey, We Should Have Talked Before You Posted.” Timestamps: 0:53 - Fault vs. responsibility 3:25 - Context 7:00 - Why do people get attached to their victim stance? 16:51 - Finding your part in painful experiences 27:48 - Learning about yourself through painful experiences 32:43 - When to take responsibility 35:23 - Why does resilience vary between people? 43:00 - What you gain by transcending your pain 45:43 - Dealing with victim dynamics as a coach or a therapist 51:20 - How Jayson deals with his victim consciousness 54:09 - Personal development vs. forgiveness 58:58 - Moving from victim to author Links: Apply to Relationship Coach Training Enroll in Relationship Mastery Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook 

Victim Consciousness and What to Do About It - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 459

A brave, smart couple shares their darkest period and how they worked through it. Anyone who has been married for a few years and then adds in a child to the mix will pretty much get rocked. Tripp (host of The New Man Podcast: Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp) and Alyson (psychotherapist, relationship coach) share what happened and how they got through it. From their day-to-day check-ins, emotional distance, and meltdowns to transforming their sex life after kids, we imagine you’ll be amazed and inspired, and hopefully you will walk away with some actionable practices you can implement in your own relationship.  Timestamps: 7:40 - Guest introductions 10:08 - How did Tripp and Alyson meet? 22:23 - How to deal with it when things are "off" 28:09 - Learning from conflict 31:55 - Learning curiousity 32:40 - Challenging moments 50:53 - Advice for getting through hard times 1:01:03 - How to keep your sex life alive 1:21:10 - Where to find Alyson and Tripp 1:22:47 - Action steps   Links: The New Man Podcast: Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp AlysonLanier.com TrippLanier.com Apply to Relationship Coach Training Enroll in Relationship Mastery Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook 

A Couple's Vulnerable Story of Falling Apart and Getting Stronger - Tripp & Alyson - 458

Join Jayson and Ellen’s in-depth chat as they talk through listeners' questions in this Ask me Anything episode. Betty asks about a tough financial situation, Jean is looking for tips on how to break the toxic cycle of always being told it's your fault by their partner, Christy is struggling to differentiate between love addiction and being in love, and Alyssia is looking for advice on how to handle mixed messages. Tune in as they offer guidance on creating a strong foundation based on mutual respect to build healthy and fulfilling relationships. Timestamps: 1:12 - Financial conversations 14:05 - Space in a relationship 17:40 - Love addiction vs. being in love 29:23 - Mixed messages Links: Apply to Relationship Coach Training Enroll in Relationship Mastery The Most Important Question To Ask To Determine If You Are Compatible - Jayson & Ellen - 372 Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook 

AMA- Mixed Messages, Love Addiction vs Being in Love, Being Told It’s Your Fault, Financial Conversations - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 457

Join Coleman Hughes and Jayson as they discuss the multifaceted aspects of the anti-racist movement, evaluating its progress and identifying areas of improvement. Coleman Hughes is a writer, musician, opinion columnist, and host of the popular podcast Conversations with Coleman. His work focuses on race, public policy, and applied ethics. Through this engaging discussion, they strive to foster meaningful conversations, challenge assumptions, and pave the way for a more inclusive and harmonious society.  You won't want to miss this episode, so tune in now. Timestamps: 4:19 - Who is Coleman Hughes? 5:46 - Jayson's past exploring different viewpoints 8:48 - How does Coleman think about race? 12:29 - Anti-racist thought leaders, past and present 16:09 - The impact of social media 21:25 - Has the modern anti-racist movement made progress? 26:00 - How do we deal with racism? 30:19 - Root causes 36:04 - Tribalism 43:51 - Coleman's advice for white people 50:47 - Affirmative action 53:14 - Positive vs negative life outlooks 56:48 - Coleman's advice for highschool students 58:47 - Action steps Links: colemanhughes.org twitter.com/coldxman youtube.com/@ColemanHughesOfficial Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Enroll in Relationship Mastery Apply to Relationship Coach Training Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook 

A Conversation About Race, Color Blindness, Equality & Affirmative Action - Coleman Hughes - 456

Why do people hesitate to speak up in relationships? And how do you speak up  if you are unhappy and unfulfilled in a relationship?  Why do you even need to speak up at that point, right? Many of us fear conflict and believe that speaking up will only make things worse. But let's challenge that notion. Is it a good enough reason to keep your thoughts and feelings hidden? The answer is a resounding no. The truth is, when we don't speak up, resentment builds. We start to feel a boundary being crossed, and instead of addressing it, we silently grow more and more frustrated. This is often seen in long-term partnerships and marriages, where uncomfortable topics are swept under the rug, creating a cage of unspoken truths. In the workplace, not speaking up can have its consequences too. You may find yourself seeking validation from others who share your frustrations, creating triangles that only reinforce your silence. It's time to break free from this cycle. In this episode Jayson and Ellen encourage you to find your voice, to share your truth, and to express your needs and desires. It's about reclaiming your power in relationships and fostering an environment where both partners have equal say, share leadership, and value each other's perspectives. It's time to speak up and create a foundation of trust, understanding, and genuine connection. Join us and discover the freedom and fulfillment that comes with being true to yourself. Timestamps: 2:54 - Why don't people in unhappy relationships speak up? 8:43 - The cost of not speaking up at work 13:47 - The self-betrayal of not speaking up 23:08 - How to start the conversation about holding back 30:00 - Setting boundaries with family 32:52 - Setting boundaries in the workplace 36:21 - Action steps Links: Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Enroll in Relationship Mastery Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook  

How to Speak Up If You Are Unhappy With A Partner, Family, & Coworkers - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 455

Are you tired of feeling unfulfilled in your relationships or like something is missing from your life? Have you achieved success and acquired material possessions, yet still long for a deeper sense of happiness and purpose? It's time to shift your perspective and embrace a new way of approaching relationships. This episode explores Jayson's journey of self-discovery after embracing Buddhism's core teachings. He realized that relationships are about more than just happiness or meeting needs. Instead, they offer a path to wholeness and freedom. It is your relationships that can serve as catalysts for your personal growth and ultimate liberation. Now it's your turn to learn how to become a more authentic version of yourself by joining the transformational adventure. Imagine seeing your relationships as pathways to self-discovery and fulfillment, where every interaction is an opportunity for personal growth. Whether you are single, married, or have children, this episode will help you unlock the hidden potential within your most profound relationships. In addition to giving you an understanding of how life works, it will also teach you how to navigate its challenges gracefully and resiliently. Are you ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and embrace your Relationships As A Personal Development Path? Consider joining Jayson on his upcoming 2-day retreat and unlocking the transformative power of your most important connections. Your hero's journey awaits. To learn more and deepen your understanding of Relationship As A Personal Development Path visit relationshipschool.com/path and stay tuned for more information at the end of our episode. Timestamps: 3:45 - Do you like who you are? 5:08 - Using high stakes relationships as a tool for personal development 8:28 - Religion and other spiritual frameworks 16:52 - Relationship as a spiritual path 21:03 - Action step Links: Live 2-Day Virtual Retreat: Relationship As A Personal Development Path Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Enroll in Relationship Mastery 

Relationship As A Personal Development Path - Jayson Gaddis - 454

Unsure why certain interactions with loved ones get you so upset? Ever struggle to relate to the hardship of others? Psychotherapist Sharon Stanley says the issue could be trauma, trauma you may not even be aware you have. Once we assess our own trauma we can begin exercising our senses and become more compassionate to others. According to Sharon, we owe it to ourselves and to each other to consider the pain in our pasts, only then can we embody true empathy! Timestamps: 5:56 - How Sharon became interested in trauma 9:16 - What is it like to work with trauma? 14:08 - How does being present help treat trauma? 23:34 - The cost of not dealing with trauma 28:04 - Childhood neglect and trauma 33:42 - Issues caused by trauma 37:31 - Sharon's advice for young people 39:52 - Action step Links: Sharon Stanley’s Website & Info on Somatic Transformation  Book: Relational and Body-Centered Practices for Healing Trauma: Lifting the Burdens of the Past Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Apply to Relationship Coach Training 

Healing Relational Trauma in the Body - Sharon Stanley - 453

Most people have a little bit of codependency going on. However, if you have a relationship that is based on codependency, you're probably feeling insecure and frustrated. In this episode, Jayson covers the signs and symptoms of codependency, the history of the term, how it "works" and what to do about it. You'll want to check this out! To sign up for our next Masterclass click HERE. Timestamps: 4:03 - What is codependency? 11:36 - Signs you might be experiencing codependency 16:21 - What are you getting out of hurtful relationship patterns? 18:24 - Increasing your self worth 20:00 - Other ways to do relationship 22:04 - Take action Links: Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Masterclass 

Codependent Relationships: Signs, Symptoms, and How to Change It - Jayson Gaddis - 452

Renowned relationship expert, Stan Tatkin, joins Jayson and Ellen in discussing the concept of secure functioning and how it can transform your partnership. Introducing "In Each Other’s Care: A Guide to the Most Common Relationship Conflicts and How to Work Through Them" This is not your typical self-help book filled with abstract theories and jargon. Instead, it offers practical guidance and actionable steps to help you and your partner thrive. Join us as we break down the complexities of couples therapy, emphasizing the importance of immediate action to stop the damage before delving into long-term growth. Witness the power of small agreements and the transformative potential of finding relief and care in each other. Gain insights into the mindset shift required to build a thriving relationship and move beyond self-centeredness towards genuine connection. Don't miss out on this enlightening episode that challenges conventional wisdom and offers practical strategies for building healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Timestamps: 4:37 - In Each Other's Care 6:59 - Vertical learning 12:56 - Building containers 22:28 - Stop it or do it 30:34 - What to do about threat buildup 36:30 - Needing space vs. needing to talk 43:09 - Couples therapy vs. individual therapy 46:44 - Do attachment styles change over time? 54:13 - Commitment 59:01 - Stan's advice for high school kids Links: The Pact Institute In Each Other’s Care: A Guide to the Most Common Relationship Conflicts and How to Work Through Them Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Enroll in Relationship Mastery U.S. listeners, sign up for relationship tips and support direct to your phone by texting this number: 720 704 4850 

Less Overthinking, Secure Functioning, and 2 Actions for Relationship Success - Stan Tatkin - 451

On this AMA episode we tackle important questions from listeners. Inna is dealing with her boyfriend's anger issues and wonders if breaking up is the only solution. Kendra seeks advice on how to handle criticism from her husband. Stay tuned as Jayson and Ellen answer more insightful questions and offer guidance on building healthy and fulfilling relationships. Timestamps: 1:37 - Dealing with an angry partner 13:21 - Receiving criticism 25:48 - Not asking our partner questions Links: Transcript Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Apply to Relationship Coach Training Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" 

AMA- Angry Partner, Receiving Criticism, Not Asking Our Partner Questions - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 450

This podcast comes from a blog post Jayson wrote for Elephant Journal where he polled over 200 women on his social media channels with this question: Hetero-women: “What are you wanting from us men in the context of an intimate, monogamous partnership?” Over 200 women responded. It was an emotional read. So, guys, listen up and take notes. Timestamps: 2:02 - The top 6 things women want from men 3:46 - Willingness 5:02 - Emotional availability and vulnerability 7:12 - Presence 9:42 - Honesty 11:08 - Safety 12:09 - Self awareness 14:24 - Action step Links: Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" 3 Types of Men in Partnership, Which One Are You? – Relationship School Podcast #230 For Men Who Have a Closed or Guarded Heart – Relationship School Podcast # 231 Toxic Masculinity & Male Sexuality – Relationship School Podcast # 233 The Relationship School The top 6 things women want from men (Advice from over 200 women) 

Top 6 Things Women Want in a Relationship - Jayson Gaddis - 449

Do you ever wonder if your relationship pain guides you deeper into whatever you need to heal yourself?  What kind of relationship do you have with God? With reality?  In this explorative and enlightening interview, Andrew Harvey explores how to create evolutionary love that is much bigger than the "you" you know yourself to be. Hang on tight for a mind-blowing ride as Andrew shares his perspective on how relationship work is sacred. He also shares how it serves your soul's calling.  Tune in and feel free to share your thoughts, feelings, and experience in the comments. Timestamps: Andrew’s definition of true love [11:00] Why is love hard? [12:00] 3 ways to build and cultivate true love [14:00] ‘The shadow’ and an exercise in shadow-work [22:00] Taking responsibility for disowned parts of yourself [29:00] Advice about purpose for when you’re feeling lost in life [30:00] The role of suffering on a spiritual path [40:00] A quote by Rumi [42:00] What is the most important thing people need to learn in relationship? [44:00] Links: Andrew’s website Book: Evolutionary Love Relationships Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Apply to Relationship Coach Training  

Evolutionary Love - Andrew Harvey - 448

Want to know one tip that most of us avoid or don't execute well so you can have a sexy and powerful partnership that lasts? It isn't going on more dates, and it isn't getting really good at repair. Find out how to transform your romantic relationship with Jayson and Ellen in this week's episode, and leave a comment below with your response/experience. Timestamps: 1:43 - 1 tip to have a sexy, powerful partnership over time 5:11 - What's holding couples back? 9:19 - Having a plan 15:54 - What does co-creation mean? Links: Transcript Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" U.S. listeners, sign up for relationship tips and support direct to your phone by texting this number: 720 704 4850 

1 Tip to Have a Sexy and Powerful Partnership Over Time - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 447

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