Meet today's guest, Devoreaux Walton, an author and confidence coach who serves as the CEO and Founder at The Modern Lady, a lifestyle company that educates and empowers women to live their best lives. Walton and her team teach women worldwide how to elevate their lives with elegance – helping them to unlock and unleash their feminine power through coaching, courses and community. Walton knows the power of mindset, wardrobe and charisma, and teaches timeless life principles for women to upgrade the essence of their chic selves to truly thrive. A Spelman College graduate with a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology and a Washington University in St. Louis graduate with a Master’s degree in Business Administration, Walton is candid about sharing lessons learned from her corporate career at Google and IBM to inform and inspire her clients. A southern belle from Atlanta, Georgia, Walton currently resides in Dallas, Texas, with her Maltipoo daughter, Nyla. To learn more please visit www.TheModernLady.com. This is your one-stop shop for style, fashion, health, and fitness. Deidra’s passion is to help empower women. Deidra is Mrs. Washington 2017, has a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Whitworth University, and is a professional fashion stylist and health guru that helps women become more confident both inside and out.  Check out her story, free resources, and more at: FREE Wardrobe Checklist www.StyleByDeidra.com & www.TheSynergyChallenge.com Insatgram@StyleByDeidra   facebook.com/StyleByDeidra/ twitter.com/stylebydeidra

Miss Style, Strength and Grace with Deidra Murphy

83: The Modern Lady

Oh no, do you look frumpy or like a frazzled mess? This not only keeps you from feeling AH-mazing when you look in the mirror, but it also keeps you from reaching your potential every day. Not to mention, these three mistakes are actually VERY common mistakes a lot of women are making.  How we look on the outside IS a reflection of how we feel on the inside. Find out today if you are making one or more of these mistakes, PLUS find out how to fix them and my cheats/hacks for helping you look your best, every day!  To listen to my episode I mention in the podcast ALL about the biggest style mistakes women make, click here.   This is your one-stop shop for style, fashion, health and fitness. Deidra’s passion is to help empower women. Deidra is Mrs. Washington 2017, has a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Whitworth University, and is a professional fashion stylist and health guru that helps women become more confident both inside and out.  Check out her story, free resources, and more at: FREE Wardrobe Checklist www.StyleByDeidra.com & www.TheSynergyChallenge.com Insatgram@StyleByDeidra   facebook.com/StyleByDeidra/ twitter.com/stylebydeidra    

82: Do you Look Frumpy?

In today's podcast, meet Gretchen: Gretchen is one of my in-person styling clients. When she and I first started working on her style and image, she thought it was just a surface issue. She she *thought* just needed some "new clothes." As we started working together, I discovered the issue was much deeper than just not having enough clothing in her closet or having items that fit/flattered her figure (which side note, there usually is a deeper issue that becomes a limiting belief). The issue was that now being an empty-nester, her kids had grown and moved out, Gretchen truly didn't feel inspired by her closet anymore, hadn't actually shopped for herself in almost 30 years (she still had maternity clothing in there), and was still in the mode of everyone-first-but-me-last mentality. This left her feeling lackluster, uninspired to even get dressed, and worse, like she wasn't WORTHY of dressing for who she was WORTHY of being seen.  Does this sound familiar/similar to you? Listen in to find out HOW by working with a stylist, Gretchen was able to transform her self-worth, spark her love life again, and even travel the world with her spouse. Because let's be honest, if she KNEW how to feel worthy again and transform her self-image, she would have done it on her own already. I guided her and gave her a unique framework to develop her confidence again through the power of style.  Are you ready to find out how to gain your self-worth back through style and get a customized plan of action to achieve it? Email me at deidra@stylebydeidra.com right now or call me at 509-389-8877 to have a free style discovery call where we will come up with a customized style game plan for you.  To listen to my past episode #51, You Can't Give from An Empty Cup, click here.  This is your one-stop shop for style, fashion, health and fitness. Deidra’s passion is to help empower women. Deidra is Mrs. Washington 2017, has a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Whitworth University, and is a professional fashion stylist and health guru that helps women become more confident both inside and out.  Check out her story, free resources, and more at: FREE Wardrobe Checklist www.StyleByDeidra.com & www.TheSynergyChallenge.com Insatgram@StyleByDeidra   facebook.com/StyleByDeidra/ twitter.com/stylebydeidra

81: An Empty Closet - Not Feeling WORTHY

Meet today's guest: Elise Fleming is a 27 year-old high school PE teacher, a fitness influencer, and certified personal trainer, while still finding time to coach volleyball and track+field. If anyone has an excuse to not have time to take care of her health, it would be THIS girl. Join Elise and Deidra on the episode to learn quick exercise hacks and on-the-go snack ideas to stay healthy and reach health goals. Elise also shares her personal story of healthy living and quitting her own EXCUSES! Elise and Deidra both agree that they are secretly best friends with author Rachel Hollis, and may or may not bust out in song during this episode... Get your Journey play-list ready and take notes while Elise shares the best ways to quit your own excuses, find simple ways to exercise, and even how she manages to keep energized in order to be at her best. Even better? Elise shares about the way she connects with other women in-person at meet ups, some of them being everything from coffee or wine sessions to fun boxing lessons! Find out how you can connect by listening in.  Find Elise on Instagram Follow her on Facebook Check out her website This is your one-stop shop for style, fashion, health and fitness. Deidra’s passion is to help empower women. Deidra is Mrs. Washington 2017, has a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Whitworth University, and is a professional fashion stylist and health guru that helps women become more confident both inside and out.  Check out her story, free resources, and more at: FREE Wardrobe Checklist www.StyleByDeidra.com & www.TheSynergyChallenge.com Insatgram@StyleByDeidra   facebook.com/StyleByDeidra/ twitter.com/stylebydeidra

80: Elise Lee Fitness - NO EXCUSES

I'm going to be real, this was literally...the...hardest...episode... I have ever recorded. I tried not to cry or get too emotional on you. Why? Today I am sharing my deepest and fear and current struggle, with my weight, self-image, body-image, and even my fear in regards to *trying* to start a family. Or what I call, trying to have a MOMbod in a 6-pack world.  TRUTH: I am 10 pounds heavier than my normal self. That means most of my jeans currently don't fit, I don't fully look at myself in the mirror right now, and I am trying to be okay with it. I know, that all sounds super shallow. YES I am already debating in my head whether or not to even share this episode, or this description right now, because it might make me seem like a shallow person.  BUT I am going to challenge myself to be real, vulnerable, and to share the hard things. I am sharing this today to vocalize what I am struggling with. If I am struggling with the negative self talk, the destructive behavior, and body image issues, I know other women are struggling too.   Find out WHY I am actually NOT trying to lose the weight, why I feel like it is important to share and be vulnerable about my current struggle, and HOW we can be there for one another. By sharing today's episode, I hope to inspire you to not give up on yourself - no matter what your struggle is.  For the previous episode/interview I mention with Pastor Arron Chambers, check out that episode right here. This is your one-stop shop for style, fashion, health and fitness. Deidra’s passion is to help empower women. Deidra is Mrs. Washington 2017, has a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Whitworth University, and is a professional fashion stylist and health guru that helps women become more confident both inside and out.  Check out her story, free resources, and more at: FREE Wardrobe Checklist www.StyleByDeidra.com & www.TheSynergyChallenge.com Insatgram@StyleByDeidra   facebook.com/StyleByDeidra/ twitter.com/stylebydeidra

79: MOMbody in a 6-Pack World

Are you having a bonkers winter where you are at, my dear? I am going on day 3 this week, day 7 total, of being snowed in - we seriously haven't been able to get our cars (even my husband's truck) out of our road because of snow drifts for miles.  It may sound crazy, especially if you live on a road that the city plows, but out in the sticks for us country bumpkins, it is just another day in the frozen tundra. Just the other night in order to get home, we had to take a snowmobile to our place, with luggage! You have to listen to that story at the end of the podcast today, as well as all of our adventures of the snowstorm of February 2019. Here's the thing: I could get upset, feel sorry for myself, and even complain all day long. But that wouldn't get me out of the house, or create any positives in my life. So rather than whine, I decided to think about the biggest life lessons this snowpocalypse has taught me, and how you can create Snow ANGELS out of Snow, no matter what the storm of life is dumping on you. I hope you enjoy today's episode and the 5 biggest life lessons from the snow! This is your one-stop shop for style, fashion, health and fitness. Deidra’s passion is to help empower women. Deidra is Mrs. Washington 2017, has a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Whitworth University, and is a professional fashion stylist and health guru that helps women become more confident both inside and out.  Check out her story, free resources, and more at: FREE Wardrobe Checklist www.StyleByDeidra.com & www.TheSynergyChallenge.com Insatgram@StyleByDeidra   facebook.com/StyleByDeidra/ twitter.com/stylebydeidra  

78: When Life Dumps Snow on You, Make Snow Angels.

It is Valentine's day my loves! In celebration of love, relationships and marriage, join my husband and I as we chat with our actual marriage coach+pastor, Arron Chambers. Arron is unapologetic in his approach to coaching (not cheerleading) the couples and individuals he works with. I cannot say enough about how incredibly insightful and impactful Arron's coaching has been for my marriage. Tune in to find out his action steps, tips, and tools for a closer and Christ-centered marriage.   Arron Chambers, author of Running on Empty: Life Lessons to Refuel Your Life (Life Journey/Cook Communications, 2005), Scripture to Live By (Adams Media, 2007), and Remember Who You Are! (Standard Publishing, July 2007), Yendo Con El Tanque Vacío (Spanish Translation of Running on Empty--Zondervan, November 2007), Go! (Standard Publishing, July 2009), Eats With Sinners (Standard, November 2009), Narrow-Minded Evangelism (Exponential, April 2014), and Devoted (NavPress/Tyndale, 2014), and Eats With Sinners (NavPress/Tyndale June 2017) is the Lead Minister of Journey Christian Church—a mega church in Greeley, Colorado.    He is also the Founder of Connect: A Leadership Network (40+ churches all over North America), a marriage coach, a High School Track & Cross Country coach, an inspirational speaker who speaks to thousands of people each year, husband of a lovely wife, and the father of 4 beautiful children, and Grandfather to a precious little girl named, Nevada.    Arron is also the Executive Producer and Screenwriter for an upcoming film (The Rose of Windsor) about a preacher with marital problems who finds hope through the true story of an ex-con who received grace despite his battle with drug addiction and domestic abuse.    For more information: www.arronchambers.com To follow him on Facebook To learn about Journey Christian Church   This is your one-stop shop for style, fashion, health and fitness. Deidra’s passion is to help empower women. Deidra is Mrs. Washington 2017, has a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Whitworth University, and is a professional fashion stylist and health guru that helps women become more confident both inside and out.  Check out her story, free resources, and more at: FREE Wardrobe Checklist www.StyleByDeidra.com & www.TheSynergyChallenge.com Insatgram@StyleByDeidra   facebook.com/StyleByDeidra/ twitter.com/stylebydeidra 

77: NOT your Cheerleader, but your Marriage COACH - Pastor Arron Chambers

It is the month of love, and as a special episode in honor of Valentine's Day, I wanted to share an episode with my forever Valentine, my husband, Chris Murphy. Today meet my hubby and learn our 5 tips for a healthy, happy, fun, and strong marriage. With today's "interview" with my spouse, I asked us 5 questions with the best ways we have learned to show up for each other, make the most of our limited time together, and continue to grow both separately and together.  Some of our answers are similar, but some of our answers will definitely surprise you. Plus we are sharing the dorky ways we have fun together and continue to surprise one another even after 6 years of marriage. Both Chris and I hope that by sharing what works in our marriage today that we can help you become closer in your relationship with your partner and increase the love, passion, and happiness within your spouse or significant other. We are by no means perfect or have it all figured out, but let us know what you think of today's episode by leaving a review on iTunes, Stitcher, or Google Play, as it will help us improve the messages/episodes in the future.  Follow Dr. Chris on Facebook Check out his website, here  Be sure to listen to his podcast, Happy Healthy Hormones right here as well.  This is your one-stop shop for style, fashion, health and fitness. Deidra’s passion is to help empower women. Deidra is Mrs. Washington 2017, has a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Whitworth University, and is a professional fashion stylist and health guru that helps women become more confident both inside and out.  Check out her story, free resources, and more at: FREE Wardrobe Checklist www.StyleByDeidra.com & www.TheSynergyChallenge.com Insatgram@StyleByDeidra   facebook.com/StyleByDeidra/ twitter.com/stylebydeidra

76: Language of Love with the LOVE of my Life

As a former army brat who grew up in Germany and Korea who went on to become a member of the Air force, Tanji is no stranger to discipline and a strong work ethic. After separating from the armed services, Tanji went on to get involved in Fitness training and competitions, as a fun way to promote a healthy lifestyle. You might even recognize Tanji from her role as “stealth” on NBC’s American Gladiators.  I hope you listen in to the episode today to hear incredible insight from Tanji, as well as amazing stories of how she not only redefines the traditional standard of femininity and beauty, but get her TIPS on how to push yourself to the next level - no matter what your goals are. PLUS you will find out how I was lucky enough to meet the official Tanji Johnson in person! To follow Tanji on Instagram click here Check out Tanji on Facebook www.tanjijohnson.com This is your one-stop shop for style, fashion, health and fitness. Deidra’s passion is to help empower women. Deidra is Mrs. Washington 2017, has a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Whitworth University, and is a professional fashion stylist and health guru that helps women become more confident both inside and out.  Check out her story, free resources, and more at: FREE Wardrobe Checklist www.StyleByDeidra.com & www.TheSynergyChallenge.com Insatgram@StyleByDeidra   facebook.com/StyleByDeidra/ twitter.com/stylebydeidra

75: Defining Her own Beauty - Tanji Johnson

"If I fall asleep at this exact moment... I will get 5 hours of sleep. Okay I can function on 5...  An hour later... Okay, if I fall asleep right now, I will get 4 hours of sleep. Better than nothing... Okay, its 6:00 am, can I please just get an hour nap? No? Oh, okay..." Have you ever been there? Battling with insomnia, depression, anxiety, or something similar? I get it. If you have been following my journey for a little bit, you know a little bit about my struggles with debilitating insomnia, anxiety, and depression. (to here my full journey to health, listen to episode number 1, Deidra's Journey. Things are much better now, but I am no where near a perfect record for consecutive nights of sleep. Of course, whenever a big launch, one-on-one session, or presentation is coming up for me... I...DON"T...SLEEP. Period.  I didn't sleep the night before my online live masterclass - where over 600 women had registered to learn my tips to looking polished and pulled together. I wasn't energized, I wanted to quit, and I wanted to be a VICTIM.  It is so easy for me to slip into victimhood, feel sorry for myself, and want to just curl up in a ball on my bed with a blanket and pillow. Have you ever felt that way?  Listen to today's podcast to hear my 4 ACTION steps and tips that you can implement to help fake it till you make it, defeat victimhood, and SHOW up for those around you as the person you need to be. For the book I referenced, Rachel Hollis of Girl Wash Your Face, find it here.  This is your one-stop shop for style, fashion, health and fitness. Deidra’s passion is to help empower women. Deidra is Mrs. Washington 2017, has a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Whitworth University, and is a professional fashion stylist and health guru that helps women become more confident both inside and out.  Check out her story, free resources, and more at: FREE Wardrobe Checklist www.StyleByDeidra.com & www.TheSynergyChallenge.com Insatgram@StyleByDeidra   facebook.com/StyleByDeidra/ twitter.com/stylebydeidra

74: Fake it Until You Make It - Defeating Victim Mentality

What life lessons can a person get from brunch? Can French Toast, mimosas, and onions teach a person anything? As it turns out, YES. The other day I had to learn a valuable life lesson (three lessons actually) about taming my inner b-yotch, reigning back my mean girl, and taking life with flexibility and graciousness.  To learn about today's life lesson, and how it can IMPACT your life for the better, tune into a very special episode of the podcast.  Have you ever caught yourself going down the wrong path, and in that moment knew you needed to snap out of it? Make a 180 degree turn, and take life in stride? I have been there too, listen in to find out what I mean.  This is your one-stop shop for style, fashion, health and fitness. Deidra’s passion is to help empower women. Deidra is Mrs. Washington 2017, has a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Whitworth University, and is a professional fashion stylist and health guru that helps women become more confident both inside and out.  Check out her story, free resources, and more at: FREE Wardrobe Checklist www.StyleByDeidra.com & www.TheSynergyChallenge.com Insatgram@StyleByDeidra   facebook.com/StyleByDeidra/ twitter.com/stylebydeidra

73: Taming My Inner B-yotch

I truly believe that with anything in life, consistency is key. Paired with a grateful heart and the right game plan, any goal can be achieved. Today I am sharing for free, my number one morning ritual and practice that I know to my core has changed the trajectory of my life, business, health, and life goals.  These are the actionable steps that I will break down into easy to follow tips that you can start implementing every day as well. The best part? Not only am I sharing this resource with you today, but it also doesn't cost you a penny! All you need is a pen/paper, and a desire to accomplish your dreams. That is it! Start implementing this practice every day, create a habit, and you will be amazed by the results. Be patient, as all good things (even good habits) take time to become second nature, and take time to create results.  Take a screen shot of this episode and share it on social media, tag me at @stylebydeidra and let me know the goals you will be writing about! Interested in the five minute journal I mentioned? Check it out here: The Five Minute Journal   This is your one-stop shop for style, fashion, health and fitness. Deidra’s passion is to help empower women. Deidra is Mrs. Washington 2017, has a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Whitworth University, and is a professional fashion stylist and health guru that helps women become more confident both inside and out.  Check out her story, free resources, and more at: FREE Wardrobe Checklist www.StyleByDeidra.com & www.TheSynergyChallenge.com Insatgram@StyleByDeidra   facebook.com/StyleByDeidra/ twitter.com/stylebydeidra

72: The Morning Practice that Changed my Life

You know the saying, even a broken watch is right twice a day? Well, Deidra had a broken watch that taught her an even bigger life lesson. What can a broken watch teach a person about gifts, acceptance, and living in a state of gratitude? As it turns out, a lot actually. Tune into today's episode to hear how a watch, a battery, and a grateful heart taught Deidra more than she anticipated.  This is your one-stop shop for style, fashion, health and fitness. Deidra’s passion is to help empower women. Deidra is Mrs. Washington 2017, has a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Whitworth University, and is a professional fashion stylist and health guru that helps women become more confident both inside and out.  Check out her story, free resources, and more at: FREE Wardrobe Checklist www.StyleByDeidra.com & www.TheSynergyChallenge.com Insatgram@StyleByDeidra   facebook.com/StyleByDeidra/ twitter.com/stylebydeidra

71: Don't Refuse the Gift!

Black Friday is over and as a personal stylist, I actually avoided the shopping and sales like the plague! Does that surprise you? Many friends and family are shocked every year when I explain that I don't black Friday shop (actually for a lot of reasons), and then I explain what I always spend my holiday weekend actually doing... The Murphy duo become hermits on the weekend after Thanksgiving, seriously. My husband and I seclude ourselves from the world and take an entire day to become Goal Diggers. Now I know I didn't coin that term, (thank you to Jenna Kutcher for the term Goal Digger), but I think it is a great way to explain what I spend an entire day doing with my husband. We reflect on the previous year's goals, what big accomplishments were reached, where do we each need to reassess and change our personal/couple/business goals, and where do we see the next year taking us. Would you like to know our secrets, steps, and actionable ways to create concrete and attainable (aka measurable) goals? Listen to today's episode to become crystal clear on how to goal set, dream build, and create the best year yet in order to make 2019 a year of goal digging and make it your b****!  This is your one-stop shop for style, fashion, health and fitness. Deidra’s passion is to help empower women. Deidra is Mrs. Washington 2017, has a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Whitworth University, and is a professional fashion stylist and health guru that helps women become more confident both inside and out.  Check out her story, free resources, and more at: FREE Wardrobe Checklist www.StyleByDeidra.com & www.TheSynergyChallenge.com Insatgram@StyleByDeidra   facebook.com/StyleByDeidra/ twitter.com/stylebydeidra    

70: Goal Digging - Make 2019 Your B Word!

Don’t give up, give back!  With the Thanksgiving season and holidays right around the corner, the consumerism is all around us. It can be an easy time to spiral into a state of overwhelm, hustle and bustle, and even the constant need to put things off until the “holidays are over” and wait until life “settle down.”  Are you there already? Stressed about what to give as the perfect gift, or what to buy? Well in today’s podcast, I am actually talking about ways to GIVE that don’t include a price tag, receipt, or 2-day shipping. That’s right, we are talking about what it means to truly give back. How to give back, why it is important to do so – not just during the holiday season.  Is there an organization you have benefitted from personally? A group or foundation you have always admired, maybe written a check out to, or attended a fundraiser for? It is time to take things into the next phase of giving and share your personal time, talents, and treasure with the groups and communities that help serve those in need. In today’s episode, I am sharing the 3 reasons why you should find avenues to give back, as well as action steps to find groups that fit your passions, time, and purpose. In the season of giving, let’s find ways to connect us in meaningful avenues, love, and spirit This is your one-stop shop for style, fashion, health and fitness. Deidra’s passion is to help empower women. Deidra is Mrs. Washington 2017, has a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Whitworth University, and is a professional fashion stylist and health guru that helps women become more confident both inside and out.  Check out her story, free resources, and more at: FREE Wardrobe Checklist www.StyleByDeidra.com  & www.TheSynergyChallenge.com Insatgram@StyleByDeidra   facebook.com/StyleByDeidra/ twitter.com/stylebydeidra YouTube: Deidra Murphy Deidra on LinkedIn

69: Don't Give Up, Give BACK!

This is your one stop shop for style, fashion, health and fitness. Deidra’s passion is to help empower women, to reach their fullest potential both inside and out. Deidra and her guests will be discussing how to develop your style, health and lifestyle hacks to energize your day, and inspire you to keep reaching higher levels of success. Deidra is a professional fashion stylist, health guru, and Mrs. Washington 2017.

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