Your whole life you’ve been taught the importance of having goals. Financial goals, relationship goals, employment goals. But have you ever experienced the feeling of achieving your goals… only to find yourself with an empty feeling? Somehow, the accomplishment wasn’t as fulfilling as you expected it to be. In this episode, Ray and Christy discuss how to experience fulfillment before you achieve your goals, why you are preventing yourself from feeling joy, and a simple method for controlling your emotions when you are angry or stressed out. Show Highlights Include: The “relax and release” method for regaining control of your emotional response (2:43) The valuable lesson that your day-to-day stresses and inconveniences teach you (4:40) A key question to ask yourself when you begin to get irritated with someone else (5:42) How you prevent yourself from experiencing peace, love, and joy (10:18) The secret to enduring all your pain and struggle well (12:38) The truth about why achieving goals leaves you empty (13:56) Why striving for something only pushes it farther away from you (17:27) Doing this is preventing you from moving forward to improve your life (32:46) Ready to co-create the perfect life with your partner? Head over to http://bothonboard.com/ to get your free special report on “7 Game-changers for Highly Effective Entrepreneurial Couples” and level up your life, business, and relationship.

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The Growing of Consciousness, Ep #56

The current situation in the world seems as though it is causing stress and emotional difficulty for a lot of people. However, things may not be as simple as they appear. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by things going on around you, there is good news. You can control how you respond to stressful situations. In this episode, Ray and Christy discuss how you are preventing yourself from experiencing happiness, why challenging circumstances aren’t the cause of your emotional distress, and several little-known benefits of meditation. Show Highlights Include: Doing this is destroying any potential you have for happiness (8:54) The two ways you can choose to respond when the world challenges you (8:35) This is what keeps you from enjoying your life all the time (13:13) Why your current situation is actually NOT what’s causing your emotional distress (14:03) The truth about why your partners see things differently than you (21:10) This little-known meditation benefit can change your life (21:46) Having this response to difficult experiences is the most damaging thing you can do to yourself (27:26) Ready to co-create the perfect life with your partner? Head over to http://bothonboard.com/ to get your free special report on “7 Game-changers for Highly Effective Entrepreneurial Couples” and level up your life, business, and relationship.

How to Surrender and Stop Living an Illusion, Ep #55

The current economic situation is turning the real estate market completely upside down. In case you don’t recognize it, we’ve never seen anything like this before. This is going to be very bad for a lot of people, but it doesn’t have to be bad for YOU. In this episode, Ray gives his best tips for adjusting your mindset to the current situation, what you should really be paying attention to in the news, and the absolute best real estate moves you can make right now. Show Highlights Include: The winner’s mindset you must have to make smart moves when the market is tanking (5:23) This is the single most important thing you can do with your time right now (7:01) Why taking a loss on a property might be the smartest move (16:16) If you’re still making decisions based on this, you may as well start looking for a job now (19:42) This should be your top priority right now if you want to get back into business after the current crisis is over (30:50) This skill is essential to taking advantage of the market TODAY (33:48) Why forgivable loans will not solve your business problems and what to focus on instead (37:23) This GO-TO strategy is the only one you should be using for deals at the moment (46:09) These investments are the only ones that will profit in the current climate (60:00) Be sure to check out the video version of this interview! Ready to co-create the perfect life with your partner? Head over to http://bothonboard.com/ to get your free special report on “7 Game-changers for Highly Effective Entrepreneurial Couples” and level up your life, business, and relationship.

How to Win When Everyone Else Is Afraid of Losing w/Shut Up and Invest, Ep #54

It’s easy to get caught up in the bad news that seems to get worse and worse every day. So how can you stay a part of the world without letting the negativity drag you down? One way is to consider what the universe is trying to tell you through all this. In this episode, Ray and Christy are joined by Candice Rasa, and they discuss why all this bad news is actually a good sign, how to care for yourself during times of intense stress, and how to position yourself for huge success when we get through this difficult time. Show Highlights Include: Why world events that seem like disasters are actually a good sign (2:10) How embracing the “new normal” will make you more successful no matter what happens next (4:41) Why fluidity and flow are the most important concepts for you to grasp right now (6:30) The secret to unlocking the growth that these emotions are leading you to (7:25) How to optimize your body’s systems for peak performance (9:15) This is one of your most powerful attributes for reshaping your life (12:27) Why failing governments, healthcare systems, and more shouldn’t worry you (13:22) The incredibly powerful question to ask yourself… that just might change the world (14:57) Ready to co-create the perfect life with your partner? Head over to http://bothonboard.com/ to get your free special report on “7 Game-changers for Highly Effective Entrepreneurial Couples” and level up your life, business, and relationship.

Why You Don't Need to Worry w/Candice Rasa, EP #53

What do you worry about most? Fear, stress, and material concerns affect many people. So how do you overcome these fears to lead a happier and more fulfilling life? One tool that can be extremely helpful is the Akashic Record. In this episode, Ray and Christy are joined by spiritual coach Candace Rossa, and they discuss how to grow in your spiritual life, the habits that are keeping you stuck where you are, and how to relate to those around you who are stuck in lower spiritual dimensions. Show Highlights Include: What the Akashic Record is and how it directly impacts your life (2:27) The dimension you currently exist in and where you ultimately want to be (4:03) How to align this spiritual reality with your current religious beliefs, even if they seem incompatible (8:56) Doing this is preventing you from reaching your spiritual AND material goals (12:50) How to transition to a more holistic view of your life (13:45) This energy is the most difficult to work with and is holding you back from the life you desire (14:11) The secret to embracing greater spirituality when you feel stuck (19:15) Ready to co-create the perfect life with your partner? Head over to http://bothonboard.com/ to get your free special report on “7 Game-changers for Highly Effective Entrepreneurial Couples” and level up your life, business, and relationship.

The Secret to Spiritual Growth w/Candice Rasa, Ep #52

In light of widespread panic over recent events, many people are looking for answers on how to deal with difficult times. Fortunately, there are a number of ways you can bring light to the world in a dark time, and they begin with shifting your mindset on what reality truly is. In this episode, Ray and Dr Kirby Hotchner discuss the importance of vision, why forgiveness is essential, and spiritual practices to help calm and refocus your mind. Show Highlights Include: The life-changing difference between vision and sight (1:32) Why everything you’ve been taught about loss and gain is a lie (2:50) The most important act you can commit for yourself and others (5:56) This powerful transformation can only come through forgiveness (8:27) Why loving your neighbor is essential to your own well-being (9:15) The easy way to begin a meditation practice, even if you’ve failed in the past (12:39) How to use the “one monkey effect” to change the world (15:15) Why science and spirituality must be connected to function properly (18:20) How to surrender to God without abandoning your responsibilities (21:23) Ready to co-create the perfect life with your partner? Head over to http://bothonboard.com/ to get your free special report on “7 Game-changers for Highly Effective Entrepreneurial Couples” and level up your life, business, and relationship.

The Magic of Vision w/Dr. Kirby Hotchner, Ep #51

It is easy to get wrapped up in the emotions of other people when it seems as though the entire world has descended into panic and chaos. But it doesn’t have to be that way. What should you do when everyone around you has given in to fear? In this episode, Ray and Dr. Kirby Hotchner discuss the best way to gain perspective in times of panic, individual practices that can help center you, and how to come out of difficult times stronger and more balanced. Show Highlights Include: This is the #1 skill to develop for a happy and fulfilled life (2:44) The surprising source of all the fear in the world (4:12) Why the current stressful situation can actually benefit anyone who takes this approach (7:00) There is no power outside of this one source (8:34) The one daily practice that can help you eradicate fear from your life (9:10) The one powerful thing you must realize about fear that can free you (16:49) Doing this only prolongs the suffering that you experience in a negative situation (19:43) Ready to co-create the perfect life with your partner? Head over to http://bothonboard.com/ to get your free special report on “7 Game-changers for Highly Effective Entrepreneurial Couples” and level up your life, business, and relationship.

The True Source of Your Power w/Dr. Kirby Hotchner, Ep #50

If you’ve ever experienced a lack of money, or recognized that your relationship with money was always based in fear or lack, listen up. Whether you realize it or not, your internal thoughts and feelings about money can affect external wealth.  In this episode, Ray and Christy discuss why money along can’t make you happy, how to increase your internal feeling of abundance, and how to crush your limiting beliefs to experience your own wealth breakthrough. Show Highlights Include: Why chasing money ultimately leaves you wealthy but unfulfilled (7:27) This uncommon definition will help you keep money in proper perspective (7:51) This single word is the key to unlocking all the abundance you ever desired (9:14) If you constantly feel like there’s never enough money, this perspective shift will get you back on track (12:27) If you rely on this one thing for security, you’ll always feel vulnerable (14:22) You must address this specific shortcoming in order to attain true, abundant wealth (16:27) Feelings of abundance must begin here or you’ll always experience lack (22:25) Ready to co-create the perfect life with your partner? Head over to http://bothonboard.com/ to get your free special report on “7 Game-changers for Highly Effective Entrepreneurial Couples” and level up your life, business, and relationship.

Repairing Your Relationship with Money, Ep #49

Hi! We are Ray Gonzalez and Christy Risco and we are a couple who are obsessed with figuring out new ways of showing up to Life AND to Business that feel authentic and expansive. Our goal is to give you a framework, along with real-life examples, of what we learned and incorporated into our journey in the last 10 years that helped us develop at a much more rapid pace in the direction we wanted to go in, rather than continuing to hit our heads against a brick wall. We'll guide you on how to get on board with each other as a couple while also staying true to yourself to co-create a Lifestyle and a Business that serves you, rather than you constantly serving it.

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